Infidelity Forums making me Jaded toward Women

[shakenandstirred]

For the most part, you won't find people (of either gender) who are happy in their Rs posting on the infidelity board, so I think you're allowing a very small cross section to warp your judgement regarding women, frankly.

 

Hell, I could say the same thing - after reading numerous threads I could come to the conclusion that men are on the whole a bunch of total idiots who don't seem to have the insight to choose to marry women who will meet their needs.........and then spend their marriages looking for a woman that can and will.

good point

[clairebear]

Obviously you don't know me nor have you paid attention to any of my postings. If you would have read them you would have seen that I do respect women.I was taught to honor and cherish them. I only became jaded because of what I read here. So you have just become hypocritical. You told me If I based my opinions by a message board I need to get out more. However you have come to a conclusion that I need therapy just from reading this thread. So now you know my whole life by this thread and conclude that I need therapy.

Interesting....

You have become"empowered" your empowering is going to lead you to either some man you can boss around or some man who is not going to take your crap. Either way you are going to wind up lonely

 

lonely? nope - unlike you, i enjoy my company, and LOVE being independent!! i don't need a man to make me feel good...i earn far too much, have a beautiful home, great friends, a wonderful family - and boyfriends too, but none i want to settle with. i will NEVER be horribly judgemental about people like you, because not only do i believe we are all equal, but i believe i am better than that!!

 

you let yourself down and showed yourself up shaken!! :) something no woman would do!

[Lizzie60]

lonely? nope - unlike you, i enjoy my company, and LOVE being independent!! i don't need a man to make me feel good...i earn far too much, have a beautiful home, great friends, a wonderful family - and boyfriends too, but none i want to settle with. i will NEVER be horribly judgemental about people like you, because not only do i believe we are all equal, but i believe i am better than that!!

 

you let yourself down and showed yourself up shaken!! :) something no woman would do!

 

 

My gosh Claire.. we are twins... I, like you, do NOT need anyone to settle with.. I looove my own 'space'.. I only share it when I WANT...

[clairebear]

My gosh Claire.. we are twins... I, like you, do NOT need anyone to settle with.. I looove my own 'space'.. I only share it when I WANT...

 

lizzie - lovely to meet you!! :):) i love independent women - and independent men too, but they are becoming harder to find, sadly!!

 

it annoys me no end when people act like they NEED another person. they don't - they WANT them, but that's it!! totally different from needing!!

 

and for some bloke to criticise women because of what he reads on a message board...am i the only one to think that's weird??

[OpenBook]

Obviously you don't know me nor have you paid attention to any of my postings. If you would have read them you would have seen that I do respect women.I was taught to honor and cherish them. I only became jaded because of what I read here. So you have just become hypocritical.

 

So you respect, honor and cherish women by cheating on them?? You claim you've become jaded because you've discovered that others have behaved in the EXACT SAME MANNER as you?? And you call somebody ELSE hypocritical?? I don't understand.

[clairebear]

i understand him. he's an attention seeker.

[shakenandstirred]

So you respect, honor and cherish women by cheating on them?? You claim you've become jaded because you've discovered that others have behaved in the EXACT SAME MANNER as you?? And you call somebody ELSE hypocritical?? I don't understand.

This is going nowhere. Yes I did cheat. I was wrong for it. I took responsibility for it. Paid for it ..learned from it. We married young. Haven't done it since. Will never do it again.Still married to the same woman who i treat very very well. I'm not a serial cheater. The poster's statement I was referring to was hypocritical. So if you feel like you need to release your anger on me because you were cheated on OPenbook go ahead. These are just words on a screen. Once this computer goes off I live my life and life for me is pretty good.

It's humorous, I can't understand why all of you are so angry. I merely stated that the infidelity forums were making me jaded toward women. I stated that I had other ideals of women, but found them not to be true of all.Is it a problem that men start to see women in another light other than the princess or queen she wants to be or thinks she is? I never said I see all women this way, but if I was to ever not be married I would be very careful about who I decide to be with.I accepted responsibility for my past behavior..my wife has forgiven me.I will spend the rest of my life making that up to her....that's all that matters to me

 

Angie...I should of listened to you. You were right.

[clairebear]

This is going nowhere. Yes I did cheat. I was wrong for it. I took responsibility for it. Paid for it ..learned from it. We married young. Haven't done it since. Will never do it again.Still married to the same woman who i treat very very well. I'm not a serial cheater. The poster's statement I was referring to was hypocritical. So if you feel like you need to release your anger on me because you were cheated on OPenbook go ahead. These are just words on a screen. Once this computer goes off I live my life and life for me is pretty good.

It's humorous, I can't understand why all of you are so angry. I merely stated that the infidelity forums were making me jaded toward women. I stated that I had other ideals of women, but found them not to be true of all.Is it a problem that men start to see women in another light other than the princess or queen she wants to be or thinks she is? I never said I see all women this way, but if I was to ever not be married I would be very careful about who I decide to be with.I accepted responsibility for my past behavior..my wife has forgiven me.I will spend the rest of my life making that up to her....that's all that matters to me

 

Angie...I should of listened to you. You were right.

 

No offence...but you come across as ever so mentally illl!!! *yikes*

[Tony]

This is going nowhere.

 

I totally agree. The thread is going nowhere now. Let's close it.