Different Reasons NOT to have an affair with a MM!

[OWoman]

Isn't it interesting that when haters have no argument against the content, they have to resort to attacking the person?

 

I hope you also find happiness one day, vivrantflo, and overcome your intense bitterness and emptiness.

 

1) LOL no, you don't have any respect for yourself. Your post is bizzare

 

2) WTF? How the hell can you be a fan of dignity and respect, if you don't RESPECT marriage vows??

 

3) lol no comment

 

4) Good for your kids.. I hope they don't develop the same homewrecking character traits you have.

 

5) So? Just because your family and friends support your behaviour, that doesn't mean they arent as morally screwed up as you are.

 

6) LOL it is laughable, how you twist EVERYTHING to suit your actions. This world is a scary place, with scary ass people in it. Coming from a broken home myself, your comment there REALLY pissed me off.

 

7) Ignorance is bliss huh?? As long as YOU'RE happy, who gives a flying F what other people think, and how it affects others. Good for you

 

8) LOL Are you kidding me? It's not wrong because YOU'RE happy? And its not wrong cause that POS MM is happy for cheating on his wife?? More love and less hating? I'd love to see the love the MW would give you after knowing you're frolicking in the sack with her H.

 

9) Your thinking is wacked. You have no morals.. or regard for ANYONE else besides yourself. You twist everything to suit your wants and desires.. and that's sad.

 

10) Refer to 9 1000000x

[Babyluv]

1) LOL no, you don't have any respect for yourself. Your post is bizzare

Pot calling the kettle black. And I think you mean "bizarre".

[Babyluv]

screwed up as you are.

 

Pot calling the kettle black, again.

[Babyluv]

6) LOL it is laughable, how you twist EVERYTHING to suit your actions. This world is a scary place, with scary ass people in it.

 

Pot calling kettle black, once again.

[Babyluv]

7) Ignorance is bliss huh??

 

You'd know about that.

[Babyluv]

More love and less hating?

 

I realise love is a difficult concept for you to understand, but if you read enough you might get some idea.

[Babyluv]

9) Your thinking is wacked.

 

pot calling kettle black yet again.

[Babyluv]

You twist everything to suit your wants and desires.. and that's sad.

 

Yet again, pot calling kettle black.

[Babyluv]

10) Refer to 9 1000000x

 

Isn't that what toddlers do in the playground? Consistent with the rest of the tone of that post though.

[luvmy2ns]

It's easy to see who f's MM on this thread.

[Babyluv]

2) WTF? How the hell can you be a fan of dignity and respect, if you don't RESPECT marriage vows??

 

same way you can claim to be a fan of dignity and respect and act like Hitler with your hating.

[Woggle]

Cheating men and OW deserve each other. Nothing anybody will say will convince them otherwise and any decent man with a brain will avoid these women like the plague so let them be. They wear it like a badge of honour but really it's just sad and pathetic.

[Babyluv]

that's sad.

 

 

Truly sad. I'll pray for you.

[Dark-N-Romantic]

Oh how nice of you to say that.

 

I love it how some people claim to know how it's like to be married and are so high up on their horses.

 

If he or she is married or has been around enough married people to have learned things, they are completely capable of determining what is right or wrong.

 

But, yeah, I don't agree with attacking a person either. But, he or she could also make a reasonable conclusion (this is what most professionals do).

 

 

DNR

[Lyssa]

If he or she is married or has been around enough married people to have learned things, they are completely capable of determining what is right or wrong.

 

But, yeah, I don't agree with attacking a person either. But, he or she could also make a reasonable conclusion (this is what most professionals do).

 

 

DNR

 

No matter how long a person has been around married people, it doesn't mean that he or she knows what it's like until he or she is in it. People won't know unless they have been with that person every single day on a long term basis.

[Dark-N-Romantic]

Here are a few questions for those who REALLY believe they have the right to and are proud of being the other woman or other man...

 

Some Just Like You (Especially if the person is a sibling, parent, or child)...

1) Would you like someone just like you to insert themselves in your marriage (for those who plan to get married) or relationship as you did to someone else?

2) Would you see the adultery partner in the same light as you see yourself?

3) Do feel it was okay for them to be an adultery partner? Would you back them knowing they are hurting someone else?

