I heard from Denver guy

[sb129]

In removing the focus away from Ariadne and Denver Guy and throwing anger towards the exes, we divert our resources from someone who needs it. Demonizing the ex will only give fuel to Ariadne, to not believe a word of what the ex is telling her. This will continue to fuel the fantasy about what a god this man is (NOT).

 

This is an excellent point, however, does ANYBODY have a clue how Ariadne is going to come to the realisation that DG is not her soulmate?

 

This has been going on for YEARS. How on earth can one thread (albeit a 40 page one) change habits which are clearly ingrained now?

 

I thought she DID contact him during those two years but that DG put a forward on the emails to Wendy, and Wendy never told him about them?

 

OMG, I can't believe I've gotten sucked into this thread.

 

Me either. Would you like a glass of wine? I am having one.

[marlena]

Demonizing the ex will only give fuel to Ariadne, to not believe a word of what the ex is telling her. This will continue to fuel the fantasy about what a god this man is (NOT).

 

TBF, maybe if Ariadne realizes that DG is in cahoots with his harem to humiliate and villify her even more, maybe then she get disgusted enough to flush him out of her system. I doubt it though.

[Trialbyfire]

This is an excellent point, however, does ANYBODY have a clue how Ariadne is going to come to the realisation that DG is not her soulmate?

 

This has been going on for YEARS. How on earth can one thread (albeit a 40 page one) change habits which are clearly ingrained now?

We can only try.

[Touche]

Wendy loses credibility by not taking the pictures down. She knows Ariadne is not a threat to her now. So what's the point in leaving them up?

 

She detracts from her own message, Art by leaving those on her site.

 

TBF, I see what you're saying but no one has advised Ariadne to go for this clown (except Burnee..but he doesn't count:laugh:.) She's going to do what she's going to do anyway.

 

Maybe once he reads all of this he'll shyt or get off the pot when it comes to Ariadne. Not sure he has it in him though.

[sb129]

Maybe once he reads all of this he'll shyt or get off the pot when it comes to Ariadne. Not sure he has it in him though.

 

He is probably reading it now, and enjoying all the attention.

 

(((Waves))))

 

Hi DG! Didn't you know that mullets and waist high pants went out with the 80s?

[marlena]

He is probably reading it now, and enjoying all the attention.

 

(((Waves))))

 

Hi DG! Didn't you know that mullets and waist high pants went out with the 80s?

 

Haha! Too funny!!! One thing is for sure, we LSers know how to stick together in a time of crisis.

[Touche]

He is probably reading it now, and enjoying all the attention.

 

(((Waves))))

 

Hi DG! Didn't you know that mullets and waist high pants went out with the 80s?

 

OMG, I was emailing with an LS buddy about his 80's look earlier. Also we were saying that he looks like those caricatures...you know the ones they draw at fairs. The big heads with the little bodies and all the features exaggerated?

[Touche]

Haha! Too funny!!! One thing is for sure, we LSers know how to stick together in a time of crisis.

 

Crisis? What crisis? Are you kidding me? Ariadne hasn't been this happy in awhile. She was even nice to that mean girl who called her old or whatever she said.

[marlena]

Crisis? What crisis? Are you kidding me? Ariadne hasn't been this happy in awhile. She was even nice to that mean girl who called her old or whatever she said.

 

 

Yeah, you're right. She was nice to that mean,mean girl. Oh, brother, 25 pages of wasted insight and advice!

[Art_Critic]

She detracts from her own message, Art by leaving those on her site.

 

I'm not sure if I'm right or wrong here.. but show me since Wendy started posting that A asked her to take down those photos ?

 

I think the photos aren't as big of a deal to Ariadne as they are to the people on LS...

 

I know she posted that she thought they had been taken down but she has been hitting Wendy's blog every day for years so she has to know they were NOT taken down..

 

Like I said.. I'm a bit confused.. if she knew that they were still up there then why say then had been taken down ?

[Krytie TV]

I seriously think people need to lay off on this. This is a train wreck and everyone posting and paying attention to Ariadne's situation is only fueling the fire. I'm not convinced there's not a bit attention-seeking going on here.

[4givrnt4gtr]

So Ive been following this craziness quietly for two days (kept me occupied at work!) and here's what i kept thinking throughout

 

1. I have been where Ariadne is right now. The whole he is my soulmate even though he doesnt remember my name, one day he will figure it out. Granted, I was 15...but still. I did the whole finding out where he lived, leaving little gifts in his doorstep (my god if only had i know what i was doing back there....poor guy). It took me literally 7 years to get over it. How did I get over it? I found someone who made me feel the same...so i realized that what i felt wasnt a soul mate thing...and it wasnt unique. I never thought something like that ever again. So...in my opinion/experience, Ariadne is not gonna get over it unless she runs into someone who makes her feel the same and her whole soul mate thing crumbles to the floor.

 

2. People keep repeating the same thing over and over...much like my friends did with me...It makes no difference...all she is thinking is "but you guys just dont know!!!! you've never felt something like this!!". It wont work...trust me.

 

3. Doll chick...i think she made that entry more so for whatshisname benefit than anything else...sounds to me like she's telling HIM that she talked to her, that she knows he's at it again and she could care less, in fact she is inviting ariadne. AKA, she is inviting his worst nightmare home since he complained so much about her and now he is talking to her again. Yup she is spiteful, but more of him than of her.

 

Those are my two cents...this is pure maaadness~

[tinktronik]

I think if it were me (god forbid) I would be more inclined to listen to Wendys advice if she extended the olive branch of taking the pictures down.

