Author Ariadne Posted June 20, 2008 Author Share Posted June 20, 2008 Well, Well when he was with his GF he could've contacted you then without his GF's knowledge. He's not the kind of guy to do something like that. Once again, wrong about Denver guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 20, 2008 Author Share Posted June 20, 2008 If you want to live in fantasy world then that is your choice, I have said my piece. I am done with this thread. Ok, thanks so much for posting. I just don't agree with your conclusions about Denver guy, but I really appreciate you taking your time to respond and all of that. Love xooxoxoxoxoxoo Link to post Share on other sites
tinke Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 no, no. no....the conclusion of NPD has nothing to do with his incapability to LOVE the exes. It is primarily the way in which he portrays himself on his site. LOOK AT ME! It screams this! I LOVE ME! also, if he did not love the others, why keep them hanging on? Why isn't one enough, what is the NEED to have several women actively longing for him? The average person would find this exhausting, confusing, and annoying. He must NEED this to fill his own insecurities. So welcome, as you fill his pride, your supply of self-love will lessen. I am sure you will eventually feel depleted. It's one thing to feel things, think out your fantasies, but another to act on them where others are involved.... again, you are the model for your son's perception of relationships. Why not portray a healthy one. Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Emails that I waited two years for and was so happy to receive. Sigh. This says it all really. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 I'd love to fold his clothes, cook for him, and clean his house. He actually has other women doing that for him right now.. He broke up with W and D replaced her.. you didn't get an email from DG asking to replace W did you ? Ariadne.. this guy is a tool.. he is self absorbed.. I looked at his website.. it is a NPD paradise.. he even has wallpaper desktop pictures of himself.. not for his fans but for his ego.. Who does that kind of crap... Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Well, Well when he was with his GF he could've contacted you then without his GF's knowledge. He's not the kind of guy to do something like that. Once again, wrong about Denver guy. Why hasn't he contacted you then ??? W is gone... Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 OMG! I can't stop laughing...sorry, A. Did anyone check out the part of his site showing his house? He's so pretentious. Look at all my antiques. Most of my furniture is from the 16th century and one of a kind. I tend to like the darker, heavier woods. I like to walk around the house moving these heavy pieces. It's good exercise. Check out my parlor. (Parlor? :lmao: ) And here's me in my exercise room. Like my butt in these tight jeans? Now here's my humongous dressing room. Ok, now here's my movie theatre. Everyone thinks I should have movie theatre style seats instead of the couches. I just don't know what to do about that. Here's me posing in front of a tree with my huge dragon/amethyst necklace. And here I am looking pensive as I reflect on my godliness. :laugh:OMG, I almost spit my lunch out laughing! I'm sorry, A but he really is SO full of himself. And a real show-off too. Ugh. I swear I don't really get what anyone would see in him. Link to post Share on other sites
tinke Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 I"m curious to see the "parlor", how do I? Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 I hate to say this, but I kinda agree with Ariadne---we really do not know anything about this man, only from his website and from an ex-girlfriend or two. Despite how the evidence is overwhelmingly pointing to the fact that the man probably has quite a big ego, we just do not know. I guess I am looking at it from my perspective. I recently got out of a 4 year engagement as well, and while I will bitch about the guy, I would never go to the extent that the ex's on this thread have. When you are "outed" publicly like this guy is being outed, it has gone too far. The man is being diagnosed, made fun of, belittled, and we all know who he is. If we did not have access to his website, or name, or anything that identifies him, sure, blast away. But we do. And that I lay firmly at Ariadne's feet. It wouldn't take many people too long to figure out who she is talking about...and it didn't help that Dollgf all but linked her blog. Ariadne has been posting about DenverGuy for years, and this thread is the first time so much personal info has been "outed". I think the Dollexgf is to blame mainly for that, as her posts were the ones that gave everyone enough search terms to find all the pictures- she signed her own name for petes sake! All I did was type "dolls" + "wendy" + "stalker" into google, and bingo, I can see Ariadne naked. (sorry Ariadne) I can't believe that those pics are STILL