Author Ariadne Posted June 20, 2008 Author Share Posted June 20, 2008 Stop making excuses for his behavior.. or non behavior Ariadne...If he wanted to contact you he would.. ...He could've contacted you at anytime in the last 2 years thru another email address.. why do you think he didn't do that ? Well, and my fantasy then what? Remember that is a big part of this. In my fantasy he is thinking about me every day. And no, he wouldn't send and email under the table from another email. That's not him. Have you ever seen Star Trek? Ok, Denver guy is the closest thing that you are ever going to get to Mr. Spock. But sweet and beautiful. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 And no, he wouldn't send and email under the table from another email. That's not him. He has more than 1 email addy Ariadne...Heck.. I have maybe 5 that I currently use for different things ie: Work, or another for LS, or another for buying stuff on the internet.. He owns his own domain and mail servers.. ( He explains that on his webpage and also talks about his hosting that he does for other domains ) I own my own as well and I can tell you it takes no more than 2 mins to create a new account and the number of accounts that can be created is unlimited.. Link to post Share on other sites
DollGirlfriend Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Ok, Denver guy is the closest thing that you are ever going to get to Mr. Spock. But sweet and beautiful. *snort* Oh Ariadne... oh honey... Seriously, come stay here a bit. That should put that whole Mr. Spock thing to bed pretty freakin' quick. And you can't continue to blame his lack of communication on me anymore. He doesn't HAVE a girlfriend to care who he writes to. Well, he's got D, but I doubt she knows he's talking to you again. Unless she stalks my blog as well. Which she probably does. (shaking head) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 20, 2008 Author Share Posted June 20, 2008 I can tell you it takes no more than 2 mins to create a new account and the number of accounts that can be created is unlimited.. That would not be the honorable thing to do, AC. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 That would not be the honorable thing to do, AC. It isn't about honor.. anybody can have a many emails as they want Ariadne... Link to post Share on other sites
DollGirlfriend Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 He has more than 1 email addy Ariadne...Heck.. I have maybe 5 that I currently use for different things ie: Work, or another for LS, or another for buying stuff on the internet.. He owns his own domain and mail servers.. ( He explains that on his webpage and also talks about his hosting that he does for other domains ) I own my own as well and I can tell you it takes no more than 2 mins to create a new account and the number of accounts that can be created is unlimited.. Art_Critic is right. If he wanted to contact you over those two years, he could have. I never would've known. And he knew you emailed a couple of times, because I would ask him "Did you update your blog?" since that seemed to set you off into emailing him. And like I said, I showed him the "shrine" picture you sent because it creeped me out. He didn't email you because he didn't need you. He had someone to stroke his ego for him. Now that I refuse to do that and am just a roommate, he needs you again because you stroke his ego for nothing but scraps and lead ons. (shrug) Though with L living here, you'd think she'd be enough. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 20, 2008 Author Share Posted June 20, 2008 Which she probably does. (shaking head) Probably.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 20, 2008 Author Share Posted June 20, 2008 He didn't email you because he didn't need you. He had someone to stroke his ego for him. Now that I refuse to do that and am just a roommate, he needs you again because you stroke his ego for nothing but scraps and lead ons. (shrug) Though with L living here, you'd think she'd be enough. Well, then tell him I'll be glad to strike his ego again if he writes to me. Link to post Share on other sites
DollGirlfriend Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Well, then tell him I'll be glad to strike his ego again if he writes to me. Stroke... you'll be glad to stroke his ego. I think I'm the one striking it currently. With little ego karate chops. I have got to get out of this house. Sooner than I thought, apparently. I asked him to get me off his webpage so you don't think you need to shoot me, believing I'm in your way (It was your buddy from the last go round who told me you were thinking of shooting me. So I'm not making this up). But, of course, you'll think I'm controlling him and MADE him take me off his webpage and I'm really still his girlfriend. *sigh* Link to post Share on other sites
