Should You Confront OM/OW?

[shakenandstirred]

I have heard many say that you shouldn't. But I say bullshiggidy!!! I would confront them and put the fear of God in them. Most say don't because you could wind up in jail if an altercation occurs. There are ways to confront someone and not be violent and they know you mean business. Most OM/OW do not wish to be at the hands of an angry significant other. They will be shocked at first and then immediately want to get out of your presence because they can see and feel the rage. Some say that the OM/OW won't care, but I bet the first thing they do is call the significant other and tell them what happened. I would say if you are divorcing, don't bother..but if you are trying to work it out..It's LET'S GET READY TO RUUUUMMMBBLE!! time

[JackJack]

I have heard many say that you shouldn't. But I say bullshiggidy!!! I would confront them and put the fear of God in them. Most say don't because you could wind up in jail if an altercation occurs. There are ways to confront someone and not be violent and they know you mean business. Most OM/OW do not wish to be at the hands of an angry significant other. They will be shocked at first and then immediately want to get out of your presence because they can see and feel the rage. Some say that the OM/OW won't care, but I bet the first thing they do is call the significant other and tell them what happened. I would say if you are divorcing, don't bother..but if you are trying to work it out..It's LET'S GET READY TO RUUUUMMMBBLE!! time

 

I say, people should do whatever they feel they need to do. However, just because you might feel you could confront them and handle things well, doesn't mean they will respond well.

[shakenandstirred]

I say, people should do whatever they feel they need to do. However, just because you might feel you could confront them and handle things well, doesn't mean they will respond well.

I can agree with that.