Walking away Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Oh honey. Don't be sad. You are dodging a bullet but you can't see it. Get help and you will feel so much better. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 20, 2008 Author Share Posted June 20, 2008 Oh honey. Don't be sad. Thanks. No, I'm ok actually. Today was an exciting day. Link to post Share on other sites
ohhowwelaughed Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Because the world cannot get surreal enough IMHO, I figured I should chime in as someone who also dated "DG". Because I did date him, sometime before Darlene and, evidently in-between Wendy. I have no idea who Laura or any of the other stalkers are. Wow. Who would have expected his dating life would be this screwed up all these years later. I feel as though I missed getting hit by a train. Run Forrest, run! Ariadne, seriously you need help and you should take Wendy's offer and go stay with him for a while. I don't think you would like it as much as you think. This man likes to collect people with obvious weakness around himself and them use them as a comparison to himself to bolster his ego and relieve his insecurities about himself. Trust me, you are even now being used in a series of unflattering stories about what a whack job you are. In all probability he has been using you this way for YEARS. I'm sure he has been using ME this way for years and Wendy can be sure she will also be used this way too. Yay us. Wendy, good for you for getting out. When I first found your blog I was amazed, I just couldn't believe he had managed to actually get engaged and let someone live with him. It made me a bit angry actually, thinking that it really was ME that he wasn't into. While that may indeed be the case, it is pretty clear the guy has a problem way bigger than either one of us. I wonder if we could get some more ex'es on here, that would a riot. For the record I'm not a stalker, but what girl doesn't like to read a little internet drama about an ex? Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Ariadne: You make me want to cry for you. I want you to be better. Please go talk to someone. It will help you. Link to post Share on other sites
zicke Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 He just doesn't want to write now, for some reason. What do you think that reason is? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 20, 2008 Author Share Posted June 20, 2008 Because the world cannot get surreal enough IMHO, I figured I should chime in as someone who also dated "DG". Because I did date him, sometime before Darlene and, evidently in-between Wendy. I have no idea who Laura or any of the other stalkers are. Ok, This is getting really weird now. Are you serious? What happened that it didn't work out? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 20, 2008 Author Share Posted June 20, 2008 What do you think that reason is? He is probably freaking out or something. Especially now that the gf found out. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 I want to know why W still has a link to DG's site, promoting him. DG looks like Fabio. Ariadne, I hope you think about things and open your eyes - Do your best to disconnection from DG. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 I am too curious, someone PM me the link to the ex gf's blog. Ariadne, I wouldn't take ohhowwelaughed seriously, I doubt that is for real. 2 ex girlfriends within one day? Link to post Share on other sites
Lookingforward Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 I want to know why W still has a link to DG's site, promoting him. DG looks like Fabio. Ariadne, I hope you think about things and open your eyes - Do your best to disconnection from DG. nah - Fabio looked WAY better (back in the day) and his hair was nicer and Dg has a weird ass Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 DG looks like Fabio. I can't believe it's not butter. Link to post Share on other sites
zicke Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 I believe his website was posted about a page ago---on it, he has a link to the "love of his life" aka Wendy. Or do a google search for "you might be a stalker" Link to post Share on other sites
DollGirlfriend Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 So.. Mi conclusion to all this is that she is furious that he wrote to me. *smacking head repeatedly on desk* No, Ariadne. I AM angry that he wrote to you, but not for the reasons you think. I am angry that even knowing that you are broken and emotionally unstable, that you have a history of being fired from your job for being obsessed with him, knowing that you are madly in love with him and that he feels nothing for you, that he wrote to you. THAT is why I'm angry that he wrote to you. Because you are broken, and he is using the fact that you are broken and wounded to stroke his ego, and that means he's an even bigger asshat than I EVER imagined. And I believe that this is all about control to her. I don't control DG. I never did. And I don't now. I don't desire to either. That's best left to D, his chosen mother-surrogate who runs his life for him. The moment she got together with him, (even if she doesn't love him and talks horrible about him) the first thing she did was to forbid us to talk. Ever. Yes, yes I did. Because it was obvious you weren't getting the hint that he was taken now. And because he was just continuing to lead you on. I thought the communication between you two was profoundly mentally unhealthy then, and I maintain that belief now. I continued talking to him (and no, I never sent snail mail or called the house, just emailed) and she went to all those antics to stop me. I wonder what she is going to do "next" to get us not to talk. Nothing. His not talking to you now is because he is toying with you. Just like he did last time. And the time before that. I don't care who he talks to anymore. He isn't mine. He isn't my responsibility. If I DID care, do you really think Laura, who left him love notes all over the house (that he would've found if he ever freakin CLEANED) would be living here? I don't care who he talks or writes to, Ariadne. I am not the thing in your way this time. He is toying with you because it feeds his ego. Just like last time. And the time before that. If you have ANY sense of self preservation at all, you will just let him go. But I don't think you do, and that this cannot end well. I continue to wish you luck. Seriously. You're going to need it, because all he is going to do is hurt you again. And this time, you have no one to blame for it but him. Link to post Share on other sites