there even though wendy knows that everyone on here is going to look at them. I think that says quite a bit about her, and even though she is wronged by DG, I can't condone her continuing to keep those pics up so I don't feel sorry for her at all. And while you say yes, he is a human after all, and we cannot really know him just from his website, I can't help but agree with Tinke here: no, no. no....the conclusion of NPD has nothing to do with his incapability to LOVE the exes. It is primarily the way in which he portrays himself on his site. LOOK AT ME! It screams this! I LOVE ME! He clearly wants all of that on there for the world to see, thats what he wants us to see. Unfortunately, not all of us see him in the glowing light that he sees himself, but if you are going to put yourself out there that much, you have to be prepared for the fact that you aren't going to appeal to all and sundry, and some people may laugh at you. i don't really have any sympathy for him in that respect at all. I doubt very much that he would care what the rest of us thought anyway, someone who could get upset by it simply wouldn't have a website like that. I personally would be horrified if I was being discussed in this much detail online by strangers, and my naked pics were being viewed by them- but no pictures of me naked exist, and I only divulge information about myself that i am actually prepared to discuss with people. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 What's wrong with being his servant? I'd love to fold his clothes, cook for him, and clean his house. I don't see how you'd have time for that. Stroking his massive ego is a full-time job. Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Nah' I searched his info that A put up. His first name + movie title gave me his full name ...bingo , his site which led to Wendy's. A never should have disclosed so much personal information if she did not want the sites found. She knew he "pics" were still there since she was stalking W's site. Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 OMG! I can't stop laughing...sorry, A. Did anyone check out the part of his site showing his house? He's so pretentious. Look at all my antiques. Most of my furniture is from the 16th century and one of a kind. I tend to like the darker, heavier woods. I like to walk around the house moving these heavy pieces. It's good exercise. Check out my parlor. (Parlor? :lmao: ) And here's me in my exercise room. Like my butt in these tight jeans? Now here's my humongous dressing room. Ok, now here's my movie theatre. Everyone thinks I should have movie theatre style seats instead of the couches. I just don't know what to do about that. Here's me posing in front of a tree with my huge dragon/amethyst necklace. And here I am looking pensive as I reflect on my godliness. . Lol esp to the bolded part! Yes, I did- and it was with a mixture of disgust and amusement. Its a homage to himself. Why would you need to do that if you could see your own furniture every day anyway, I mean he DOES live there. Who takes all the photos? Does he have a tripod or a PA to do it for him? Are mirrors not enough for him? i bet he is one of those people who talks to themselves in mirrors. "One looks handsome today, doesn't one- how YOU doin?". Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Nah' I searched his info that A put up. His first name + movie title gave me his full name ...bingo , his site which led to Wendy's. A never should have disclosed so much personal information if she did not want the sites found. She knew he "pics" were still there since she was stalking W's site. Oh yeah. I forgot about that. Oops. Well they are all as bad as eachother. Good grief. Link to post Share on other sites
marlena Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 I think the Dollexgf is to blame mainly for that, as her posts were the ones that gave everyone enough search terms to find all the pictures- she signed her own name for petes sake! And today she has posted a link on her blog space to LS so that everyone gets to read all the lurid details. I can't believe that those pics are STILL there even though wendy knows that everyone on here is going to look at them. I think that says quite a bit about her, Totally agree. Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Her blog isn't as sincere as she tries to sound on LS- she is much more mocking on the blog than she is to Ariadne on this thread. That also makes me suspicious. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 I"m curious to see the "parlor", how do I? Ok, just put his first name in and then the dot com and slash then house dot html. That will bring you to that house page. And SB you cracked me up! I can't stop laughing. Let's see...which massive piece of 17th century furniture shall I move today? Here, let's step into my overly-decorated parlor and reflect on things awhile. Link to post Share on other sites
marlena Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Well they are all as bad as eachother. Good grief. My thoughts exactly. Link to post Share on other sites
