NTB Posted July 22, 2003 Share Posted July 22, 2003 well how should i start...i have this girl that i love with all my heart and soul and 4 days ago she told me she couldn't see me anymore. she always said our love was the greatest thing ever and so amazing. i know i took things for granted and things went both ways we had our ups and our downs and i guess since i knew she loved me so much i never thought we would end. we have been in each others lifes for 11 months anyway we broke up cause of things being starnge but somehow i was always in the picture we saw each other and were together sexually. then she tells me she met some one but i love this girl so much i didn't care, she wanted to do like see other people but i told her i didn't want to see any body else. so she tells me i am the only one (and i do beleive her) that she was sexually active with. i guess the guy she met didn't work out and well she kept on seeing another gy i new of cause she told me then still me and her were still together and then out of no where well maybe no where but didn't see it coming she calls me and tells me she can't see me anymore cause this other guy called her and asked if they can only see each other and she agreed.... we had plans to see a concert and we cancelled because i asked to go as friends but she said no because her words "you know how we get when together" i asked to see her and give her the tickets cause i know she really wanted to go. i took the chance and told her i loved her and i wanted another chance for us and she said again her words "i said yes to him and i want to see where this can go" i told her okay cause i didn't want to push and besides i think i was ready to die. she did hug me twice and gave me a kiss on the cheeks cause she said it wouldn't be fair for the other guy.... i also asked if in the future we could try again if things didn't work out she did say yes and she did say she would cont. to talk to me as a friend but this weekend past is killing me and i want her back she is the one for me Link to post Share on other sites
DDS20 Posted July 22, 2003 Share Posted July 22, 2003 To me it sounds like she still cares but she also cares about this other guy. I would try and give her a little time to figure out which one of you she wants to be with. If you keep on pushing her she is going to pull away. So just let her do her thing and give her space but not to much. Let her know you still think about her but don't call her everyday or try and she her all of the time. Make her want you to be around. Let her see you with another girl or something like that. Trust me, if she cares about you it will drive her crazy!! Then she might decide she doesn't want anybody else to be with you and she'll want to get back together. But the main thing is don't push her!! Hope that helps a little bit. Link to post Share on other sites
NTB Posted July 25, 2003 Share Posted July 25, 2003 thanks for replying...i am doing my best not to crowd her or anything. i am giving her space and just really hurting here. thanks for the advice Link to post Share on other sites
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