She won't let me go NC.

[WiseOne1]

Wow, thats some deep stuff man.

[WiseOne1]

I told her I still loved her and I told her that I think we should get back together.

 

She said she’s not sure of her self and is not sure of what she wants in a man, she says she sorta thinks we should get back together. She has a full month to make up her mind, life is hard but she’s not going to have it both ways, she can have her friend and also her new bf.

She’s gonna have to choose, because one I go NC I’m not coming back out of it, I’m gone forever, when i say forever i mean still gone in 5 and 10 years. "I mean forever", I’m not gonna be on the back burner.

 

 

Me and her got in a argument about what happened when we was going when her ex came back, and she says she feels like I should have been there for her, what man is his right mind is going to watch his gf cry over her ex and say she doesn’t know how she feels, don’t get me wrong, she choose me in the end but the damage had already been done.

She says that she doesn’t know what she wants, but I’m tired of being 2nd place and I’m tried of dealing with her friends, I hope when I’m gone that there all worth it, because when they leave her hanging like they always do, I wont be there.

 

She has one month to leave her current bf or im out, she let her ex come between me and her, so damnit im coming between them to, and if she dont pick me, all i can say is da champ is here.

 

P.S. OmarE im not really sure about your ex, maybe she just wants you to call her or make attempts.

[WiseOne1]

OMG......Me and My Ex Did it again, This is the 3rd time doing it since she was with her new BF. when i walked in like a superstar, she was in her panties. I couldnt resist.

 

I told her that she had to leave her current bf now. And we started talking freaky, and i told her remember last time you started crying about how bad you felt.

 

I know the guy and know people who knows the guy, and he has been trying to get some from her, i heard from my sources. But she still giving it to me.

 

I know i look like Chris Brown so i dont blame her, i dont care about sex, i just want her back, she means more to me than the sex.

 

What should i do??????????

[WiseOne1]

I Told her many times lets not do it again, because if you start whinning and crying i want nothing to do with it.

 

I told her she has a week to choose between me and him, she keeps saying that she doesnt want to hurt his feelings, and i told her its even me or him.

[CaliGuy]

I Told her many times lets not do it again, because if you start whinning and crying i want nothing to do with it.

 

I told her she has a week to choose between me and him, she keeps saying that she doesnt want to hurt his feelings, and i told her its even me or him.

 

Why are you GIVING her an OPTION?

 

PFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFT!!!

 

YOU need to BE A MAN and make the decision. Walk away. Tell her you're not putting up with that crap. If you leave the decision to her she'll try to keep you both or maybe she won't make a decision at all.

 

Are you a man or a doormat?

[WiseOne1]

Why are you GIVING her an OPTION?

 

PFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFT!!!

 

YOU need to BE A MAN and make the decision. Walk away. Tell her you're not putting up with that crap. If you leave the decision to her she'll try to keep you both or maybe she won't make a decision at all.

 

Are you a man or a doormat?

 

Hello CaliGuy, i've been watching your post for the last 3 years about and you've pretty much be came a legend on LoveShack, and i always agree with u BUTTTTTTTTTTTT.....

i've been in this predictment alongggg time ago with a girl. And she didnt make a decision at first, and then she changed her mind. See it doesnt matter anymore rather she picks me or not, im not in love with her, i dont know what the heck is wrong with me, but its only so much u can do to a person before you get fed up.

 

I just care for her, but i think its more than a ego thing, I told her rather she leaves her ex bf or im gone, when i say gone, i mean gone, 20 years from down the line gone.

 

Still not talking to you 5 years gone, no txt on b days, just gone. And even though me and her were friends 5 years before we broke up, i told her i refuse to be her fool and go back to being a friend.

[justaman99]

See it doesnt matter anymore rather she picks me or not, im not in love with her, i dont know what the heck is wrong with me, but its only so much u can do to a person before you get fed up.

 

I just care for her, but i think its more than a ego thing, I told her rather she leaves her ex bf or im gone, when i say gone, i mean gone, 20 years from down the line gone.

 

 

Why are you telling her to leave her boyfriend and you're not in with love her? Then you say it doesn't matter if she picks you or not but it does. That doesn't make any sense and is pretty ****ed up.

[WiseOne1]

Well maybe if you paid attention to the last few post you would know.

 

Its more that i like her now, and then sometimes i find myself back in love with her, thats why i would rather go NC to get over her.

See like after sex or spending along time with her all the feelings come back, like right now she cant do anything to hurt me, but otherwise i start feeling diffrent about her.

 

So thats letting me know that im not fully over her.

[CaliGuy]

Hello CaliGuy, i've been watching your post for the last 3 years about and you've pretty much be came a legend on LoveShack, and i always agree with u BUTTTTTTTTTTTT.....

i've been in this predictment alongggg time ago with a girl. And she didnt make a decision at first, and then she changed her mind. See it doesnt matter anymore rather she picks me or not, im not in love with her, i dont know what the heck is wrong with me, but its only so much u can do to a person before you get fed up.

 

I just care for her, but i think its more than a ego thing, I told her rather she leaves her ex bf or im gone, when i say gone, i mean gone, 20 years from down the line gone.

 

Still not talking to you 5 years gone, no txt on b days, just gone. And even though me and her were friends 5 years before we broke up, i told her i refuse to be her fool and go back to being a friend.

 

Ok, I see your point but in this case you shouldn't be giving her options. You make a decision based on her actions. If she isn't making a decision then you make it.