ruby842 Posted June 9, 2008 Share Posted June 9, 2008 I was on my computer looking for something on my history when I saw that my boyfriend was looking at pics of his x. This isnt the first time he has looked at pics of her. We have been together for about 7 months. It took him a while to get over her and I know he also cheated on his x-girlfriend with her. Im not sure what to do about it, he says he's over her, but I dont understand why he would be looking at pictures of her still if he was over her. He is also still friends with her on myspace. Link to post Share on other sites
MargaretNoelle Posted June 14, 2008 Share Posted June 14, 2008 im assuming you mean on facebook, myspace, webshots, something along those lines? with these situations, i like to have something to compare to. in this case, you can use me haha. i am still facebook friends with all my exes. my current boyfriend doesnt care. it doesnt mean i ever talk to them. it just seems kind of immature to me to remove someone after you break up, it makes it look even more like youre not over them. to care would be to go out of your way to make it known that you want them completely out of your life. i still look at their pictures sometimes. i can assure you that i have ABSOLUTELY no feelings left for them at all. not even an ounce. its all just curiosity. you wonder what people are up to since youve last seen them, whats new with their life, just a curiosity thing. i would never feel like calling them and conversing, but this way my curiosity is settled. it probably sucks to know that he looked at her pictures, but hes probably just like me. for me its just curiosity, nothing else Link to post Share on other sites
theobserver Posted June 14, 2008 Share Posted June 14, 2008 As said could be good ol' curiousity everyone likes to have a peek at how an ex or old friend is doing. HOWEVER considering he did cheat on his ex-gf with her you have a right to keep a keen open I'm sure you don't want history to repeat itself. It's up to you if you want to talk to him about this. Personally I would Maybe give it a few weeks see if he's actively rechecking her page then ask him why if you feel the need. Sadly some people never get over that one ex and they are mentally whipped no matter what fantastic new partner they find. I'm hoping for you that this is not the case. Good Luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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