Author Ariadne Posted June 19, 2008 Author Share Posted June 19, 2008 and how much HE was enjoying being the victim of the horrible woman who wouldn't let his dearest email him. (shaking head) Wow. Thanks again for coming to this thread and posting. Link to post Share on other sites
DollGirlfriend Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 Well, he had things to do. He was in his path. I don't question that. Ariadne, you know he's a devout (almost aggressive) athiest, right? DG is about the least "spiritual" human being I have ever met. Right now, he is hurting because things aren't going well for him. I'm not stroking his ego anymore, D runs his life (and not well. She is neither nice, nor intelligent, but that's not why she's in his life anyway), L won't leave until he buys her a place and he can't afford to, so for the first time ever there are cats in the house because he doesn't know how to say no. He needs you because he has absolutely no attachment to you. You just feed his ego and say nice things to him and make him feel all manly and successful. And you do that because YOU DON'T KNOW HIM. You don't know him well enough to know that he ISN'T successful, and that things are falling apart. THAT is why he's emailing you, Ariadne. Not out of love, but because you mean nothing to him and thus he can just take from you without feeling like he has to give anything. Your heart lives on scraps from him, he doesn't need to give a second thought to feeding your affections. You're not going to hear me either. But seriously, you don't think that if he'd WANTED to talk to you during those two years, he could've just contacted you from another email address? One that didn't forward your mails to me? I wouldn't have known. I'm learning there were a lot of things going on I didn't know about. Just sayin'. He is using you again. And I think you deserve better. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 19, 2008 Author Share Posted June 19, 2008 Ariadne, you know he's a devout (almost aggressive) athiest, right? DG is about the least "spiritual" human being I have ever met. Yes, I know he doesn't believe in organized religion, just like I don't either. But he is the most spiritual person I have ever met. Out of all the gurus that I've seen and listened to, I consider "Him" my spiritual guru. He needs you because he has absolutely no attachment to you. You just feed his ego and say nice things to him and make him feel all manly and successful. And you do that because YOU DON'T KNOW HIM. I do know him. And is ok if he has no attachments to me. I don't care. I'm happy as it is. Link to post Share on other sites
DollGirlfriend Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 Ariadne, you know he's a devout (almost aggressive) athiest, right? DG is about the least "spiritual" human being I have ever met. Yes, I know he doesn't believe in organized religion, just like I don't either. But he is the most spiritual person I have ever met. Out of all the gurus that I've seen and listened to, I consider "Him" my spiritual guru. He needs you because he has absolutely no attachment to you. You just feed his ego and say nice things to him and make him feel all manly and successful. And you do that because YOU DON'T KNOW HIM. I do know him. And is ok if he has no attachments to me. I don't care. I'm happy as it is. Good luck to you, Ariadne. You're going to need it. I'll be out of here as soon as I can (I won't live with someone this cruel, and this IS cruel. Bating you to use you for ego strokes is just as cruel as kicking a puppy because you know it'll come back), but I really do just give it maybe a week before D has moved back in. Just wait. Thanks for not shooting me. I appreciate it. And I hope that someday, when it all falls apart, your life is as awesome as mine is about to be, without DG. All the best, Wendy Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 19, 2008 Author Share Posted June 19, 2008 Thanks for not shooting me. I appreciate it. And I hope that someday, when it all falls apart, your life is as awesome as mine is about to be, without DG. I have no idea where you got that from, but it never crossed my mind. Good luck with the massage business. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 Ariadne, I'm sure you've heard the term internet predator before. You need to be aware that this is what Denver Guy really is. Link to post Share on other sites
marlena Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 Wendy, You're right. I do not know you. I can only judge you by your actions. I continue to believe that what you did to A was immoral and evil. I have been stalked but I did not resort to such base tactics. You could have taken the legal path but instead you resorted to cheap and hurtful tactics. To me it sounds like you had immense control over DG. I don't know why he enabled you to call all the shots. He must have been very much in love with you to let you get away with hurting a friend. Fifteen years is a long time to wait for someone. I am sorry if I do not believe for one mnute that you have Ariadne's best interests at heart. I would not want ot ever cross your path or make you an enemy. You play dirty. To me it sounds like you and Dg are a match made in heaven. The kettle and the pot sort of thing. I wish Ariadne could see through the both of you and just simply walk away without ever casting a backward glance. I also wish there were a way those pictures could be taken down, Ariadne, What kind of a man allows his girlfriend to plaster nude photos of a friend. The answer? A coward. Marlena Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 I have no idea where you got that from, but it never crossed my mind. Think she meant "don't shoot the messenger" and is thankful that you two got along in your thread, no fighting etc... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 19, 2008 Author Share Posted June 19, 2008 Ariadne, I'm sure you've heard the term internet predator before. You need to be aware that this is what Denver Guy really is. No, he is not. He truly is amazing. Even if you don't believe me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 19, 2008 Author Share Posted June 19, 2008 Ariadne, What kind of a man allows his girlfriend to plaster nude photos of a friend. The answer? A coward. Marlena He is not the one to go against the world. He lets the world be. Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 Ariadne Oh Ariadne Wait for me.. B4R , this is just hateful. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 Denver Guy, you need to leave Ariadne ALONE and stop messing with her. You need help buddy...Serious counselling. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 B4R , this is just hateful. The mods will be able to figure out if this person is really from Denver or someone else pretending to be him from the IP address. But, seeing how this thread has gone, I assume it IS DG since his ex is posting on here now. Link to post Share on other sites
