wishing Posted July 22, 2003 Share Posted July 22, 2003 hey people! hope u can help n put me out of my misery. well it was my birthday the other week (hooray!) so we all went out, the guy ive got my eye on didnt go well the day after i decided to go in2 town to walk my hangover off, n just get out the house. so whilst i was in town, i saw my lad he came over hugged me gave me a kiss and wished me happy birthday n sed sorry that he was unable to come out 4 my birthday! i was like ok, he sed to me hw r u? i sed extremely hungover, which i was, he sed to me u know wots good 4 a hangover? i sed wot? he sed goin 2 macdonalds 4 a strawberry milkshake (offer 4 date maybe?) i sed no i can stomach it! stupid idiot! he laughed! then we were chattin 4 a while he sed i mite go and c anger management at the cinema 2nite, u know the one with adam sandler? i was oh yeah ( but i cant imagine a lad goin 2 cinema on his own, so mayb another offer by ne chance) i stupidly changed the subject dont have a clue y tho! so can ne1 help me out here? he sends me mixed messages! help! Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted July 22, 2003 Share Posted July 22, 2003 next time u see him, mention the movie or the milkshakes, and give him room to re-suggest it. this time, accept =) -yes Link to post Share on other sites
Author wishing Posted July 22, 2003 Author Share Posted July 22, 2003 thank you! cant believe how stupid i was! but doubt ill have a chance now, hes probably met some1 new!but all i can do is try n hope for the best! Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted July 22, 2003 Share Posted July 22, 2003 I really don't think either were offers for dates. Sounds like it was just friendly conversation to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author wishing Posted August 13, 2003 Author Share Posted August 13, 2003 well here goes right from the start! when we were out one night i almost had sex with a lad who had a girlfriend, although i have liked him 4 ages, i decided to back off as i thought he may have used me as he has a girlfriend. Well we had this staff do the other day, i sed to my mate dont let me go off with this lad again. As i was dancing, i still felt really attratcted to him, and wanted more, but me being stupid i decided to introduce him to this lass so that nothing would happen between me and him, as they were chatting and laughing i felt really jealous, when she went to the toilet, the lad came up to me n told me that he had broken up with his girlfriend, i was proper gutted as i could had my chance with him, but instead i introduced him to her! The lass came back i just walked away feelin sad, and i dont know if he went he went home with her, What am i gonna do? i really like him. well it was my birthday the other (hooray!) so we all went out, the guy ive got my eye on didnt go well the day after i decided to go in2 town to walk my hangover off, n just get out the house. so whilst i was in town, i saw my lad he came over hugged me gave me a kiss and wished me happy birthday n sed sorry that he was unable to come out for my birthday! i was like ok, he sed to me how are you? i said extremely hungover, which i was, he said to me you know whats good for a hangover? i said what? he said going to macdonalds 4 a strawberry milkshake, i said no i can't stomach it! (stupid idiot! shud of said yes) he laughed! then we were chattin for a while he said i mite go and see anger management at the cinema tonite, you know the one with adam sandler? i was oh yeah 2 cinema on his own, so mayb i stupidly changed the subject dont have a clue why though! (do you think he was asking me for a date?) i mean me n this guy have been mates for quite a while now n always flirt with each other, i mean when we go out we flirt n always end up doing something, but never go 2 far as i fear he may just want to 'use' me. then the day after we are just back to normal, we flirt, but the flrting is always physical, always touchy feely. when he sees me i try not to show that i like him by ignoring him, sounds stupid, but i dunno lol, then he'll just come up to me grab my waist and walk off, i turn to look at him he looks back, winks, smiles n says, hiya, r u alright? so there you have it all, do u think he is interested in me? or is he just playing games n after a bit of fun? your help will be much appreaciated! Link to post Share on other sites
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