ohhowwelaughed Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Hmm... are you... the real estate agent? If you're who I think you are, I never met you, though I was in the house when you were packing up the horses and leaving after he dumped you in email (charming boy, that). Who are you? Got it in one! Though I wan't in real estate for long. I became an IT geek. I thought being dumped in email (after 2 years mind) sucked until a friend of mine just suddenly never heard from the BF of more than a year again. Stopped returned phone calls and she never even got an email. Well, if it makes you feel any better, it was all pretty much make believe engagement. He's used me the same way a vampire hunter uses a cross: I am a talisman to ward away other women, though he doesn't really love me either. In retrospect, I think that's what I have always been to him. Because the Wendy he describes to me that lives in his head, and the Wendy I am have very, very little in common. I think this may be true about most people in his life. Holy cats. That would be interesting. Though, he'd spin it into that we'd formed a support group because we can't handle living without him. Probably, though I confess I don't care much. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 20, 2008 Author Share Posted June 20, 2008 Stroke... you'll be glad to stroke his ego. I think I'm the one striking it currently. With little ego karate chops. I have got to get out of this house. Sooner than I thought, apparently. I asked him to get me off his webpage so you don't think you need to shoot me, believing I'm in your way (It was your buddy from the last go round who told me you were thinking of shooting me. So I'm not making this up). But, of course, you'll think I'm controlling him and MADE him take me off his webpage and I'm really still his girlfriend. *sigh* Oh, I thought strike was a good thing. Like a home run or something. But I don't know baseball. And I was looking with some binoculars, not a gun. Link to post Share on other sites
DollGirlfriend Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Got it in one! Though I wan't in real estate for long. I became an IT geek. I thought being dumped in email (after 2 years mind) sucked until a friend of mine just suddenly never heard from the BF of more than a year again. Stopped returned phone calls and she never even got an email. Wow, yaay me!!! Congrats on becoming an IT geek (yes? this is a good thing?) Even though I never met you, I really thought dumping you in email was singularly uncool and told him so. My, it is a small world isn't it? So how did YOU find this thread? I got an email this morning saying "Hey! What's this about? Is she really a stalker?" and a link to this thread. You? Thanks for writing back and telling me who you are. I appreciate it. Link to post Share on other sites
Lovelybird Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 you all need to watch movie Surviving Picasso, 1996 http://www.answers.com/topic/surviving-picasso?cat=entertainment it is terrible, and so similar with this, human are weird Link to post Share on other sites
ohhowwelaughed Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Ok, This is getting really weird now. Are you serious? What happened that it didn't work out? A combination of him being a selfish narccisist and me sticking my head in the sand. Probably a pretty basic failing for a relationship. I'm not sure about this, but it is possible I was a bit of a trophy at the time, a status I evidently outgrew. Oh, and he is a master of "stringing along" and I believe you when you say that there is evidence he has presented that leads you to believe you have some kind of relationship with him, I just think that YOU shouldn't believe it. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 And I was looking with some binoculars, not a gun. ... Ariadne... step back and look at that statement again... you should not have even been there with the binoculars... Link to post Share on other sites
DollGirlfriend Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Oh, I thought strike was a good thing. Like a home run or something. But I don't know baseball. And I was looking with some binoculars, not a gun. I'm glad to hear it was just binoculars. Though, I told him, while asking him to get me off his webpage because you won't believe we're not involved anymore, "You were the one who wanted to bait the crazy lady again. If she shoots someone, this time it can be you or f-in Darlene." That one... I've considered doing in myself. But they really DO deserve each other, and I think jail probably sucks, so they can have at it with no interference from me, and all the more to them. I just don't want to see or hear it. He freakin giggles when he's on the phone with her, and it makes me want to barf. (shudder) Men who are that tall should not giggle. Just sayin. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 How do all you ladies know about each other? Ariadne, doesn't it strike you as odd that Denver Guy's exes all know about each other? There's only one constant and it's not you Ariadne. Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 I think I'm the one striking it currently. With little ego karate chops. I have got to get out of this house. Sooner than I thought, apparently. Aside from all of this business. Doll, you should research NPD and how to remove yourself (physically and emotionally) from it. After all that you have been through. Physically leaving might just be the start of the removal process. Get educated as to his psychology and how to counter it. I don't know why but that is the supreme vibe I get from this whole scenerio and him. Maybe it is a more common occurance in the acting field? Maybe I am completely off base. It is just a feeling I got as I read and saw some things. Ariadne, I would encourage you to do the same. However, if mental things keep you where are, then I don't know how to convince you of the bad road that you stubbornly choose to take. It is so ironic that such a massive guy who plays the part of warriors and such has to manipulatively surround himself with ego strokes from insecure and mentally weak women. That is what disturbs me. In A's case only days after losing another steady supply. It is just so telling. He obviously has left a wake of broken hearts. This is not studly or honorable at all. This is a sad thread. I want everyone to get better from this. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Allow me to help with my handy-dandy NPD link: http://www.psychologytoday.com/conditions/narcissistic.html and another: http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?li=MNI%0D%0A&articlekey=38103 Link to post Share on other sites
Lovelybird Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 oh, Picasso is an atheist too and has a biggggggggggg ego Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Well, then tell him I'll be glad to strike his ego again if he writes to me. Even after his ex's have ALL posted about what a creep and a fake he is? You would still rather keep the fantasy of him alive, even though I think deep down inside you KNOW he's a f**ken narcissistic jerk? I can't believe that you would allow yourself to keep the obsession/fantasy going after finding this out about him. I wish that you'd be upset, pissed off, embarressed, anything but how you are now - It's like nothing has phased you about what's been said about him. Link to post Share on other sites
DollGirlfriend Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 How do all you ladies know about each other? Ariadne, doesn't it strike you as odd that Denver Guy's exes all know about each other? There's only one constant and it's not you Ariadne. I got to hear all the horrible ways OHWL abused and used him, and was there when she finally got the email he'd sent her telling her it was over (which was like 2 days after he'd sent it, and he talked to her on the phone between when he sent the email and when she read it, and didn't mention a word of it. If I remember right.) I was over at his house visiting when she came in to get her stuff. I hid out in one of the downstairs rooms, because it just seemed unwise to be there. Especially since I had heard how awful she was. (I am so sorry, OHWL. At the time I believed him, and I should've known better. And now, I can only hope that someday, the girls he tells horrible stories about ME will know better. But they probably won't. I didn't just fill his closet with horsies.... I filled the whole house with creepy dolls. BWAHAHAHA!) He tends to kiss and tell. A lot. Because it makes him feel studly to have all these women around, and yet he can spin the "and then she broke my heart" thing into making you want to make it all right for him. And OHWL WAS a bit of a trophy. She was a cutie (and probably still is if she hasn't suffered an industrial accident or anything). Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 20, 2008 Author Share Posted June 20, 2008 I told him, while asking him to get me off his webpage because you won't believe we're not involved anymore, "You were the one who wanted to bait the crazy lady again. If she shoots someone, this time it can be you or f-in Darlene." See you guys what I just told you? Now is fear tactic, intrigues, and intimidation. I'm the crazy lady that is going to shoot Denver guy now. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Ariadne.. you need to go out on some dates with other guys..... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 20, 2008 Author Share Posted June 20, 2008 A combination of him being a selfish narccisist and me sticking my head in the sand. Probably a pretty basic failing for a relationship. I'm not sure about this, but it is possible I was a bit of a trophy at the time, a status I evidently outgrew. Oh, and he is a master of "stringing along" and I believe you when you say that there is evidence he has presented that leads you to believe you have some kind of relationship with him, I just think that YOU shouldn't believe it. Yeah, I know who you are too. You went to Mexico with him, ha? I remember that this was one of those times when Wendy decided that she loved him after all, so she moved in with him, and he dumped you just like that after two years. Link to post Share on other sites
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