dreamergrl Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 He's obviously not trying to be a man. Right? I mean, please tell me that's not what you're trying to do. 'Cause that would be so sad. All that effort for naught. I think we should have a LS reunion in 30 years and see who's still alone stuck in their sad bitterness. Link to post Share on other sites
J2FT1 Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 If that's all you got from that post, it's no wonder you can't get a woman. I bet I could mop up the floor with you too, and a real woman wouldn't pretend she couldn't. Ahhh, victory feels soooo good. I guess they train them stupid in Northern Minnesota. Not like the metro area, where I'm from. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 I guess they train them stupid in Northern Minnesota. Not like the metro area, where I'm from. You're poorly reppin' for the metro area .. Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 I guess they train them stupid in Northern Minnesota. Not like the metro area, where I'm from. Yeah, that's why I get paid so much. LMAOROF Can anyone say "tool?" Link to post Share on other sites
SugarKiss Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 ohh c'mon gals, guys are physically stronger than women generally speaking why try to compete with that? I agree that wanting equality doesn't mean we have turn into butchy girls. Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 It must be such a sad existence to go out and know that not one single person is interested in you. I, on the other hand, have had half a dozen guys vying for my attention at the same time. It was so difficult juggling them all. I could've moved away with the $175,000 a year guy, but I have criteria beyond $$ for what I want in a man. I found a great guy who knows what a "real man" is and also what a "real woman" is AND he knows how to handle said real woman. Gawd, the sex is sooooo hot! And I just LOVE the way he's remodeling my house! Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 ohh c'mon gals, guys are physically stronger than women generally speaking why try to compete with that? I agree that wanting equality doesn't mean we have turn into butchy girls. Generally speaking, but there are exceptions, and that was the whole point I was trying to make with this "women are all alike and men are all alike" hogwash. The story about the guy at the gym was true, BTW. And I'm ANYthing but butchy. During the same time frame, another gal saw me and said, "You have beautiful arms. You workout don't you?" Link to post Share on other sites
J2FT1 Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 It must be such a sad existence to go out and know that not one single person is interested in you. I, on the other hand, have had half a dozen guys vying for my attention at the same time. It was so difficult juggling them all. I could've moved away with the $175,000 a year guy, but I have criteria beyond $$ for what I want in a man. I found a great guy who knows what a "real man" is and also what a "real woman" is AND he knows how to handle said real woman. Gawd, the sex is sooooo hot! And I just LOVE the way he's remodeling my house! So much emotion in this paragraph. You go girl! Girlpower! Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 So much emotion in this paragraph. You go girl! Girlpower! Simply cold, hard facts. The truth of MY existence. And, sadly, the truth of yours as well. Poor little guy. Link to post Share on other sites
SugarKiss Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 C'mon guys cut it out with the low blows that is not what this is about. respect should go both ways much like what the original point of this conversation was. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 The only low blows I see is coming from him..... He just can't deal with the fact that his attitude is not going to get him any where with the female population, except a ditzy girl who laughs at everything he says because she doesn't know any better. No good woman will put up with this type of attitude from a guy. And that's just the straight out truth. Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 I think real women aren't trying to be men, a lot of the times. Like this kind of non-bashing? Hmmmm? Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 I guess they train them stupid in Northern Minnesota. Not like the metro area, where I'm from. Or this? Link to post Share on other sites
BUENG1 Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 well then if how many sexual partners a woman has is indincative of whether she will cheat on her man or not, what the heck does that say about men that sleep around a lot then? gees with that attitude no man is trusworthy then!?!? you see how we always do the full circle and always come back to the point that a slutty man is NO better than a slutty woman, by what men consider slutty of course. so before you go ahead and tell another guy don't get involved with a slut just use her but don't date her, take a long hard look in the mirror because you may just be talking about yourself, and if you wouldn't date yourself what makes you think another good woman would? Your the one who brought up the idea that being promiscous might mean that you are more likely to cheat not me. I'm not sure that this is true but I certaintly know several who hold this view. And yes this view would apply to everyone. But the idea that somehow the idea that avoiding people who you think will cheat on you is somehow bad or makes you insecure or makes you power hungry or whatever is just ridiculous and that was the point I was responding too. Link to post Share on other sites
