I like this kinda shy girl and she's leaving for college in less than a month

[sports1]

well I like this kinda shy girl and she's leaving for college in less than a month..well she knows that I like her,but has told me she doesnt want to start anything that she's leaving soon. well now when her and I walk past each other she'll look at me and have a serious look where other times she'll look in a different direction once walking past.pretty much avoiding like... I know when girls like a guy they'll smile and so on,but is it possible when they give serious looks ..could that possibly mean liking??

[Tony T]

She's probably flattered that you like her. Most people feel good to have admirers. But no matter how she responds to you, she knows she'll be leaving soon so it makes no difference. She has made it very clear she wants to get nothing going prior to her departure.

[longlegzs80]

She probubly is interested in you alot and would love for it to go further. But as you mentioned she does not want to get into anything because of school. I am just curious though if you ask her to get coffee or somethign, or go to the movies, or out to dinner as just going out being friendly kinda thing what she would think. You show interest in her, and she likes you alot, that is what I am getting from all this, but if I were you, I would just talk to her. Ask her to do somethign like that, or go out in a big group or something, just so you and her can be together. Ask her if you can still talk to her when she goes up to college, like from phone, instant messaging etc. THat would probubly be your best bet. Or ask her if you said somethign wrong? Just to see why she is avoiding you. Definitly make a move.

 

Since she is going back to school in a month, tell her you would like to take her out for a night of fun. Just something, then at that point of talking, ask her if it is not a problem to keep intouch with you while she is in college.

 

Make a move again. The only reason why this girl rejected you was because she was going back to college, but just start out as a friendship first and talk to her while she is in college. Hope this helps. Take care.

[sports1]

She also said she wanted the summer to spend with friends because not knowing when they'd see each other again which is understandable,because if she did start something with me that'd take time away from friends I guess.Maybe she's just not the long distance type with starting college and having to worry about keeping a relationship going could be tough

 

IF she does like me maybe she's just avoiding me to save her feelings maybe where doing the opposite would hurt even more.

 

even though I understand the whole situation..its still frustrating of course..its a bit easier talking to her online where i'm looking at a computer screen you know,so I still talk to her that way. usually when her and I talk online I pretty much do most of the talking like asking questions and such but she usually responses back within seconds min or 2 at times and responds openly for the most part when asked a certain question.

 

Yet in person her avoiding sucks,in which doesn't help,but its harder for me to see her in person...that frustrating feel wanting to be with but can't at this time..in which I hope someday,but I can't read her mind on what she'll want in time.

 

where now that I've mentioned is pretty much avoiding or giving me serious looks,but a time week or so ago she was cleaning up something,so I had to go over and mess around saying she missed a spot,well she barely said anything but smiled and I said she missed another spot and smiled more.

 

A short while back on here I went ahead and said that its been great getting to know her that she's an awesome person and hope someday once she's gone..if her and I could talk again if its on here or in person and her response was " we will sometime"