BABY88 Posted July 21, 2003 Share Posted July 21, 2003 Hello! you know my ex broke up with me about 3 months ago, HOWEVER, I can't stop thinking about him!! I've been thinking since I had first date with him, so I mean still I am thinking about him everyday!! I go to school and work everyday and I do my best on myself!! HOWEVER. still my heart feels him. I Know and understand rationally, BUT I can't stop thinking him. ALSO if I date somone, It's more hurtful for me. Because I tend to compare my feeling to him and my feeling to ex. How can I deal with this?? Link to post Share on other sites
Stone Posted July 21, 2003 Share Posted July 21, 2003 this is very common... you'll get through it just consentrate on yourself right now, and don't date until your completly over him you have plenty of time to date later Link to post Share on other sites
Author BABY88 Posted July 21, 2003 Author Share Posted July 21, 2003 BUT I don't want to think about him everyday. I know I still love him, but I can't do anything to him at all. I just want me make sure. still I am confused because I can't find out answer or something. I don't want to spend time with this feeling^^ Link to post Share on other sites
michiganmale27 Posted July 21, 2003 Share Posted July 21, 2003 Those are totally natural feelings. I still constantly always think about my ex-gf. I have been dating for about 2 months with a new girl friend, and yes I find myself doing the same thing that you do as far as comparing against her and so forth. The more times that you go out with this new guy, the less you will think about your ex-bf. the new guy will occupy your time and thoughts, just give it some time it will work. Link to post Share on other sites
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