Isis1808 Posted June 16, 2008 Share Posted June 16, 2008 Why do men think that its ok to constantly lie about the most minimal of things. It seems like hes hiding something because any lil question i ask him he feels the need to lie about it. If your really not hiding anything, why lie?? I've felt like hes been hiding something from me or lying mid relationship, Ive told him this and nothing has changed. He doesnt seem like he wants to prove me otherwise (or that he knows im right and cant). I just recently found out that he lied to me about flirting with other women while we're together (which he considers to be totally innocent) and about his "relationship" with another women i asked him about. Now i know he lied to me about other personal things we have spoken about. WTF!!?? Theres times when i look at him and i just get upset b/c i know about all his lies and about his "innocent flirting". In my opinion there is no such thing as innocent flirting. I dont understand why men think that you can have a serious relationship lying to your mate. Is there any possible explanation about this? Is he really hiding something? Should i be worried b/c if hes lying to me about all these things now, could it possibly lead to him cheating? Another thing i feel like hes lying to me about keeping contact with his ex, after we have agreed that it was better if we didnt do that. I have asked him and he conveniently forgot that he spoke to her or that she has contacted him. WTF!!?? Link to post Share on other sites
SeraBella Posted June 16, 2008 Share Posted June 16, 2008 Not all men think it's ok to constantly lie, but people do lie if they think they need to, or to avoid the possible situation that may occur from the truth. He may think that if he doesn't lie you'll get pissed about his honest response. Perhaps it is the way you respond or act in regards to certain issues, or perhaps it's the way his past girlfriends have responded/acted and now he feels he needs to hide something - whether it is innocent, or not. My guess is that you have other issues with this man, though, and this question is just part of something much larger. Link to post Share on other sites
OWoman Posted June 16, 2008 Share Posted June 16, 2008 Why do men think that its ok to constantly lie about the most minimal of things. It seems you're hanging out with the wrong "men". MEN are not like that. If you have someone who is, you might want to decide how important honesty is to you, and whether you can live with his clouded view of truth. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Isis1808 Posted June 16, 2008 Author Share Posted June 16, 2008 Thank you so much for your imputs. Serabella yor right about me having other issues with him, but it all goes back to the same thing, Tust!! Owomen, Honesty is very important to me, i just dont like to be lied to by someone i love (just like everyone else) especially if we're living together with a child. Link to post Share on other sites
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