Do you hate everything about your life ?

[MaxManwell]

Sweety YOU own NO ONE..................human beings are no ones property.as I said before a counsler will do you wonders. I wonder what you think of your mother

 

Thats true I was speaking figuratively and I am not in a very good position.

[johan]

Knock yourself out, Max. The fact of life is there will always be someone smarter and better around to tell you what to do. And in many cases that person will be a woman. I personally think you're in big trouble if you aren't faking all this. I think it would be pretty entertaining to see you in action.

[MaxManwell]

Knock yourself out, Max. The fact of life is there will always be someone smarter and better around to tell you what to do. And in many cases that person will be a woman. I personally think you're in big trouble if you aren't faking all this. I think it would be pretty entertaining to see you in action.

 

I'm tall and handsome and hard working most female bosses have loved me. I have no problems working for a Woman. I do have a problem, with working for idiots.

[Geishawhelk]

Max....

You don't get it do you?

 

YOU'RE the idiot you're working 'with'.

 

Unless you personally address your situation, and work to get yourself out of it, and to where you really want to be - without being a cruel, egotistic, dominant jerk - then you'll always be in places like this, moaning about it.

 

The only one who can grab your particular 'bull' by the horns, is you.

 

Every time I've asked you what you're going to do about it, or how you're going to tackle the mess you're in (and 'you' put you there!) you've never bothered - or have avoided - answering the question.

 

So really, I don't care what you do. It doesn't bother me, and it doesn't affect me.

 

If you stay where you are and continue moaning, well, hard luck you, suck it up.

If on the other hand, you get off your seat and decide on something a little more constructive, then go for it.

But quit sitting on the fence.

Sooner or later, the splinters get through.

[Cherry Blossom 35]

They're mine I own them.

 

Oh Lord, what do we have here. Sounds like wishful thinking here, Max.

 

I seriously hope you get some help, because you need it. i wasn't kidding when I said you sound like a 3rd grader. Sorry, but you do.

 

Have you tried therapy? Why don't you look into it? You could find someone you are comfortable with. You will never change your lot in life with your attitude. Sorry, but that's true. You've had a rough time of it, I know. Complaining won't do you any good. In fact, it makes it much worse. You just get bogged down in negative feelings.

 

Your thinking is seriously warped, but it doesn't have to stay that way.

Look inside, Max, look inside. It's scary but ultimately so rewarding. There is goodness in all of us, and hope, and enlightenment, but only if we strip away the superficial and dig down deep.

[MaxManwell]

I can't help it I just don't care about certain people. There are some people I identify with as deserving sympathy and others I think it would be enjoyable to torment for my own benefit. I'm not heartless, I just think that many of the modern sympathies are misplaced. If I work hard, become a professional and get a job in an office where women act as administration support why can't I derive a sense of dominance, and thereby pleasure ? What is so wrong with admitting that is what I want to feel. Bossing around a team of attractive women would be fantastic. What an feeling it must be to arrive to work everyday and know that you are above all of these other people, and all of these by default valuable, attractive women.

 

Doesn't it fit perfectly with your view of yourself and the world ?

 

Why do you insist that this makes me a bad guy ?

 

The spotty 22 year old male at the deep fryer at McDonald's gets my respect I would never do anything to hurt someone like that. Man or woman it does not matter. Yet most people would speak cruelly of that young man. Most people go exactly out of their way to hurt someone like that.

 

You keep making references to the third world in this thread when it is totally irrelevant to me and my situation. .

[blair08]

You know what I honestly think sometimes.

 

That most women are too stupid to understand decency and therefore should be mistreated and bossed around by a person like me.

 

You know why ? because change the situation and reverse the power role and you will see some horrible, nasty and draconian little harpies that are not intelligent enough to understand kindness or look past a situation that benefits them for the sake of another person.

 

Then I calm myself down and try to think of the truly selfless things women have done and I come up rather short but there are some truly decent and humble women out there. Intelligence also comes in many forms and I am reminded that I am not always the logical creature I try as shown by my initial state of anger.

 

 

Was it your mother that hurt you? Or some other woman in your life?

[MaxManwell]

Bit of both really, does it make a difference ?

[blair08]

Bit of both really, does it make a difference ?

 

 

No, I don't suppose it makes a difference really.

 

I was just wondering because you seem to have anger or bitterness towards mostly females. So I thought maybe it was due to someone hurting you. I'm not saying I blame you for feeling the way you do.

 

I'm sorry that happened. I hope that you know in time, that not ALL females are like the ones that hurt you.

[Taramere]

Bossing around a team of attractive women would be fantastic. What an feeling it must be to arrive to work everyday and know that you are above all of these other people, and all of these by default valuable, attractive women.

