Art_Critic Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 Why is everyone saying they're down? I just looked and they're still there. Unless I'm totally missing them.. maybe you should refresh your browser.. I'm surfing from my home computer and that was the first time I hit the page on this computer.. Link to post Share on other sites
Kasan Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 The link to the nude pictures is gone.. Thank goodness, I am so very glad to see that Wendy took the pictures down. Ariadne, I believe that she really wants you to see DG the way that she sees him. Ariadne, is there a chance that any of what Wendy is saying could be true? Link to post Share on other sites
Kasan Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 Unless I'm totally missing them.. maybe you should refresh your browser.. I'm surfing from my home computer and that was the first time I hit the page on this computer.. Clean out your browsing history. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 Unless I'm totally missing them.. maybe you should refresh your browser.. I'm surfing from my home computer and that was the first time I hit the page on this computer.. Yep, that was it. I didn't refresh. They're gone. Ok, so at least now she's showing some class. I still think she's a phony for the other reasons stated. Link to post Share on other sites
tinke Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 It was I who asked why would DG be so mesmerized, perhaps he felt he could gain that constant attention. No, it was not at all a slam to A., as I do not know her. My point is..why after only a few meetings, does she feel he would be so engrossed. They are not in the same circle, do not see each other, do not hang out, etc. I do believe this has a very weird sense to all this...that is my belief. A. has a tone with her writing that amazingly appears in the same writings of DG and her son. I feel this is much more bizzarre than what is mentioned. Also, the attention seems to be on the outsiders, whereas I see A. doing the damage to herself. After all these posts, I have yet to read that she views things differently, or at least willing to see another's perspective without immediate defense. And if her son is truly pulled into this, that is where I see that her attention should focus, not the others. I guess I see this differently. Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 Ariadne's little fantasy wouldn't be QUITE so distrubing to me if it weren't for her complete lack of self respect. Like as if he could ask her to do virtually ANYTHING, and she would for the mere crumb of a couple lines of e-mail from him. As if he has all in the world to offer, and she has nothing and should be happy that he shows her any kind of attention, be it good or bad. It makes me very sad for her to see her waste years of her life like this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 21, 2008 Author Share Posted June 21, 2008 Hey, The summary from supposedly DG about money, etc., if it is true, again..why YOU? I don't know. I just believe in soulmates and that kind of stuff. The magical energy and connection. Guys!!! This is a miracle. This morning I woke up and the first thing in my mind as always was DG, and guess what, I felt BLAH! Ok, see how long this lasts. I hope for your own sake, this isn't sooo twisted that you are writing under different names. Nah, nothing like that. It simply doesn't add up. Why would an affluent, successful man many miles away, pick YOU to pair up with? It is not like you 're there in his everyday life and he is growing fonder of you. You've met but only a few times throughout years. Like I said, I thought it was a soulmate thing, as they say: You can meet someone who can carry the frequency of our Twin Flame and give you the feeling of union, Oneness. So this was going to be something grander than life, on a cosmic level, above money or any of those earthly issues. Personally, I myself, do not believe he wrote any of that to you, I believe it is part of your delusion. If so, this is very sick, do you see that? Those things he wrote he posted in a forum just like this one. He didn't write that to me, except for the emails about the work and weather. And now your son? IF, and I say IF it is him writing, WHY, WHY, WHY would you involve him even further in this masquerade? Is he parenting you? I had been talking to him about this thread and that W showed up etc. He does this cute thing with me all the time. He puts my head on his chest and pats me in the head and says: Safe place, safe place! So every time I'm stressed from work or something like this thread happens and I'm talking about it, he does his Safe Place thing, and tells me: Everything is happy, no worries, no work in safe place, everything is beautiful, etc etc. But I told him they were talking about him and if he wanted to read, so he read just those posts about him. He's sleeping now, when he wakes up I'll tell him to respond to WWIU if he wants. The more I read on this thread, the more I believe intervention is called for. You flippedly repeat "it is a part of my fantasy". Well then keep it a private fantasy, and stop involving others. Let your son enjoy his youthful times without coaching YOU. My son is happy. Yesterday I came from work and the gf was here with him. I made dinner for them and drove her home at about 10pm. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 21, 2008 Author Share Posted June 21, 2008 A, what conclusions have you come to about DG? Now you have some facts, do you think it's possible that he isn't who you thought he was? Or do you STILL believe he's into you and it's only a matter of time before he comes looking for you? This morning I feel weird WWIU, I can't answer that. But I wanted to thank you for being so loving and caring. You are such a wonderful person and your family is blessed to have you. And thanks to all the people that wrote to me also. You guys have been amazing. I just couldn't believe the support I got in all of this. Love you all xoxoxox Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 Guys!!! This is a miracle. This morning I woke up and the first thing in my mind as always was DG, and guess what, I felt BLAH! You know why, right? Because I think some of what you now know is sinking in and you know the fantasy IS just that - reality is setting in...Sure it may hurt you (alot) but it's better to KNOW what's what rather than pretend and lie to yourself. Fantasy is fun and harmless as long as it's on the straight and narrow, but in your situation, it's made you do things that aren't cool and also is doing damage to you. Whether you admit that or not, somewhere deep down inside of you, you know.. If your son wants to reply to me, great but if not, that's OK too. I just want him to take afew moments to himself, take a step back and see it from a different angle. