Darth Vader Posted July 7, 2008 Share Posted July 7, 2008 Well, he told his wife to "leave him alone" when she was trying to communicate with him. She moved out of the bedroom because he did this. He just glosses over it and states "I admit my part in the marriage, now let's bash the STBXW more...." He really hasn't looked into himself and his part in it all. They were having an arguement, that's when he said for her to "leave me alone". But that still doesn't give her the right to cheat. Stop trying to to find reasons to bash him, or blame him for his wifes choices. You sound a little like his wife, shifting blame. Link to post Share on other sites
Lookingforward Posted July 7, 2008 Share Posted July 7, 2008 I guess the moral of the story is - be careful with MP if you may royally step in it yourself............I mean are we supposed to cry for mr music ? He's a big boy and knew what he was doing I assume. Link to post Share on other sites
Untouchable_Fire Posted July 7, 2008 Share Posted July 7, 2008 Well, he told his wife to "leave him alone" when she was trying to communicate with him. She moved out of the bedroom because he did this. He just glosses over it and states "I admit my part in the marriage, now let's bash the STBXW more...." He really hasn't looked into himself and his part in it all. He isn't applying for sainthood! On the other hand it is very apparent that his STBXW is a waste of bionutrients. Why do you identify with her so strongly? Some guys need a touch of space to cool down. It isn't supposed to be permanent, and it's not an excuse to cheat. Link to post Share on other sites
81West Posted July 7, 2008 Share Posted July 7, 2008 I guess the moral of the story is - be careful with MP if you may royally step in it yourself............I mean are we supposed to cry for mr music ? He's a big boy and knew what he was doing I assume. Like all situations discussed here, there are real people involved who will have their lives altered in real and often wrenching ways. We need to remember that. Each of those real people is a complex human being that has his or her own perspective and his or her own 'truth'. This thread is about supporting Leo, which doesn't require dehumanizing and distilling down the other players we know little about. In terms of supporting Leo, collectively we could have done a lot better today. Link to post Share on other sites
Lookingforward Posted July 7, 2008 Share Posted July 7, 2008 Like all situations discussed here, there are real people involved who will have their lives altered in real and often wrenching ways. We need to remember that. Each of those real people is a complex human being that has his or her own perspective and his or her own 'truth'. This thread is about supporting Leo, which doesn't require dehumanizing and distilling down the other players we know little about. In terms of supporting Leo, collectively we could have done a lot better today. fwiw - I don't believe any of my posts have done that 81....... but you have to admit it's a hard lesson for some that you reap what you sow..... Link to post Share on other sites
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