LoveLace Posted June 19, 2008 Share Posted June 19, 2008 I have another thread about him, but I have to ask this...we met through mutual friends a couple months ago, we then "hooked up" one night out of the blue, but we had been flirting for a while so I guess it wasn't totally out of the blue. That was 3 weeks ago. Since then he calls every single day, to talk about - well, nothing. The 1st time he called he talked about our night together and said he "liked it" and we should do that again, something along those lines. But since then, he calls every single day to have totally pointless conversations. It bores me. He's never asked me over or out, except last weekend he wanted me to meet him and a buddy at a bar he was at, which was 10pm, so I was too tired to go - then he acted a little frustrated, but still calls everyday since then - to talk about nothing!! I don't get it. Even if all a guy wants is sex, I've never known of a guy to bother calling everyday like that. It feels kind of possessive, as though he wants to keep tabs on me everyday but doesn't talk about hanging out. It's annoying and now I've lost interest because of it all. Does he think the more he calls, the more likely I am to hop up and run to him when ever he wants sex? Maybe the guy just likes me, but I've never had this happen before...and I've only had daily phone contact when in an established, steady relationship. Maybe I don't really have a reason to think something is odd about it...maybe I just don't want him calling because I've lost interest in him; I haven't returned his calls X 2 days in a row now. Is it really just for sex every so often when HE wants it? Is he just being shy about going for more? Either way I'm not that interested - I was uncomfortable with how frustrated he sounded about me not meeting him that night, that's what really killed it for me. Link to post Share on other sites
Suiyobi Posted June 20, 2008 Share Posted June 20, 2008 Just tell him flat out that you're not interested in him and that you would appreciate it if he stops calling you. If he's sane and has common sense then he'll immediately know that he should stop. Otherwise, ignoring him will only make him believe that you didn't receive his message for some unknown reason, or that you were too busy to respond. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LoveLace Posted June 20, 2008 Author Share Posted June 20, 2008 Yea you are right he called again today and again I didnt feel like talking to him, so I do need to tell him something...dam Link to post Share on other sites
child_of_isis Posted June 22, 2008 Share Posted June 22, 2008 Yup! I call this the "let's pretend we are in a relationship so I can have consistent sex". Usually it consists of daily (sometimes more than one) phone calls, then weekly meet ups for sex. Booty calls more or less. Do notice he never asks you out or over to his place. He doesn't want to date you. My ex tried to pull this on me. Does he think the more he calls, the more likely I am to hop up and run to him when ever he wants sex? Link to post Share on other sites
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