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 21, 2008 Author Share Posted June 21, 2008 She's as big a phony as DG is. At first I thought she was genuine but no. On one hand she says LS helped her and on the other hand she calls us all stalkers and that she has no need for a "romance forum" anymore at this point in her life. I still think she's a phony for the other reasons stated. Ha!!! And it only took you a day to figure it out. You are too cool Touche. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 This morning I feel weird WWIU, I can't answer that. But I wanted to thank you for being so loving and caring. You are such a wonderful person and your family is blessed to have you. And thanks to all the people that wrote to me also. You guys have been amazing. I just couldn't believe the support I got in all of this. Love you all xoxoxox You're welcome A, and thank you for the compliment! You're a sweet woman with a huge loving heart. Just a shame you're wasting it on someone who doesn't appreciate you, your kindness and your love. Hopefully soon you'll do more thinking and realize that DG isn't worthy of YOU. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 21, 2008 Author Share Posted June 21, 2008 You know why, right? Because I think some of what you now know is sinking in and you know the fantasy IS just that - reality is setting in... I don't know. I just had a vision of all his million pictures, with his customs and his swords and his poses and his blonde hair sort of spinning around. Dunno. Weird. Today has started to be a weird day. But it's not uncommon that I'd get a strange DG day as I did when I was writing to him, and then back full force and more obsessed than ever. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 Ha!!! And it only took you a day to figure it out. You are too cool Touche. Yeah, I'm a little slow sometimes, what can I say? Thanks, Ariadne. You know I think you're a cool chick yourself. You'll figure this all out in time. I know you will. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 21, 2008 Author Share Posted June 21, 2008 Yeah, I'm a little slow sometimes, what can I say? Thanks, Ariadne. You know I think you're a cool chick yourself. You'll figure this all out in time. I know you will. Damn! If I forget DG I'm going to blame you all. What will I do without my fantasy? I love my fantasy. Of eternal love, true love, and magic. Link to post Share on other sites
sb129 Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 She took down the pictures.. good.. . That is very good news. Ariadne, if you get rid of your fantasy maybe something else will come along to replace it- something real and fun. You never know whats around the corner, especially if you make a little space for something to come into your life. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 But it's not uncommon that I'd get a strange DG day as I did when I was writing to him, and then back full force and more obsessed than ever. Do your best to NOT let that happen. Go back and re-read this thread, see what a selfish a-hole he is. Damn! If I forget DG I'm going to blame you all. What will I do without my fantasy? I love my fantasy. Of eternal love, true love, and magic. Good. Blame us all, atleast you'll be FREE of this insanity! What will you do? Find a real man, face to face, allow yourself to fall inlove and experience reality of REAL love that based on trust, respect and intimacy. That is MUCH better than a fantasy. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 Good. Blame us all, atleast you'll be FREE of this insanity! What will you do? Find a real man, face to face, allow yourself to fall inlove and experience reality of REAL love that based on trust, respect and intimacy. That is MUCH better than a fantasy. YES! I'm with Whichy on that one! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 21, 2008 Author Share Posted June 21, 2008 You never know whats around the corner, especially if you make a little space for something to come into your life. Find a real man, face to face, allow yourself to fall inlove and experience reality of REAL love that based on trust, respect and intimacy. That is MUCH better than a fantasy. YES! I'm with Whichy on that one! Thank you guys and thanks for getting those pics removed. And my apologies to Wendy for calling her phony. I'm no truth police. And thank you for removing those pics as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 Thank you guys and thanks for getting those pics removed. And my apologies to Wendy for calling her phony. I'm no truth police. And thank you for removing those pics as well. Actually, I don't recall that you ever called her a phony. I thought you were pretty nice to her. I know I called her a phony (others too) and maybe that was harsh but I make no apologies to her. It was only after some of us called her on her motivations and credibility that she even took them down. And as I've said, I'll give her credit for that much. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 21, 2008 Author Share Posted June 21, 2008 Actually, I don't recall that you ever called her a phony. I thought you were pretty nice to her. I know I called her a phony Well, yeah, but then I said you figured it out . Same crap. Oh, and I'm watching "Play Misty for Me" that Krytie TV suggested. So far so good. And... I went to read old DG emails again: ---- I'm real T. Whether that's a good thing to be is another matter altogether. *You* are beautiful, smart, kind, sexy, sweet, and all manner of wonderful things. ---- So I'm all falling in love again . I suck. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 21, 2008 Author Share Posted June 21, 2008 Denver guy I love you!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted June 21, 2008 Share Posted June 21, 2008 Denver guy I love you!!! Ariadne, how can you continue to love a man who isn't returning your love? He's nothing but a cyber fantasy and you know it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ariadne Posted June 21, 2008 Author Share Posted June 21, 2008 Ariadne, how can you continue to love a man who isn't returning your love? He's nothing but a cyber fantasy and you know it. I don't know TBF. I'm just going with what I feel. Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted June 22, 2008 Share Posted June 22, 2008 So many wasted keystrokes. All I can say is that I hope you get help, Ariadne, in spite of yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted June 22, 2008 Share Posted June 22, 2008 Well, yeah, but then I said you figured it out . Same crap. Oh, and I'm watching "Play Misty for Me" that Krytie TV suggested. So far so good. And... I went to read old DG emails again: ---- I'm real T. Whether that's a good thing to be is another matter altogether. *You* are beautiful, smart, kind, sexy, sweet, and all manner of wonderful things. ---- So I'm all falling in love again . I suck. T? Maybe he was writing that to me! Who is T? Oh and sorry, but he's such a phony. I don't know. I've had men say that to me before too. Some were genuine and others weren't. Just because they said it didn't mean I automatically believed them. Actions always speak louder than words. Link to post Share on other sites
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