whateverwillbe Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 What's fishing? Fishing is sending a note or something like it, to see where someone you want in your life is open to it. In other words, he may be missing her to the point that if she were open to it, missing him too, they could get back together. If she or he, the one they are writing, is not open to it they just say they are concerned and wanted to make sure they are doing ok. They then try to continue the relationship as just a friend, which may also bring more (baggage) to the relationship (at home) if the friendship continues. So do what you know you can live with. BTW- I do, however, believe that he may be totally honest saying he just wants to be friends, now that he realizes that she does not want a future. But until you find out if this is true, be careful. Link to post Share on other sites
Lookingforward Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 I am seriously considering messaging her through facebook (perfectly within my rights to do that?) and asking her girl to girl what is happening between them... Is this a bad idea?? Is she likely to lie? Is this just simply not a kosher thing to do? why not - then she can tell him what a sleaze you are snooping through his private emails............... Link to post Share on other sites
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