foxh1234 Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Hi everyone, I have a question for anyone who has recovered from a break up. Do you still love your ex or does love fade and disappear ? It has only been 2.5 months for me, but I still love her just as much as before. I don't think about her as much and I don't want to get back together but will I love her for a long time or will I always remember her but lose the feeling of love ? I have never been through this before and I hope never again.
Lizzie60 Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Hi everyone, I have a question for anyone who has recovered from a break up. Do you still love your ex or does love fade and disappear ? It has only been 2.5 months for me, but I still love her just as much as before. I don't think about her as much and I don't want to get back together but will I love her for a long time or will I always remember her but lose the feeling of love ? I have never been through this before and I hope never again. Yes it does fade away... but sometimes you cannot 'forget' the person.. but the pain goes away... I am still friend with ALL my exes... but the love is gone.. only the friendship remains. it's all good.
sunshinegirl Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 The love has faded away in all of my prior relationships - 3 before this one. My first heartbreak? I was convinced I could never, would never, love anyone the way I loved him. And maybe I was right, in a certain twisted way: I was obsessed with a totally unhealthy person. I think at a certain point, in fact, it ceased to be love - it was like a drug addiction, as others have sometimes described 'love'. I loved my second boyfriend... but that has faded to indifference. I loved my third boyfriend... but that has faded to a platonic love. He's the only one I've remained friends with. I loved my fourth boyfriend - this current ex... and I have to believe it will fade. To what I'm not yet sure. But it will fade.
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