Magpies Posted June 28, 2008 Share Posted June 28, 2008 The same man that's taken 3-years to tell me he likes me is now promising me forever ... repeatedly. I've secretly liked him this whole time and how the hell can I not be happy about this? Every time he tells me he loves me, I melt. And he does so repeatedly so I've been walking around like a fool the past few days. I'm like mush inside and I am so not complaining because I never thought I can feel this way again about anyone. But this time, it's different. This phase will probably not last forever, but I'm secretly hoping that with him, it does. So here I am on a stormy Saturday morning, waiting for him to wake. I thought to start a thread dedicated to all the new lovers and the old alike. Tell me about your sweet moments ... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Magpies Posted June 28, 2008 Author Share Posted June 28, 2008 A song for all the LDR's: My friend sent it to me last night and I think it's perfect for summer! Link to post Share on other sites
strongertoday Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 Ive just come back from 2 weeks with my man a total mess...so hard to leave him.... He will be moving here (12,000 miles away) in about 3 months....but I still have the fear he might not or something will go wrong.... yesterday he said.... I love you with all my heart,I am committed to us and moving there - COMMITTED - and for me...there is only you... who was a happy girl then Link to post Share on other sites
Keridan Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 I'm married and have been with my wife for a few years now and she still inspires me like the first time we kissed (we met online, so the full effect wasn't felt till we got together). She has this way of whining that would make me scream from anyone else, but with her, it makes me smile (or even laugh which really gets to her). I find myself staring at her and just wondering how the hell a guy like me got so lucky. She can brush her hair a certain way, smile a little crooked, or even just touch my arm and I want to attack her and kiss her madly. When the passion isn't overwhelming, there is also this comfort that I love. I'm okay with my life for the first time. I know that I've found the person I was meant to be with and I love trying to make sure she feels the same way. I think the comfort can even be better than the passion sometimes. It's contentment. Link to post Share on other sites
SaraLovesHerAndy Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 i still love the lil things atm too like the way he says hello, when i hear his voice my smile shoots across my face and doesnt go for hours after we stopped talkin on the fone. Also when i catch him watching me while im nodding off to sleep and when we're on cam. together n im doing my work he knows i keep looking at him so will blow me a kiss or poke his tongue out at me... hmmm hes just so perfect lol xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx:love::love: Link to post Share on other sites
HisLove Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 We have been through some ups and downs, both of us have been under a lot of stress independant of each other this year. We live a long ways apart. Yesterday we were bantering back and forth in our usual stir-each-other manner via text when I took a pic of me holding up a note that called him a funny name that he sometimes calls me, something that would be equivalent to, say, calling him a nitwit lol. I could just about sense him scrambling to find a pen & paper at his work (he would have been on a construction site)...and a pic and name came right back to me. He held the note just below his nose so I could see his twinkling eyes of mischief looking at me over the top of the note. That's how we are with each other. While I was laughing my head off about his return 'insult', another pic came in from him. He'd gotten a new piece of paper and written Ti Amo on it. Link to post Share on other sites
LikeCharlotte Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Also when i catch him watching me while im nodding off to sleep and when we're on cam. together n im doing my work he knows i keep looking at him so will blow me a kiss or poke his tongue out at me Yesterday we were bantering back and forth in our usual stir-each-other manner via text when I took a pic of me holding up a note that called him a funny name that he sometimes calls me, something that would be equivalent to, say, calling him a nitwit lol. I could just about sense him scrambling to find a pen & paper at his work (he would have been on a construction site)...and a pic and name came right back to me. He held the note just below his nose so I could see his twinkling eyes of mischief looking at me over the top of the note. That's how we are with each other. These things make me feel much less crazy. Thank you sooooo much for sharing. Link to post Share on other sites
SaraLovesHerAndy Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 There's always things like that, that make you feel stupid for liking them so much but you just cant help yourself it makes you feel really special:love: Link to post Share on other sites
JustinWolf Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 She used to bite me. I hated that but now I miss it... Ironic, ain't it? We also used to fight, not literally but just for fun and she headbutt me once. Those are things I will always miss. Link to post Share on other sites
Lookingforward Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Yes, it's all those little things that far outweigh the "grand passion".......and they're what I miss most Link to post Share on other sites
Dark-N-Romantic Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 I miss my Sweetness and I miss being called Petheart. I don't think any other woman will ever claim that nickname again. She is one of a kind and a part of me still prays that she will realize that the man of her life and heart is here for her. DNR Link to post Share on other sites
SaraLovesHerAndy Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 awww thats really nice!! ^^^^^ Its good to see a man saying stuff about him girlfriend like that rather than acting all macho Link to post Share on other sites
Author Magpies Posted September 15, 2008 Author Share Posted September 15, 2008 There's a holiday where I'm at and the free time's got me thinking about my love. Random moments of bliss ... when I look extraordinarily unkept in the morning on webcam, hair all frizzy in a samurai knot, no make-up, and he sits back in his chair, takes a breath, and says, "You are so beautiful. How did get so lucky?" Damn him ... I miss him soo! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Magpies Posted September 17, 2008 Author Share Posted September 17, 2008 He woke me up today, my morning, his night, and he just got back from a very long day. It was the day after an out-of-town business meeting and so he had a mountain full of work waiting for him. He said the one thing that he thought about all day that made him feel better was how the extra money he's earning is going towards our future home. Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted September 18, 2008 Share Posted September 18, 2008 definite moments of sweetness: holding hands and stealing kisses in the grocery store, and when he blows kisses at the end of our phone conversations. And ALWAYS saying "I love you" just before he blows kisses. In the 16 years we've been married, I can probably count on one hand (maybe a bit of the second, lol) that he hasn't done it because he's so pissed off. Link to post Share on other sites