marlena Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 Denver Guy, you need to leave Ariadne ALONE and stop messing with her. You need help buddy...Serious counselling. All three of them do. This is a sick joke just like the photos and the stalker post! Link to post Share on other sites
marlena Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 Ariadne, They are posting together. Does this not tell you something? Please, please, walk away. This is the best closure you could have ever hoped for. They are teasing you and ridiculing you TOGETHER! Run and don't look back. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 19, 2008 Author Share Posted June 19, 2008 Ariadne, They are posting together. Does this not tell you something? Please, please, walk away. This is the best closure you could have ever hoped for. They are teasing you and ridiculing you TOGETHER! Run and don't look back. Ok, that is "not" Denver guy. I don't know who that is but is just joking around. The "DollGirlfriend" though is Denver guy's gf. Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 This is some really messed up shat. I found that web page and, I have to say Ariadne....some of what you did is just....way inappriopriate. Just wrong. Not so much the nude pictures, but the other stuff. All of it put together is just very scary. I actually don't blame Wendy for putting it out there. I would be terrified and un-nerved by that stuff as well. Ariadne, get help girl. Seriously. Try, just go and try. Wendy, I'm glad you finally see this tool for who he is and plan to exit the situation. The sooner the better. This whole situation is just messed up. No love at all. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 I thought Dollgf was the EX gf of DG. IF she isn't his ex, then yes, they're messing around on LS. All for kicks and that's just SICK SICK SICK. Link to post Share on other sites
DollGirlfriend Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 Well, now your troll has arrived. That is not DG. He's not home yet. And he's better spoken. This is a sick joke just like the photos and the stalker post! Wow, have no idea how I got your panties all twisted up, Marlena, but no... the pictures are not coming down. If for no other reason now than that you wish it. Name calling might not be the way to get what you want, just sayin. Especially when dealing with the "Immoral and Evil" like me. (shaking head) I do hope that Ariadne gets the help she needs. And I am furious with the real DG for doing this to her AGAIN. He knows what he's doing this time and that is just inexcusable. But with friends like you, Marlene, how can she hope but to fail? That's just plain sad. Link to post Share on other sites
DollGirlfriend Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 I thought Dollgf was the EX gf of DG. IF she isn't his ex, then yes, they're messing around on LS. All for kicks and that's just SICK SICK SICK. I AM his EX. We are no longer involved and we never will be again. Ariadne just can't wrap her mind around that I'm not the reason he's not emailing her. It doesn't make sense if we really AREN'T involved because the excuse was always me being in the way. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 Well, now your troll has arrived. That is not DG. He's not home yet. And he's better spoken. How do you know he isn't posting from somewhere else? Does he have to be at home to post on LoveShack? Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 Well, now your troll has arrived. That is not DG. He's not home yet. And he's better spoken. Wow, have no idea how I got your panties all twisted up, Marlena, but no... the pictures are not coming down. If for no other reason now than that you wish it. Name calling might not be the way to get what you want, just sayin. Especially when dealing with the "Immoral and Evil" like me. (shaking head) I do hope that Ariadne gets the help she needs. And I am furious with the real DG for doing this to her AGAIN. He knows what he's doing this time and that is just inexcusable. But with friends like you, Marlene, how can she hope but to fail? That's just plain sad. Wendy, I ran across your blog before as well, and I have to say all in all you handled the situation much better than I would have. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 I AM his EX. We are no longer involved and we never will be again. Ariadne just can't wrap her mind around that I'm not the reason he's not emailing her. It doesn't make sense if we really AREN'T involved because the excuse was always me being in the way. We've ALL been trying to open A's eyes here and try to help her see who this DG really is. Until she is ready to believe that he isn't who she thinks he is, unfortunately and sadly, the fantasy will continue.. Link to post Share on other sites
DollGirlfriend Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 This is some really messed up shat. Thanks, Underpants. Wendy, I'm glad you finally see this tool for who he is and plan to exit the situation. The sooner the better. This whole situation is just messed up. No love at all. Yeah, I feel stupid that it took me as long as it did. And that after 15 years of all this romantic talk about my being the only one he loved I was totally sold a bill of goods. Though, his cruelty in doing this to Ariadne again really blindsided me. Just goes to show, even after this long, people can surprise you. (shrug) Link to post Share on other sites
DollGirlfriend Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 How do you know he isn't posting from somewhere else? Does he have to be at home to post on LoveShack? Not his style at all. He isn't the type. That kind of jovial response in the middle of a "you're being mean to our friend! You stink!" kind of thread is totally not him. (shrug) And, since he just pulled up he would've had to be typing while driving. Dunno, I just don't think that was him. Link to post Share on other sites
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