Walking away Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 I personally don't like blondes so he does NOTHING for me. Looks like an 80's porn star to me. Link to post Share on other sites
zicke Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 He is probably freaking out or something. Especially now that the gf found out. Do you think that a soulmate would let that stop them from emailing or responding to you? Link to post Share on other sites
DollGirlfriend Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Because the world cannot get surreal enough IMHO, I figured I should chime in as someone who also dated "DG". Because I did date him, sometime before Darlene and, evidently in-between Wendy. I have no idea who Laura or any of the other stalkers are. Wow. Hmm... are you... the real estate agent? If you're who I think you are, I never met you, though I was in the house when you were packing up the horses and leaving after he dumped you in email (charming boy, that). Who are you? This man likes to collect people with obvious weakness around himself and them use them as a comparison to himself to bolster his ego and relieve his insecurities about himself. Trust me, you are even now being used in a series of unflattering stories about what a whack job you are. In all probability he has been using you this way for YEARS. I'm sure he has been using ME this way for years and Wendy can be sure she will also be used this way too. Yay us. Damn, you HAVE dated DG. Who ARE you? Please tell me. Wendy, good for you for getting out. When I first found your blog I was amazed, I just couldn't believe he had managed to actually get engaged and let someone live with him. It made me a bit angry actually, thinking that it really was ME that he wasn't into. While that may indeed be the case, it is pretty clear the guy has a problem way bigger than either one of us. Well, if it makes you feel any better, it was all pretty much make believe engagement. He's used me the same way a vampire hunter uses a cross: I am a talisman to ward away other women, though he doesn't really love me either. In retrospect, I think that's what I have always been to him. Because the Wendy he describes to me that lives in his head, and the Wendy I am have very, very little in common. I wonder if we could get some more ex'es on here, that would a riot. Holy cats. That would be interesting. Though, he'd spin it into that we'd formed a support group because we can't handle living without him. For the record I'm not a stalker, but what girl doesn't like to read a little internet drama about an ex? No, you don't sound like a stalker. You sound like you were in the house. Email me and tell me who you are... please, pretty please? Were you the Queen of Potatoes perhaps...? Link to post Share on other sites
DollGirlfriend Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 I want to know why W still has a link to DG's site, promoting him. GAH!!! Because I forgot. But the second I have the right editing program loaded on this computer (maybe it's on the laptop, hmmm) link is gone. D'oh! Thank you for pointing that out. DG looks like Fabio. DG WISHES he looked like Fabio. He is not aging well, and it's making him nuts. Not nuts enough to actually take better care of himself, and it won't help him with losing his hair, but still. (shrug) Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Well, I think Fabio looks like a freak...lol Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Well, I think Fabio looks like a freak...lol +++++++ ONE Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Remember when a bird flew into his head and broke his huge nose? Link to post Share on other sites
DollGirlfriend Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Remember when a bird flew into his head and broke his huge nose? (nodding) wasn't he on a roller coaster or something? Poor bird. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 20, 2008 Author Share Posted June 20, 2008 DG looks like Fabio. Yeah, I said that before (here). Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Adriane, I have held off on posting to this thread because I truly didn't know how to word what I wanted to say. You have come on my threads lots of times when I was talking about men who weren't treating me right- and you've told me: he just isn't into you, or he just wants sex... and you know what? You were right. Those men I posted about weren't treating me right- and I was setting myself up to get hurt. I wish you could see the same thing in this guy you have given up so many things for. I am not sure why you think this guy is different, or worthy of your love... but you do feel that way. I don't know what to say about everything that has transpired here. I do think you are selling yourself short. I do think you should expect better for yourself. I don't know what else to say, or how to contribute more meaningfully. I just think you deserve better... But that has already been said. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 He is probably freaking out or something. Especially now that the gf found out. Stop making excuses for his behavior.. or non behavior Ariadne... If he wanted to contact you he would.. I remember a post a while back ago from DollGirlFriend that mentioned something along the lines of : He could've contacted you at anytime in the last 2 years thru another email address.. why do you think he didn't do that ? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 20, 2008 Author Share Posted June 20, 2008 Hey, I am not sure why you think this guy is different, or worthy of your love... but you do feel that way. I don't know what to say about everything that has transpired here. I do think you are selling yourself short. I do think you should expect better for yourself. I just feel that many people have created a wrong image in their minds of Denver guy. Wrong conclusions or understanding. He is more than worthy of anybody's love. I don't think I know many people that are worthy of his love. Other than that, I don't have too many news. I just heard from him in a short email after two years, but that's about it. Link to post Share on other sites
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