 

Did you know that the crashing dead notes just before the chorus in Creep were the guitarist's efforts to sabotage a song he hated, because he thought it was too wimpy?

 

Instead, it worked so well that it doomed the entire band to eternal association with an anthem of angsty, angry self loathing that they were harangued to play long after they'd grown out of it. I feel that there's some kind of important point in that for you, but I'm not quite sure what it is yet.

[MaxManwell]

Did you know that the crashing dead notes just before the chorus in Creep were the guitarist's efforts to sabotage a song he hated, because he thought it was too wimpy?

 

Instead, it worked so well that it doomed the entire band to eternal association with an anthem of angsty, angry self loathing that they were harangued to play long after they'd grown out of it. I feel that there's some kind of important point in that for you, but I'm not quite sure what it is yet.

 

What is creep ?

[Taramere]

What is creep ?

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nxpblnsJEWM

[MaxManwell]

*pointless post deleted

[Geishawhelk]

If you could, I'd advise you to do much the same with the rest of your posts....

 

Max.

I'm going to say this one last time.

keep thinking negative thoughts, keep saying negative words, keep doing negative things, and all you will get in return is negative consequences and negative results.

What you give out, you get back.

 

Take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror.

Now imagine it's someone else, looking at you.

Now smile.

see how different you look?

 

Which image do you prefer?

 

Do you care?

You should.

 

Do you talk and act this way with the people you work with currently?

Do you know what their opinion of you is?

 

Do you care?

You most definitely should.

 

The less you care about people, and what they think of you, the less they'll care about you, and what you think.

 

The only way to change what's out there, is to change what's "In here"....

[johan]

*pointless post deleted

 

Why only that one?

[BiAxident]

Deleting the rest of them would be tantamount to conforming to a society that holds him down and prevents him from using female coworkers's breasts as pillows, punching bags, and towels to dry his hands off on.

[american-woman]

Bit of both really, does it make a difference ?

 

 

Yes it does usually men like you have mommy issues. Did you have a domineering mother?

[MaxManwell]

Yes it does usually men like you have mommy issues. Did you have a domineering mother?

 

Used to be but not anymore.

[MaxManwell]

Do we really have mommy issues or did someone just make that up ?

 

Sounds so condescending doesn't it ? 'Mommy issues'.

[Trialbyfire]

Deleting the rest of them would be tantamount to conforming to a society that holds him down and prevents him from using female coworkers's breasts as pillows, punching bags, and towels to dry his hands off on.

 

OP, why are you so afraid of losing control to women? Can't you just see us as people?

[MaxManwell]

 

OP, why are you so afraid of losing control to women? Can't you just see us as people?

 

I don't know the modern woman expects to much it is an annoying person. They have no honor, yet honor somehow demands I treat them as an equal.

[Trialbyfire]

I don't know the modern woman expects to much it is an annoying person. They have no honor, yet honor somehow demands I treat them as an equal.

Where I sit is that you'll find honourable people and not so honourable people. I've seen horrific behaviour from both men and women. If honour is important to you, filter out individuals, rather than groups.

 

Also, you hold yourself up to someone else's bar then hate them when you can't meet that bar. In reality, do you really know what their bar is?

 

I've only once tried to prove myself to someone else and found it the most demeaning experience ever. Never again. I am who I am and you can shove it if you don't like it. Y'know?

[Geishawhelk]

Do we really have mommy issues or did someone just make that up ?

 

Sounds so condescending doesn't it ? 'Mommy issues'.

 

Oh right.

And you don't think this idiotic idea of being able to "boss around a team of fantastic women" is condescending?

 

It's fatuous, outdated and heaves you definitely into the minority.

 

The amount of people who have posted in this thread - and not one of them agrees with your point of view, male or female....

 

I'd say you really ned to evaluate your condescending ideas and grow up.

[MaxManwell]

Oh right.

And you don't think this idiotic idea of being able to "boss around a team of fantastic women" is condescending?

 

It's fatuous, outdated and heaves you definitely into the minority.

 

The amount of people who have posted in this thread - and not one of them agrees with your point of view, male or female....

 

I'd say you really ned to evaluate your condescending ideas and grow up.

 

You assume there is something wrong with being condescended or bossed around.

[MaxManwell]

Where I sit is that you'll find honourable people and not so honourable people. I've seen horrific behaviour from both men and women. If honour is important to you, filter out individuals, rather than groups.

 

Also, you hold yourself up to someone else's bar then hate them when you can't meet that bar. In reality, do you really know what their bar is?

 

I've only once tried to prove myself to someone else and found it the most demeaning experience ever. Never again. I am who I am and you can shove it if you don't like it. Y'know?

 

That is true perhaps I am just unlucky with my experiences with women as such unaffectionate, yet demanding people.