kodts Posted June 8, 2008 Share Posted June 8, 2008 It's all the INTERNET'S fault!!! And CELL PHONE'S. Those two things seriously screwed up dating. There used to be a threshold, a pretty big one. Now, that threshold has gone down to.. one fault, bye bye. We used to get by on 4 or 5 faults. Cause their only other choices had 7 or 8 faults. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted June 8, 2008 Share Posted June 8, 2008 Women want today what they wanted 100 years ago . Likely a marraige , a few kids , love and respect. Nothing changed there except women became more capable and work out in society , more so than 100 years ago. ( I don't speak for ALL women because not all of us want to get married ) So because they work outside and can maintain on there own now , they don't put up with as much bull c*** and have more choices. We don't need to constantly be entertained , we don't need to whine for your attention.... We don't need to call you 10 times today because we are bored. We don't need to drive you away... Now with the invention of the Internet , we have on~line dating. Maybe we can assume you are referring to it ? If you are , you can imagine why women have been inundated with all kinds of emails and meeting ( dates ) that might have been disasterous .; ie' married men , serial daters , serial killers , extreme difference in weight and height differences not reported prior to the date ( so shock value there ) Women can stop inviting drama into their dating when they learn to control their emotions and know that * you not calling * just means you were'nt interested in them at all. When men ( and women ) stop playing games , grow up and talk about what they really want mutually , the drama will stop for those who are crushed by the truth. I find 100% of the time when a man calls a women a gold digger , fears a gold digger and or / experienced a gold digger , he is likely CHEAP ! I am not a gold digger in the least ( 2 of my friends are ) and so I dont assault a mans wallet but the BIGGEST turn off is when a guy whines about anything related to money. I RUN ! Not because I am a gold digger , Far from it. But I am not attracted to cheap frugal men who whine about a Wendys $ 2.99 Meal Not sure what agenda you are talking about unless you are referring to single strong women who don't hang on to your pant legs and whine for you and are groping your wallet ? Link to post Share on other sites
LonelyVocalist Posted June 9, 2008 Share Posted June 9, 2008 Better to just go for the sex and forget the rest. What ever happened to falling in love and making a life together? Why is it that every woman I meet has an agenda that doesn't include me? Why are they all gold diggers? Why do they all have more issues than Nation Geographic? Why do they thrive on drama when they claim to hate it? Why do they require that men constantly keep them entertained? Why can't they keep themselves entertained? Why do they crap on the nice guy and love Billy Badass? Like I said, better to just go for the sex and forget the rest. While I still fight off a part of me that begs to differ, I agree for the most part. I've never had one relationship in my life, but my friend tells me that they'll leave me once they find that I can't give them every single little thing they want. Women seem to hate the fact that they can't manipulate me to treat them like crap like they can other dudes. Women thrive off of drama 'cause they CAN. Because no matter what, they'll always have a shoulder to cry on... whether it be friends, family, or jerks that masquerade as nice guys just to get sex. What happens when a guy tells them "He was a butthole. GET OVER HIM, MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE!!!"? He's considered "insensitive". If getting laid involves having to sell myself out, be someone I'm not, and being a complete jerk, then I'm not gonna bother, unless I can buy a nice escort. Dating itself is, for the most part, another accepted form of prostitution... nobody wants to date a "broke" guy, and if you make ONE wrong mistake... if you so much as WORD something wrong, you're not gonna even get a kiss! As long as there's guys out there willing to sell-out to fellow men and are willing to have sex with them, women are gonna continue to be completely f'd up. Way to go, FritzTheCat! (btw, that movie rules) Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted June 9, 2008 Share Posted June 9, 2008 While I still fight off a part of me that begs to differ, I agree for the most part. I've never had one relationship in my life, but my friend tells me that they'll leave me once they find that I can't give them every single little thing they want. Women seem to hate the fact that they can't manipulate me to treat them like crap like they can other dudes. Women thrive off of drama 'cause they CAN. Because no matter what, they'll always have a shoulder to cry on... whether it be friends, family, or jerks that masquerade as nice guys just to get sex. What happens when a guy tells them "He was a butthole. GET OVER HIM, MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE!!!"? He's considered "insensitive". If getting laid involves having to sell myself out, be someone I'm not, and being a complete jerk, then I'm not gonna bother, unless I can buy a nice escort. Dating itself is, for the most part, another accepted form of prostitution... nobody wants to date a "broke" guy, and if you make ONE wrong mistake... if you so much as WORD something wrong, you're not gonna even get a kiss! As long as there's guys out there willing to sell-out to fellow men and are willing to have sex with them, women are gonna continue to be completely f'd up. Way to go, FritzTheCat! (btw, that movie rules) I am one woman who does NOT like drama. In any way , shape or form. When you say the women will leave you for one insignificant wrong thing that you do , well thats some pretty strong ideas... We have set our standards much higher now. We don't need a druggie or a drunk or an a** beater. We can ditch all then back in the pond scum from which they slithered out of.... Is that the biggest gripe a guy has ? That he can't buy her , use her , sex her with not nary a peep out of her ? Yes, things have changed. I can add we do need to let up on the rigidness of our deals and no deals ( deal breakers ) Maybe he's not as tall as we like but we like everything else about him. Maybe he's really cute and fun to be around but scrapes by every month. We do need to let up on the restrictions of what we do and do not want. Your best bet is to get an inflatable doll. REAL women do require some needs be met. I know thats a hassle but hey thats the Real World. We have to take flack too you know. We have to always look good , watch everything we say in the dating world. We are under a microscope too... Yeah its easier to just stay single. Do what you want. Play with yourself when you need to ............. Link to post Share on other sites
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