 

Wendy HAS given A some excellent insight into the reality that is DenverGuy, as have some of the other exes.

 

Ariadne is oblivious to anyone elses thoughts but her own though.

That is the crux of the whole sorry mess really.

 

A would and will not be inclined to listen to anyone no matter what they do. She is mentally unwell.period.

[sb129]

we were saying that he looks like those caricatures...you know the ones they draw at fairs. The big heads with the little bodies and all the features exaggerated?

YES!

 

I think the photos aren't as big of a deal to Ariadne as they are to the people on LS...

 

I think you are right AC. Nothing would surprise me about this situation.

 

I seriously think people need to lay off on this. This is a train wreck and everyone posting and paying attention to Ariadne's situation is only fueling the fire. I'm not convinced there's not a bit attention-seeking going on here.

 

You know, its exactly like that godforsaken programme Big Brother. I say every year I won't watch it, its rubbish, its gratuitous blah blah, but I end up following every train wreck and getting sucked into it.

I HAVE resisted this year, and am going to keep to it.

 

People are nosey and voyeuristic, and part of the attraction of reality TV is so people can go "OMG, that person is SO ______ (insert derogatory term here eg fat/psycho etc) I am SO NOT like that, aren't I lucky to be a happy normal person.".

 

I will freely admit that that is part of what makes this thread compelling to me. My life is so free of drama that being able to participate in someone elses is mildy appealing. Isn't that why so many of us are still on LS long after the initial problems that brought us here have dissipated?

 

HOWEVER- I actually genuinely like and feel bad for Ariadne as well, and really would love to be around the day she shakes the Denver Demons off and starts living her life for herself. I would like her to be happy and fulfilled.

[Touche]

Great post, SB. I couldn't agree more. (And you watch that BB show too? I need to kick that habit as well!)

 

Concerning the pics...I guess we all care more about Ariadne's dignity than she does. Go figure.

[sb129]

BB whatever number it is is on now in the UK but so far i haven't watched a single episode.

 

Too busy on LS

[Touche]

BB whatever number it is is on now in the UK but so far i haven't watched a single episode.

 

Too busy on LS

 

I'm bad. I do both LS and BB. It starts back up here next month.

 

Ariadne, are you ok? Have you heard from DG? Hope you're not mad at me for making fun of him but I couldn't help it. He's really like a caricature. I don't care how soft his skin is and how good he smells. He's just so full of himself. But I guess to you his skin is like velvet and he smells all woodsy and sexy or something, right?

 

I just don't get what you get out of this. You're always going to want more than he's willing or able to give you it seems. Unless you're really willing to settle for just a pen pal relationship...but that would be so bad for you. You'll never move on from him. But you don't want to do you?

 

And you said way back that I "get" you. Well, I think I understand you but honestly I don't really "get" you in the sense that you might have meant it. I really don't.

 

I don't get why you'd call him a soulmate. It's a crush. It's infatuation. You don't even really know him.

[BannaBee57]

A, whenever you mentioned DG over the past 2 years I always pictured this really attractive guy that women fell in love with just by looking at. I know a few of those so I sympathized. Boy, was I wrong.

 

It makes me almost want to cry when I think of a person like you giving up your whole life for a man that most likely wouldn't even walk across the street for you. Don't you want to have a love that is reciprocated on some level? I mean, a lot of us here have felt that desperate need and obsession for someone right after a break up, but that usually goes away after a few months. To sustain that kind of idea in your head for years is quite a surprise.

 

This fantasy of yours is obviously a lot more involved than I could ever have dreamed.

 

Good luck to you

[trust]

I've never met a man worth fighting over.

 

And you won't. Not with greater than ten thousand posts You've got to get outside to meet a man honey.

 

The guy either wanted me or he didn't.

Willing to bet more didn't than did. Drop that tough guy act before you hit twenty thousand posts, zero men, and twelve cats.

 

Was perusing along, saw your comment, and identified you as a man hater. It was my duty to take up for the team. Nothing personal.

[sb129]

Trust-

Touche is one of the (few) happily married ladies of Loveshack, and has been for 12(?) years.

 

she doesn't need to meet a man!

[trust]

Trust-

Touche is one of the (few) happily married ladies of Loveshack, and has been for 12(?) years.

 

she doesn't need to meet a man!

 

sb129: I *am* her husband. This is the only way I can tell her how I really feel.

[Touche]

sb129: I *am* her husband.

 

You wish! Actually you'd be lucky to be anyone's H with that chip on your shoulder.

 

Thanks, SB. Yep we just celebrated our 13th anniversary this week.

 

I hate men!:laugh: Too funny. Don't tell my husband and son that...shhhhh

 

Why do I smell sostupid in the air? I think you're on the wrong website, dear.

[sb129]

sb129: I *am* her husband. This is the only way I can tell her how I really feel.

 

So did she sign the prenup?

[Touche]

So did she sign the prenup?

 

Oh this is the guy with the prenup and the g/f or wife who ran for her life? Okie dokie. That explains it. Thanks for reminding me.

 

I don't think he's going to have to worry about a prenup for a loooonnnnngggg time...if ever.

[luvmy2ns]

What's wrong with being his servant?

 

I'd love to fold his clothes, cook for him, and clean his house.

 

It's not, providing it would go both ways, which I seriously doubt. It is your attitude about the whole thing that shows a lack of self respect. I have a feeling you would clean his floor with your tongue if he asked you to. I would be his servant "if he let me." Good gawd. Lucky gal, to have such a wonderful man "allow her" to serve him.