indianlover Posted June 1, 2008 Share Posted June 1, 2008 So I wrote a while ago that a MM #2 (not really a married guy this time, just someone in a long distance relationship) was going to be trouble for me. Three months later I (and he) really fell hard for each other, but he still refused to leave her. The physical contact escalated to cuddling and me staying over at his place but nothing more. When I found out his girlfriend was coming to visit (I think she got whiff of hat was going on) I decided it as time to go NC with him. He refuses to believe he's done anything wrong to me and her, so I think this was best. She came over this weekend and since we have mutual friends ended up bumping into them and awkwardly meeting her. My good friends gave him a hard time (and tried to drop hints about his behavior for her to pick up), but who knows. I'm still NC despite this run in. He thinks me not talking to him is immature and stupid, but I can't imagine ever talking to him again without some admission of wrong doing on his part. Even if he was to apologize / admit guilt I am not in a emotionally good place to be friends with him. So here I am, NC again. Link to post Share on other sites
nadiaj2727 Posted June 1, 2008 Share Posted June 1, 2008 Well it seems you realize you've gotten yourself into more drama again, maybe this time you can take this time to focus on YOU and deciding who NOT to be with in the future... guys who are attached to other women. It doesn't seem to work out very well for you so I'm glad you've realized this. Good luck with NC, I'd suggest maybe going online or out with friends and finding a SINGLE guy to date... maybe you'll have more luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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