I think my boyfriend is just accepting my chest size...but really dont like it

[KBM2324]

ok..i have been dealing with this for a while....ok i'm a B cup size. And sometimes i really feel insecure about my chest size....my boyfriend ex's all of them were big chested and it just bother me..cause i'm not top heavy and sometimes i think he's just accepting my chest size..but really wish i was bigger...he never said anything like i wish you were bigger...or talking about other girls chest in front of me..but i just have this gut feeling that he wish i was bigger..i mean what man doesnt want a girl with a nice size chest?

[whichwayisup]

He wouldn't be with you if boob size was an issue. Please stop thinking about his ex's and their boob size - That was then, this is now.. Trust me, if boobs were THAT important to him, he wouldn't have even started dating you from day one.

 

You felt this way before he came into your life, about your size? So, no matter what he tells you, you're going to doubt him and yourself...

[Trialbyfire]

And sometimes i really feel insecure about my chest size

This is the crux of the matter. You feel insecure. Do you believe your chest is the only reason your b/f is with you? Is your name KBM2324b-cup? I think you get the gist of what I'm saying.

[saraispiel19]

oh gee. You remind me of me. I myself am not a big chesty girl but hey plastic surgery is dangerous, it can hide breast cancer, and you'd have to get it redone every 5 years. So in the end bee happy :-)

 

I used to drive myself crazy too, I am an A cup and a small A indeed and well I am no longer bothered by it- I am happy I am me and you should be too, you have a beautiful body and if he doesn't appreciate it he isn't the mate for you-- you need to let those worries go- as simple as that.

 

I came out of my shell and the sex has been a lot better (well now it's been pulled to a halt due to some icky problems) but I mean you'll feel less self conscience and really I bet your boyfriend loves your body and does not compare because he's with you!

 

Think about that! He's with You! you you you you.. not the other big boobed girls, you.

 

Good luck , smile, shoulders back and be proud to be you afterall no one else can :-)

[Star Gazer]

it can hide breast cancer, and you'd have to get it redone every 5 years.

 

WRONG. But anyway...

 

KBM - WWIU is right. If your boob size were truly an issue, he wouldn't be with you to begin with.

 

Men like nice boobs. A size boobs, and DD size boobs, and everything in between. If he's indeed a boob man, you've obviously got a nice set!!

[saraispiel19]

WRONG. But anyway...

 

ok argue with medical science :

"According to the FDA, women interested in implants need to understand that they are not meant to last for a lifetime. As the years pass, the chance that more surgery will be required torepair the possible damage from problems such as shifting, leaking, rupturing, pain and infection could increase. Some women are dissatisfied with the results of their surgery due to complications that could occur such as wrinkling, incorrect size, scar deformity or unanticipated shape. Sometimes, if careful with technique, surgeons can help prevent and minimize these chances, but there is no guarantee, according to the FDA."

 

and as for breast cancer ANYONE WHO WORKS IN THE MEDICAL FIELD WOULD AGREE that : "Breast Cancer: The idea of breast cancer may not have even crossed your mind yet, but when you get older and need mammograms, implants interfere with being able to detect cancer early. Even the best mammograms will miss up to half of the breast area where cancer can grow, because it will be hidden by the implants."

 

look at the facts. I'm not against plastic surgery or breast enhancement but the risks are too high for my liking.

[Lizzie60]

It's not as much about the size as it is about the shape.. you can have a huge DD size and the boobs are 'pear' shaped which is NOT nice..

 

you can have a B size and have them long and narrow.. not nice..

 

It's all about the shape... I've been blessed with huge boobs and they are awesome..

 

I would rather have smaller 'natural' boobs... than big 'fake' boobs...

[Keridan]

Don't worry so much. I know that I personally and many guys I know prefer smaller breasts cuz they keep shape better, are more fun to play with, and various other reasons. "All you need is a handfull"

 

The other posters are right, too. If he cared that much he wouldn't be with you. My wife usually expresses similar concerns about my past gfs, saying they all seem to look like super models or something. I usually am shocked that she's thinking about it or them, cuz I sure don't. I'm with her now and this ring says it will stay that way and I'm comfortable with that.

[Calisto]

I wouldn't worry about it because if he loves you, that will make absolutely no difference. I have a little over a B cup, not quite a C, and guys tell me I have the perfect breasts and very few men like them bigger than that.

He wants you to be his girlfriend, so he must find you sexy as is. He probably thinks you are sexier than his exes and you turn him on more, he has now found what he's really looking for.

