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I just dumped a guy who, now, i regret ever meeting him and i never ever want to see him again. He is a horrible person. OK enough about that.

I have a bracelet of his that I need to give back and he has 2 cd's of mine that I want back. Personally I would love to just tell him to mail them to me cause i never want to see his face again. But of course, that is immature. How do i go about wanting to get my stuff back and giving his thing back, without being too rude (which i want to be) and not seeing him.

thank you.

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Send his bracelet back registered mail to be sure he receives it. Enclose a note asking him to please mail your CD's. If he doesn't send them back to you within a reasonable time, it will cost you about $30 to reorder the CD's from any retail CD Internet site which I think would be well worth it not to see his slimey face again.

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Yup, they should only be like $30 right? If its that bad, I'd just do that. Or wait it out for a few days it might get better...

 

A friend's girlfriend broke up with him, basically by sending him an email saying "You can come get your stuff from 12:00-12:15." That was it... I drove over there with him and the psycho hose beast had trashbags of his stuff outside her door with his name written on them. Aroo?? Who else would be looking for trashbags at 12 in the afternoon... damn, she was crazy.

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When me and Ms. X broke up, we gave our stuff to a mutual friend who did the swap for us. Not my idea, sounds kind of third grade to me, but what can you say. It works best that way should you not want to see this guy again.

 

OR, you could agree to meet in a public place eg. a Mall or park somewhere public where a scene is not likely to happen.

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thank yall, i think mailing them could be the best idea here. he doesnt know i despise him....i dont think he needs to know, but this will let the idea that i dont want a friendship with him, through.

thanks yall, i appreciate it

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I'm sorry to hear about that.

 

We could all go into the over used cliches, throw around so easily when people break up. But you're smarter than that, and know them all anyways. So I'll just say good luck.

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