gfscotty Posted July 24, 2003 Share Posted July 24, 2003 this is somewhat lengthy. I have been attracted to my friend's wife's sister for sometime. I have been told in the past she is not interested in me. So I gave up pursuing any relationship. Recently, we have some conversations about relationships and what we're each looking for. I have remained "cool" about my feelings for her. At a party over the weekend, she did something that confuses me. Having not "fussed" over her presence, when it came time for her to leave, I noticed that she gave good-bye hugs to a couple of other guys that she was hanging out with during the evening. When she came to good-bye to me, she held me as tight as any woman has ever before. She also gave me an open mouth kiss and told me how sweet I was and that I was a great guy. There are other things that she has said to her sister about me referencing about how "sweet" and that I was a "great guy", etc. What confuses me is that her previous comments about no interest . And I have always been told when a girl says how "sweet " a guy is, that's there way of saying "thanks, but NO thanks". So what is going on here....has she had a change in heart. I don't want to do anything foolish that would otherwise ruin a nice friendship. has she changed her mind about me and wants to explore this relationship to the next level?...HELP!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
jalexy Posted July 24, 2003 Share Posted July 24, 2003 I would imagine that if it didnt feel like she was coming on to you, then maybe yeah, she was jus tbeing friendly.... Link to post Share on other sites
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