sweetlee102 Posted June 3, 2008 Share Posted June 3, 2008 Hi everybody, this is my first post, although in the last week I have been reading alot of all of yours and figured I would give it a shot. I have been with my boyfriend for five months. I am almost 30 he is 37. Things are going so well. We both have a myspace, i dont go on all that much nor does he but we have been taking some pictures and he did put some of us on there yesterday. I was very flattered. His main pic is one of the two of us. He also put some pics of just him up there including one i took of his bare back, with his tat showing. He does have one of them on there already and i was surprised when he put that one up. I dont like that its there i kind of joked around and said oh I see you put that sexy pic of your back up there so im sure you will get some comments from the girls on your buddy list. (i dont know them) I dont know i mean yea im going to put pics of just me to update mine but it bugs me . i just dont like it. its not like he is hiding that we are together on his page so i dont know if i should just say ah its no big deal. honestly it might not be i honestly blow things out of proportion and i do get jealous as well as paranoid (haha i know good stuff right) He has been good to me and treats me well i just think in the back of my head im always going to worry, I have been cheated on before. Anway so i know the whole worrying about myspace is childish especially being the age but just wanted to run it by people.THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted June 3, 2008 Share Posted June 3, 2008 You will ruin your relationship if you keep thinking that way. So what if he has pics of himself up, there are some of you both too, right? You said yourself you have some up on your page of just you. Its just his back with a tat on it, big deal. Try to figure out why you feel so insecure, before you lose what you have. Link to post Share on other sites
TiffanyLove Posted June 3, 2008 Share Posted June 3, 2008 Aww, hon. I understand you wanting him all to yourself, but like the poster above me said, you're being insecure and you need to figure out why (it's not just because of your past relationships). If he gets comments on that pic - great! That means that others like what you have, but they won't get it. I don't know many guys who would put a pic of themselves with a woman as their main profile pic... especially after only 5 months! He digs you. Don't allow your own issues and petty jealousy ruin that. It sucks when someone projects their baggage on you... I've had it done to me numerous times and I can't stand having to justify my actions. If you don't trust him, you shouldn't be in a relationship with him. (You've been cheated on before but not by him.) And you know what? Whatever you fear, usually happens. So please, for your sake and his, stop worrying and enjoy yourself. It's all good. Good luck to you and welcome to the forums! Link to post Share on other sites
Siphon9a Posted June 4, 2008 Share Posted June 4, 2008 I wouldn't worry about some pic like that. He's just proud of his tat and wants to show it off. Can't blame him for that! Just get more pics of you guys and put them on your page and I'm sure he will put on his if its something you did together. Man them all mushy and smoochie so you will let all the dogs out there now he's yours! Personally I would be kinda flattered by that situation if my girl had that kind of feeling. I mean something like that pic is not really a big deal but to know you get a little jealous would kind of be an ego boost. (Yes I know I'm messed up in the head fellow LS'ers) Link to post Share on other sites
MichelleS1983 Posted June 7, 2008 Share Posted June 7, 2008 Well a tat on someone's back sure isn't sexy to me, so I wouldn't be leaving him a comment, that's for sure. Yuck. I think the bigger issue is why a 37 year old MAN needs a MySpace account in the first place. MySpace is a self-indulgant little cesspool and nothing more than a human meat market when you peel away all the layers. Link to post Share on other sites
porter218 Posted June 7, 2008 Share Posted June 7, 2008 You should appreciate that you have someone that looks good. Just because others may appreciate his pics doesn't mean they want him at all. I understand the worry of being cheated on but just try to relax. If he cheats most likely you will eventually find out it always works that way. And if someone is going to cheat you can't really stop them by hiding them away from temptation. He really doesn't sound like a high risk bf at all. Link to post Share on other sites
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