J2FT1 Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 C'mon guys cut it out with the low blows that is not what this is about. respect should go both ways much like what the original point of this conversation was. Thank you SugarKiss. A real woman would recognize this. Nice chattin' Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 Well Luv - lets just be thankful that if that's how they roll in the metro, that we're up here That's right, honey! *Luv dons her cheap sunglasses and looks forward to the weekend* Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 Thank you SugarKiss. A real woman would recognize this. Nice chattin' Don't think she doesn't recognize you for what you are. Now go get a personality transplant, wouldya? Link to post Share on other sites
SugarKiss Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 Your the one who brought up the idea that being promiscous might mean that you are more likely to cheat not me. I'm not sure that this is true but I certaintly know several who hold this view. And yes this view would apply to everyone. But the idea that somehow the idea that avoiding people who you think will cheat on you is somehow bad or makes you insecure or makes you power hungry or whatever is just ridiculous and that was the point I was responding too. i brought up this view because I "think" this is what men wrongfully "think" some men equate a woman who is "easy" sexually while single, to being promiscuous and unfaithful after they settled down and commit . again, if that idea is not ridiculous where does it leave men? men say: "we are promiscous, it is how it's been for ever. get over it!" women say: that's hypocritical because if the criteria for an early indication of an unfaithful partner is seeing how promiscuous they are when they are single, where does that leave men in general then? men should not be trusted at all then and never should have been trusted. see how this theory is an oxymoron? and I have no problem steering clear of a potential cheater, but then I guess I might as well turn lesbian because a LOT of men are promiscuous. Link to post Share on other sites
twice_shy Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 The only low blows I see is coming from him..... He just can't deal with the fact that his attitude is not going to get him any where with the female population Gee, and to think all those players and arrogant jerks get the women and those who are not finish last. Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 Gee, and to think all those players and arrogant jerks get the women and those who are not finish last. Are you calling my guy an arrogant jerk? lol Link to post Share on other sites
twice_shy Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 Are you calling my guy an arrogant jerk? lol There's always an exception. Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 There's always an exception. And there are also exceptional women. Don't give up on all of us, TS. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 Not wanting to be cheated on is a perfectly reasonable reason not to get involved in a relationship with someone. It boggles my mind how someone could think is somehow immoral or unreasonable. Very true but then again this is the poster who said that men deserve to get cheated on because it is payback time. Men are just trying to better our odds of hving a good relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
twice_shy Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 And there are also exceptional women. Don't give up on all of us, TS. don't worry, I'm not. I'm just taking my time, enjoying being single and not in any hurry. Link to post Share on other sites
audrey_1 Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 that is a good conclusion I can totally see that. In regard to the second part of your post, would you dismiss a man who slep with you on a first date then and treat him as a douche bag who must do with all the women? I haven't posted in a couple months, but this one has my full attention. I would not dismiss a man I slept with on the first date, but it's only happened to me once, a year ago, with someone I've known since I was 5 years old, with all the childhood connections and nostalgia. It was the first time I had seen him in at least 15 years, and our connection was palpable, I'm mid-30s, and I went for it. I made the move at 3 a.m. after we had spent over 8 hours together. I was in his bed. He was on the couch. He was going to be a gentleman, but I simply couldn't sleep. I didn't think about the past or where it would be going in the future. I simply knew that, in that moment, I wanted him more than anything. We're still dating a year later but not committed since we're long distance and our lives are getting in the way, but though I know he was with other women before me, his "number" is not "slutty" in my opinion. He was terribly shy as a kid and still is to some degree. I try not to worry about how it made me look to him because of the "double-standard" that's been touched on, and I hope that he doesn't view me as someone he wouldn't consider marrying. I told him it's never happened before, because he joked with me about he "got it the first night." But I don't think he meant it maliciously (I hope). It's like we started there and are now backtracking to the "getting to know you" part of it, which has been, for me (and I hope him), worthwhile, knowing that he could be a compatible long term sexual partner. I like and want sex. I'm not a slut, but I'm not ashamed to admit I want it with someone I care about, either. And as we get older, it's kind of ridiculous to play the part of a prude. I'm over it. I'm educated, successful, and a soft woman who wants to be fuc*ked sideways by a man she admires and desires. I think the difference is between men who are strong-minded and those who are weak-minded. I choose the former, and men I see with strong minds usually are well-educated, have a lot of life experience, friends or family who offered healthy philosophies, or a combination of these things and others I didn't mention. Link to post Share on other sites
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