Sks Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 So today I was laying on the couch thinking about getting a girlfriend when it came to me. I don't want a girlfriend, or at least the work involved. Sure getting one would be nice, it'd be great to have a girl who I could be with, but all the extra work doesn't seem to make it worthwhile. I don't really feel like I have an interest in all the "stuff" that is required. I would love to just around with her, hug each other and have sex but all the other activities don't interest me. Same really applies to friends, I hate friends who "do things", the best kind are the ones who you can just lay around with. Anyone care to give insight into getting a girl who enjoys the act of doing nothing? Link to post Share on other sites
Suiyobi Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 I kind of know how you feel. It's like it's become a standard that in order for a couple to maintain a relationship they have to go out everytime and do something. Sometimes, I just wish there was a person I can connect with but at the same time would like to do nothing more than chill, or "lay around with" me. Unfortunately, I don't think there are too many people like that. If you're really looking for a girl who enjoys the act of doing nothing, maybe look into those who are shy and not very out-going. Your date with them, so to speak, would simply be to relax in a library/bookstore or maybe even at each other's houses. Link to post Share on other sites
shanny Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 Are you depressed? A lot of depressed people (including myself at some points in my life) dont' want to do any activities... just lay around like you said. So... you don't see the fun in going to the beach, or shopping at a mall, or going to a club? Those things shouldn't be work with someone that you care about. Maybe I'm wrong about you being depressed. Sorry if I am but it just seems weird that you are not up to enjoying all the fun things in life. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sks Posted June 13, 2008 Author Share Posted June 13, 2008 Not really, I don't like sand, I find the idea of "shopping" stupid and "clubs" I don't like. The people who enjoy all these things I tend to find incredibly annoying. Usually they are "fashion conscious" douches who wear too much make up and are way too chatty. I find different things fun, the act of doing nothing is at the top of the list, along with sleeping and eating. Guns, I also like guns. An ideal girlfriend is one who enjoys laying around with me, enjoys having sex and doesn't talk allot. Link to post Share on other sites
shanny Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 Oh... well different strokes for different folks I guess! If you are looking for a girl who doesn't like to do anything go online to a dating site and look for girls with "none" under the hobbies section. Link to post Share on other sites
JohnnyBlaze Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 Rub a lamp. That's about the only way you're going to find a girl who'll fit the bill. You want all the benefits of a girlfriend without any of the 'work' (as you put it). Why would a girl want to sign on for this? If she wants to do nothing, she can do that at home; she doesn't need a man for that. I know you hate shopping. Most All guys do. We also don't like roses, Tom Hanks movies, or Nelly Furtado concerts either, but we put up with it. Why? It's fair. The girls fake an interest in the Packers/Patriots game we just got tickets to, they let us run the TV during Stallone Marathon night, and...well, there are other perks, but you can use your imagination to figure those out. You have to give a little to get a little. Sorry, it's just the way life is. No matter who you find, they'll have some different interests than you. Just like you won't want to give up all of your interests for her, she won't want to give up all of hers for you. From your criteria, you don't want a girlfriend, you want a blow-up doll. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sks Posted June 13, 2008 Author Share Posted June 13, 2008 Well I think its possible to get what I want, I am sure theres a girl who likes doing nothing but wants a boyfriend also, I just am not sure how to find her. I wouldn't expect her to really take an interest in anything I do beyond being "with" each other. Link to post Share on other sites
Suiyobi Posted June 13, 2008 Share Posted June 13, 2008 You know, sometimes I wonder if maybe there are girls out there (more than we think) that actually do want to just chill and lay around, but they can't because of the social image depicting girls as outgoing and fun especially on dates. To put it in a different way, girls are seen as boring if they don't do this kind of stuff and may put men off. It's just a thought, I could be wrong, though... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sks Posted June 15, 2008 Author Share Posted June 15, 2008 I like boring and predictable, I think I will be able to find one, but it might take a while. I don't see a reason why I would need to "do things" in order to be happy with her. Link to post Share on other sites
FleshNBones Posted June 15, 2008 Share Posted June 15, 2008 Too much sophistication. Not enough of what is fundamental. I think there is something elegant and pure about keeping things simple. Too many people are losing sight of what is important in their quest for sophistication. Link to post Share on other sites
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