scarlet1520 Posted July 21, 2003 Posted July 21, 2003 I have fallen for my ex boyfriend's best friend. We are all good friends still though. I have know all these people for years and my ex (Jay) and i broke up 2 years ago. The best friend (Andy) always liked me. He asked Jay if he could start seeing me when we broke up which did not go over well. I didnt have the same feelings for andy then, but over the years i have fallen head over heels. We'd be perfect for each other. How do I tell andy how i feel....or should I? What about Jay? Please i need lots of advice
Tony T Posted July 21, 2003 Posted July 21, 2003 Just tell Andy straight away. Jay has been out of your romantic life for two years and it shouldn't bother him at this point. Take the bull by the horns. If you and Andy have a torch for each other, it ought to be acted upon. If Jay doesn't understand at this point, he's got a real problem and he's not much of a friend.
jessicakicksbut Posted July 21, 2003 Posted July 21, 2003 I agree with Tony...you guys have been broken up for a while so, unless Jay still has feelings harbored for you, it should all be water under the bridge right now.
jessicakicksbut Posted July 21, 2003 Posted July 21, 2003 Just be honest with him, and then both of you tell Jay together.
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