[angie2443]

ok..i have been dealing with this for a while....ok i'm a B cup size. And sometimes i really feel insecure about my chest size....my boyfriend ex's all of them were big chested and it just bother me..cause i'm not top heavy and sometimes i think he's just accepting my chest size..but really wish i was bigger...he never said anything like i wish you were bigger...or talking about other girls chest in front of me..but i just have this gut feeling that he wish i was bigger..i mean what man doesnt want a girl with a nice size chest?

 

I think you are feeling self concious about your size.

 

When I was younger and very skinny, I was a size B. Actually, no men that I had been with complained. Women and girls can be mean and catty and say some hurtful things. I went through a time when I hated my chest and wished I was bigger. Then, I put on some weight and finally had a fuller bust. You know what? It was fun for a while but it wasn't any better than bieng a size B. It was just differant. Now, I'm inbetween a size B and bieng full busted. If I could, I would go back to bieng skinny again with the smaller chest. I was lighter and more agile then.

 

Each body type is attractive in it's own way. A curvy body may be softer, and a skinnier body may be more elegant and agile. Learn to love what you have. Learn to see the positives in your body type and work with that.

 

As far as your boyfriend goes, as long as he likes what you have, don't stress over it.

[Suiyobi]

I'll admit, a lot of us guys will turn heads to see a lady with a nice chest, and I'm sure that women would like to be with men who have big "hot dogs", but in the end those things shouldn't matter. A sane, smart, and understanding person will realize that those are just ideals and the reality is not everyone he/she meets will have perfect qualities.

 

If I were you, I wouldn't dwell on this issue too much. And if he does tell you that you're not "big enough" then drop him. No point in being with a guy who can't appreciate you for who you are.

 

ok..i have been dealing with this for a while....ok i'm a B cup size. And sometimes i really feel insecure about my chest size....my boyfriend ex's all of them were big chested and it just bother me..cause i'm not top heavy and sometimes i think he's just accepting my chest size..but really wish i was bigger...he never said anything like i wish you were bigger...or talking about other girls chest in front of me..but i just have this gut feeling that he wish i was bigger..i mean what man doesnt want a girl with a nice size chest?

[angie2443]

KBM2324, many men like a slender body with a smaller chest. I do think larger ones stand out more and so get more attention.

 

I do think it's important to be with someone who likes your body type. I know this may sound superficial to some and I'm not saying looks are the most important thing, but from what I've seen, bieng attracted to our partners is important in a relationship.

[Carmen87]

While I can't say I know how you feel, I can understand feeling insecure overall.

 

It is in my belief that we women are MUCH more critical about ourselves than our boyfriends are. My boyfriend does not look at me and see something he wishes he could change, he looks at me and sees what he likes.

 

Sure, maybe his past gfs were busty. Ever stop and think maybe they were insecure because they thought it was the only reason he was with THEM?

 

I think you are lucky to have smaller boobs personally. B cup is still a good size. Just love yourself, because thinking like this can only hurt your relationship.

[The Collector]

To be fair, I've met very few pairs I didn't like. 'Perky' is more important than big. I've had gfs with huge ones and ones with juicy smaller ones. I think I prefer smaller ones (B -C), to me they're more sexy.

[shadowplay]

I agree with the others that shape is more important than size. A lot of large breasts aren't as perky because gravity takes its toll.

[whichwayisup]

When I was 19 years old, I had a boyfriend who had GIANT balls. I loved them, and they REALLY turned me on - When I was 16, I had a boyfriend who had TINY balls, I'm not kidding, you couldn't even tell he had them, like two little robin's eggs.. My hubby has nice ones, not too big and not too small.

 

Do I wish my hubby had HUGE balls like one of my ex's? Sure, that would've been nice, but he doesn't and it's NOT the end of the world. Infact I haven't thought of the big balls until just now. It's a non-issue.

 

So, you have a choice. Let your boob size get in the way and make you feel insecure, and doubt what your boyfriend feels for you, or you can love how they look, enjoy them, and trust your bf that he LOVES you for WHO you are, small boobs and all.

 

Good things - You don't have to wear a bra. Later in life your boobs won't be saggy! They'll always look perky and bouncey. You can buy certain bras to give you cleavage, and then at the end of the night, take the bra off and sleep comfortably without having to squish your boobs around to get cozy in bed. The list goes on and on..