ohhowwelaughed Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 OMG! I can't stop laughing...sorry, A. Did anyone check out the part of his site showing his house? He's so pretentious. Look at all my antiques. Most of my furniture is from the 16th century and one of a kind. I tend to like the darker, heavier woods. I like to walk around the house moving these heavy pieces. It's good exercise. Check out my parlor. (Parlor? :lmao: ) And here's me in my exercise room. Like my butt in these tight jeans? Now here's my humongous dressing room. Ok, now here's my movie theatre. Everyone thinks I should have movie theatre style seats instead of the couches. I just don't know what to do about that. Here's me posing in front of a tree with my huge dragon/amethyst necklace. And here I am looking pensive as I reflect on my godliness. :laugh:OMG, I almost spit my lunch out laughing! I'm sorry, A but he really is SO full of himself. And a real show-off too. Ugh. I swear I don't really get what anyone would see in him. For the record I dated him pre-website. If that thing had existed I would never have gone there, indeed I've barely looked at it. Enough to think "what 45 year old man dyes his hair blonde?" It makes me feel a bit queasy and rather embarrassed that I was ever involved with him. In fact, I think this is the first time I've ever discussed it online, it became one of those "What was I thinking?" bits of my past. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 The question is, does it matter why the exes are trying to help Ariadne? This obsession is bad news. I doubt anyone can dispute it...well...beyond Ariadne that is... Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 For the record I dated him pre-website. If that thing had existed I would never have gone there, indeed I've barely looked at it. Enough to think "what 45 year old man dyes his hair blonde?" It makes me feel a bit queasy and rather embarrassed that I was ever involved with him. In fact, I think this is the first time I've ever discussed it online, it became one of those "What was I thinking?" bits of my past. Oh, I know how you feel. We all have those moments- well, maybe except Ariadne. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 For the record I dated him pre-website. If that thing had existed I would never have gone there, indeed I've barely looked at it. Enough to think "what 45 year old man dyes his hair blonde?" It makes me feel a bit queasy and rather embarrassed that I was ever involved with him. In fact, I think this is the first time I've ever discussed it online, it became one of those "What was I thinking?" bits of my past. That was funny about dating him "pre-website." Hey, don't feel badly. We all make mistakes. I hear you on the hair dying thing. Ugh. He should do something about those wrinkles though. He looks like one of his antique pieces. And what's with that massive forehead? You can land a helicopter on there! Link to post Share on other sites
tinke Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 ok, saw the photos of home and him, and him, and him! LOOK AT ME, I AM BEAUTIFUL, YES? Just sad! Which brings me to this...not to be rude, but I can't help but wonder...why would someone with sooooo very much money, luxuries, business, etc., entertain the thought of dating/marrying the average, ordinary "Jane"? I would think he would seek someone from his own circle. Just seems very peculiar! yep, I'll give ole Nicholas Cage a call tonight and see what he's up to. Why would someone with so many assets accept the fact that someone is stalking him, or in his mind...his beautiful goods, his assets. I would think he would be alarmed, particularly after hearing the near confession. It just doesn't add up. Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Its been speculated that he sees A as another harmless fan. Link to post Share on other sites
Kasan Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 The question is, does it matter why the exes are trying to help Ariadne? This obsession is bad news. I doubt anyone can dispute it...well...beyond Ariadne that is... It does matter IMO. I really question how much the exes are really trying to help Ariadne. I really do. I am incensed that her photos are on one of the blogs and if it were me, I would be contacting an attorney to see what rights if any, I would have in getting those photos down. I am really worried about Ariadne's mental health and what will happen when she finally realizes what f*cktards these people really are. God knows, we haven't been able to get through to her. Link to post Share on other sites
marlena Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Ariadne, How would you feel if your son stumbled upon those pictures? If he found out about the stalking? Honey, is it worth destroying your son for these (clearing my throat) people? Link to post Share on other sites
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