all of a sudden she's gone....

[jonnybananas]

well i posted here a few months ago with a problem....since then i met a wonderful young lady whcih made me forget about the issues i had at the time. but now i have another problem. last time people were very helpful and i hope i can get some more feedback this time around.

 

i met a girl through a mutual friend and we instantly clicked. we were head over heels from day one. we had wonderful chemistry and couldnt go 10 minutes with hearing from one another. this is odd for me because i am 24 and have never had that sort of closeness in a relationship before. since we both had just gotten out of serious relationships we deemed ourselves not ready for anything big yet. that was fine and we continued to date and talk/text constantly. she would tell me she has never met anyone so perfect and she didnt know there were guys out there that could make her so happy. i eventually learned that her previous boyfriends were total creeps who treated her very poorly.

 

we had a discussion about where we were going because i let her know that u was ready for something serious because she totally knocked me off my feet. She said she felt bad because she wasnt ready yet and thought she was hurting me. its just weird because we were like bf/gf just without the title.

 

well that was saturday morning. she sent me 1 text that night and i texted her to see what was wrong sunday morning and she insisted that everything was perfectly fine and i had nothing to worry about. well that was the last we spoke. i told her to text me whenever she was free to chat at 10 am and around 8 pm i texted her telling her that i missed hearing from her. got no response....still havent heard from her.

 

she always gets up early and sends me sweet little messages for me to wake up to and she hasnt done that since saturday morning. i know its only been a few days but since we met we talk constantly throughout the day. i used over 4,000 text messages this month almost all on her. so to go 2 1/2 days without hearing from her def means something is up.

 

i keep thinking maybe she thought i was too clingy or needy but we discussed thing like that before and she came out and said that she felt like she was the clingy one, not me. she loved the attention and how often we talked because nobody could make her smile the way i did....

 

but now she is gone. not texts in the morning, no phone calls....then last night i logged onto facebook and saw that i was tagged in 3 pictures she had posted in her album from her birthday party. she tagged me in a few of them and one of her kissing me on the cheek. i found that really odd. like twisting the knife a bit.

 

any advice? im afriad to call because i reached out sunday night and got no response back and i feel as if ill end up being that guy who just couldnt take a hint and leave the girl alone. and some answers to why would be great to hear from her too.

[Meaplus3]

well i posted here a few months ago with a problem....since then i met a wonderful young lady whcih made me forget about the issues i had at the time. but now i have another problem. last time people were very helpful and i hope i can get some more feedback this time around.

 

i met a girl through a mutual friend and we instantly clicked. we were head over heels from day one. we had wonderful chemistry and couldnt go 10 minutes with hearing from one another. this is odd for me because i am 24 and have never had that sort of closeness in a relationship before. since we both had just gotten out of serious relationships we deemed ourselves not ready for anything big yet. that was fine and we continued to date and talk/text constantly. she would tell me she has never met anyone so perfect and she didnt know there were guys out there that could make her so happy. i eventually learned that her previous boyfriends were total creeps who treated her very poorly.

 

we had a discussion about where we were going because i let her know that u was ready for something serious because she totally knocked me off my feet. She said she felt bad because she wasnt ready yet and thought she was hurting me. its just weird because we were like bf/gf just without the title.

 

well that was saturday morning. she sent me 1 text that night and i texted her to see what was wrong sunday morning and she insisted that everything was perfectly fine and i had nothing to worry about. well that was the last we spoke. i told her to text me whenever she was free to chat at 10 am and around 8 pm i texted her telling her that i missed hearing from her. got no response....still havent heard from her.

 

she always gets up early and sends me sweet little messages for me to wake up to and she hasnt done that since saturday morning. i know its only been a few days but since we met we talk constantly throughout the day. i used over 4,000 text messages this month almost all on her. so to go 2 1/2 days without hearing from her def means something is up.

 

i keep thinking maybe she thought i was too clingy or needy but we discussed thing like that before and she came out and said that she felt like she was the clingy one, not me. she loved the attention and how often we talked because nobody could make her smile the way i did....

 

but now she is gone. not texts in the morning, no phone calls....then last night i logged onto facebook and saw that i was tagged in 3 pictures she had posted in her album from her birthday party. she tagged me in a few of them and one of her kissing me on the cheek. i found that really odd. like twisting the knife a bit.

 

any advice? im afriad to call because i reached out sunday night and got no response back and i feel as if ill end up being that guy who just couldnt take a hint and leave the girl alone. and some answers to why would be great to hear from her too.

 

Being left in the dark with no explanation by someone you communicated with on a regular basis is VERY tough..I have been there. Your left with many questions and it sucks. My thought is perhaps she meet someone else or that she was never serious about an R to beign with however, those are simply just thoughts.

 

If you have tried to contact her and have received NO response..Iwould simply just leave it alone and see what happens. Hang in there.

 

AP:)