[KBM2324]

What Everyone Is Saying Is Right...but I Just Thought That Men Perfer Bigger....what's The Saying "the Bigger The Better"..and The Media Do Play A Part On The Females Mind...but I Hated Being So Insecure With Myself....i Tried And Tried To Get Over It..but Then I Just Felt My Body Wasnt A Good Enough..i Mean I'm A Size 7/8 I Have Nice Curves..but I Just Felt My Breast Was Lacking...lol I Like My Breast Being Perky And I Do Have A Mouthful..but I Just Thought If They Were Bigger He Would Like Them More...lol I Guess

[KBM2324]

but ya'll did make me feel a lil better.....but i do see the positives about my chest size

[angie2443]

When I was 19 years old, I had a boyfriend who had GIANT balls. I loved them, and they REALLY turned me on - When I was 16, I had a boyfriend who had TINY balls, I'm not kidding, you couldn't even tell he had them, like two little robin's eggs.. My hubby has nice ones, not too big and not too small.

 

Do I wish my hubby had HUGE balls like one of my ex's? Sure, that would've been nice, but he doesn't and it's NOT the end of the world. Infact I haven't thought of the big balls until just now. It's a non-issue.

 

So, you have a choice. Let your boob size get in the way and make you feel insecure, and doubt what your boyfriend feels for you, or you can love how they look, enjoy them, and trust your bf that he LOVES you for WHO you are, small boobs and all.

 

Good things - You don't have to wear a bra. Later in life your boobs won't be saggy! They'll always look perky and bouncey. You can buy certain bras to give you cleavage, and then at the end of the night, take the bra off and sleep comfortably without having to squish your boobs around to get cozy in bed. The list goes on and on..

 

LOL! I've never given any consideration to the size of a man's balls. I like them just fine, but don't really want them supersized. I guess everyone is attracted to differant things.

[Krytie TV]

OP, there are many of us that really don't care about the size. Each pair is unique and there hasn't been a pair yet that I have not liked on their own merit.

[Untouchable_Fire]

but ya'll did make me feel a lil better.....but i do see the positives about my chest size

 

If it makes you feel any better... he is probably worried that his stuff isn't big enough for your liking either. Just the way the world works.

[Shygirl15]

Look, I am a D cup who have always wished to be a B or at least a C. When I was younger, I was soo miserable because I had a bigger chest than most of my peers, and it was very embarrasing. I have had boyfriends who dated smaller cupped girls and I felt the same way you do. I have a DD friend who is so miserable with her chest she's depressed and considering breast reduction. Be happy with who you are, I learned to be.

[Trialbyfire]

What Everyone Is Saying Is Right...but I Just Thought That Men Perfer Bigger....what's The Saying "the Bigger The Better"..and The Media Do Play A Part On The Females Mind...but I Hated Being So Insecure With Myself....i Tried And Tried To Get Over It..but Then I Just Felt My Body Wasnt A Good Enough..i Mean I'm A Size 7/8 I Have Nice Curves..but I Just Felt My Breast Was Lacking...lol I Like My Breast Being Perky And I Do Have A Mouthful..but I Just Thought If They Were Bigger He Would Like Them More...lol I Guess

 

but ya'll did make me feel a lil better.....but i do see the positives about my chest size

KBM, your focus is still not in the right place. What defines you? Who are you that your b/f wants to stay with you? Are you nothing but a body? Any relationship based on superficiality will not be a lasting one.

[KinAZ]

Look, I am a D cup who have always wished to be a B or at least a C. When I was younger, I was soo miserable because I had a bigger chest than most of my peers, and it was very embarrasing. I have had boyfriends who dated smaller cupped girls and I felt the same way you do. I have a DD friend who is so miserable with her chest she's depressed and considering breast reduction. Be happy with who you are, I learned to be.

 

Ditto! I have a friend who has to go to a chiropractor, and has been considering a reduction. I, too, have been considering a reduction after I'm sure that I won't be reproducing again.

 

The media may play up the the imaginary value of having large breasts, but the media doesn't have to walk around with them. And much like Shygirl, I had a hard time when I was younger because I developed early. And I, for a long time, resented the negative attention I would get. (Some times I still do.) It wasn't till I became an adult that I was comfortable enough with myself to wear more feminine or sexy clothes, because when I was younger, I wasn't emotionally able to deal with it.

 

We all have little preferences regarding the opposite sex. I prefer tall men, but I wasn't less attracted to or less turned on by the guys who were closer to my weight. They're just preferences, they don't make or break the deal. Your boyfriend could be incredibly attractive, but I'm sure that if you wanted to nitpick you could find something about him that wasn't your "ideal" if you were at all concerned about that. You know?

 

And as has already been stated, it can't be that important to him if he's with you.