crimsonrose Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 Well, this is kinda bittersweet, but my fiances a gamer, so when we're webcamming and I get exhausted and go to sleep, even though he can still see me and hear me, and I can still see and hear him, because I just set my laptop on the sidetable by my bed, he chooses to play games. Thats understandable, as hed get bored if he just sat there watching me sleep. But dear God, sometimes he DOEs sit there and watch me sleep on webcam. Its only once every few... well... months. lol. but still, when he does it, he writes to me (instead of talking to me through the video call, so he doesnt wake me) and takes screenshots of me sleeping and tells me how beautiful I look. Sorry if that sounds creepy, but we've been in this relaitonship for 2 years, and only visit a couple of times a year, so I think it's perfectly alright to do that, thanks very much. XD Anywho, its almost like hes sleeping next to me, in real life, when he watches me on webcam. Makes me feel very beautiful. Another thing is the way he talks to me sometimes irl. Sometimes I'll just be sitting there, and my fiance, even though hes not very affectionate, will suddenly like half whisper 'my beautiful girl" kinda to himself. Makes me melt right through the floor. lol Link to post Share on other sites
crimsonrose Posted September 29, 2008 Share Posted September 29, 2008 O, and another thing. This is sort of strange but it doesn't matter. All of my fiance's family are into strippers. His brother, cousins, everyone. And all this time my fiance's chosen not to go (and I trust him not to. he's either at work or with me, so i know hes not lying). Anyways, recently his cousins bucks night 9australia bachelor party) came up, and low and behold, it was at a stripclub. My fiance tentatively asked me to go, because he wanted to support his cousin. It made me so nervous, even though I trust him, so i cried alot and panicked because it was to take place the day after I come back hoem after being with him for 3 weeks. The night he came back, he was so sweet. He had started asking me before he left if he could start going to stripclubs with hsi cousins for special occasions because he felt left out. As soonas he got home, he said my body was beautiful and none of the strippers compared, and said he doesn't need that crap and never wanted to go again. It was just a really sweet moment. And the rest of the night he was really sweet, telling me he expected the strippers to be supermodel looking or something and it was me who was beautiful, and I was all he needed, and he was sorry. I dunno, it was jsut one of those things that kidna restores your faithe in humanity. XD Link to post Share on other sites
Author Magpies Posted October 5, 2008 Author Share Posted October 5, 2008 When our of nowhere he pauses for a second and then says, "I just want to make you happy." I feel like crying ... thinking how the hell did this happen? He thinks he's the lucky one, even insists it ... but man, I must have been a very good girl to have this. It's like my dream come true. It'll be another 5 months before we can be together and sometimes the idea of moving and stress of the wait and the unknown gets to me - I can be difficult. I have to remember that I've liked him for so long, longer than he knows, and so I should just be happy and focus on the important things like our future, our love and the start of our new lives together. Link to post Share on other sites
crimsonrose Posted October 5, 2008 Share Posted October 5, 2008 When our of nowhere he pauses for a second and then says, "I just want to make you happy." I feel like crying ... thinking how the hell did this happen? He thinks he's the lucky one, even insists it ... but man, I must have been a very good girl to have this. It's like my dream come true. It'll be another 5 months before we can be together and sometimes the idea of moving and stress of the wait and the unknown gets to me - I can be difficult. I have to remember that I've liked him for so long, longer than he knows, and so I should just be happy and focus on the important things like our future, our love and the start of our new lives together. well said where does he live and where do you live? that's so sweet. im normally the one saying that to my guy. asking him if there's anything i can do to make his day brighter and so on and so forth. He says it to me every once in awhile and it really does make you teary eyed. Link to post Share on other sites
crimsonrose Posted October 12, 2008 Share Posted October 12, 2008 So my fiance did the thing that makes me blissful today. I hadn't slept in 24 hours, and what little sleep I'd had was light sleep, so I couldn't help but snooze the second I got home last night. my fiance was on, and since it ws only 5 pm his time he wasn't ready for sleep yet, obviously. So he stayed up playing computer games and randomly watching me sleep. I woke up to all these messages about how beautiful he thinks I am when I sleep, and hwo I wake up looking perfect, and jsut all these sweet things that most other guys wouldnt have the patience to try to observe. (not that I think I wake up looking gorgeous, trust me. lol). Anyhoo, it was just really sweet. I'm gonna feel all princessy the rest of the day. He also called me precious and angel. And, I mean, what girl doesn't want to be called those two things? Link to post Share on other sites
MrMe Posted October 13, 2008 Share Posted October 13, 2008 My (now-ex)GF told me once "I'll always love you." Something as simple as that honestly meant more to me than anything anyone has ever told me...EVER. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Magpies Posted October 19, 2008 Author Share Posted October 19, 2008 "When people draw lips, they look like your lips." I don't know about bliss, but he's said this twice and how he phrases it always make me kinda laugh a little. He's such a dork, I love it! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Magpies Posted October 19, 2008 Author Share Posted October 19, 2008 well said where does he live and where do you live? that's so sweet. im normally the one saying that to my guy. asking him if there's anything i can do to make his day brighter and so on and so forth. He says it to me every once in awhile and it really does make you teary eyed. I'm an American currently working in Asia and he's Swedish Link to post Share on other sites
konfuzd Posted October 19, 2008 Share Posted October 19, 2008 My LDBF just got home from a trip to visit me. He sent me an e-mail when ge got back that read, "I've been thinking about everything that happened this trip, and all we talked about. I'm glad I have you. I brag about you." Link to post Share on other sites
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