Baldy Posted July 21, 2003 Share Posted July 21, 2003 I am in the middle of reconciling a relationship. It may work out, it may not. We were going out for a few months then split for a few weeks. We are back in communication and planning on going away soon to see if we can sort 'us' out! My question is this: It is her birthday on Saturday and I am not sure if I should get her anything? If I should, what? I was thinking about maybe just a nice card or something - I have not been in this kind of situation before so don't know the rules. Any thoughts much appreciated! PS As this is a very delicate time in our relationship, I want to be very careful and not risk blowing it! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted July 21, 2003 Share Posted July 21, 2003 If you a trying to reconcile, you better be pretty nice to her for her birthday but just don't overdo a celebration. I would get her a very nice card, a small...simple gift, and take her out to a moderately nice dinner somewhere. After all, it's not like you're strangers...you are trying to get back together. Just don't make a big issue out of the evening but be sure she knows you're wanting her to have a nice birthday. If she's not available on her birthday, get together with her on an alternate day. Link to post Share on other sites
PurpleAngel Posted July 23, 2003 Share Posted July 23, 2003 I would get her a nice card, and write something that will explain to her what she means to you. I would get her something else to do with it though. I am not sure what she is like so I can’t suggest appropriate things BUT I would say at the least get her some lovely flowers. They always go down well in the sweet and romantic department. Maybe take her out to dinner at a nice restaurant too! Good Luck ~PurpleAngel~ Link to post Share on other sites
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