4) Would you feel the adultery partner as justified in there actions as you see yourself justified if it concerned a loved one? Would you back up that person's actions?

 

Someone Like The Cheating Spouse (Especially if it they are an In-Law or your spouse)...

1) Would want a loved one or yourself to be married to someone like the spouse you had an affair with?

2) Would you feel it was okay for that loved one or yourself to be cheated on if the partner felt like the marriage was bad, they wanted a divorce, or were separated and claiming they were getting a divorce or were in the middle of one?

3) Would you explain to your loved one or yourself that the only one to blame is the married partner and that the knowing participant was doing the right thing because they love/loved your spouse?

4) Would you back the spouse of a loved one if they had "reason" to cheat?

 

 

DNR

[Dark-N-Romantic]

No matter how long a person has been around married people, it doesn't mean that he or she knows what it's like until he or she is in it. People won't know unless they have been with that person every single day on a long term basis.

 

If you have human feeling, it is easy to relate. There are a lot of things I have taught my married and dating troops despite my being single and unmarried. As a matter of fact my best brother calls me up a few times and ask my suggestions about certain issues concerning his marriage, especially on topics he does not want to share with his mother or in-laws. And he calls me back to let me know it does the trick.

 

Humanity and is actions and its actions in relationships are easy to understand, IF you know what to look for, if you know relative comparisons, or simply commune with God on issues (at least for those of us who believe). Understanding humanity isn't hard. Understanding why humanity still are as lost to each other as they are is.

 

 

DNR

[OWoman]

Here are a few questions for those who REALLY believe they have the right to and are proud of being the other woman or other man...

 

Some Just Like You (Especially if the person is a sibling, parent, or child)...

1) Would you like someone just like you to insert themselves in your marriage (for those who plan to get married) or relationship as you did to someone else?

2) Would you see the adultery partner in the same light as you see yourself?

3) Do feel it was okay for them to be an adultery partner? Would you back them knowing they are hurting someone else?

4) Would you feel the adultery partner as justified in there actions as you see yourself justified if it concerned a loved one? Would you back up that person's actions?

 

Someone Like The Cheating Spouse (Especially if it they are an In-Law or your spouse)...

1) Would want a loved one or yourself to be married to someone like the spouse you had an affair with?

2) Would you feel it was okay for that loved one or yourself to be cheated on if the partner felt like the marriage was bad, they wanted a divorce, or were separated and claiming they were getting a divorce or were in the middle of one?

3) Would you explain to your loved one or yourself that the only one to blame is the married partner and that the knowing participant was doing the right thing because they love/loved your spouse?

4) Would you back the spouse of a loved one if they had "reason" to cheat?

 

 

DNR

 

DNR I'm probably not who you wanted to reply to your post but I'd have no problem with any of the above.

[Lyssa]

Oh well, I hate to think of myself as the perfect human being.

[Dark-N-Romantic]

DNR I'm probably not who you wanted to reply to your post but I'd have no problem with any of the above.

 

I already figured you would not reply.

 

 

DNR

[Lizzie60]

Oh well, I hate to think of myself as the perfect human being.

 

Me too.. isn't it awfully painful to be soooo perfect..

[Dark-N-Romantic]

Lizzie and Lyssa, I am still striving for perfection, how do I reach your level? I am constantly digging up new things to work out of my life.

 

 

DNR

[Owl]

Owoman...I know you replied ages ago when I asked Lizzie this question, but I don't recall the answer....

 

Would you have an affair with a friend's husband? Why or why not?

[OWoman]

I already figured you would not reply.

 

 

DNR

 

But I did reply:

 

DNR I'm probably not who you wanted to reply to your post but I'd have no problem with any of the above.

 

If that's not an answer, I'm not sure what you were wanting...

[OWoman]

Owoman...I know you replied ages ago when I asked Lizzie this question, but I don't recall the answer....

 

Would you have an affair with a friend's husband? Why or why not?

 

We're talking friends, rather than colleagues or acquaintances? Then no.

 

If it were a friend, I would know her husband. And he'd be pre-categorised. If I liked him, he'd be a friend in his own right, and I don't do the FWB thing. Friends are for life, and I wouldn't want to shift them into the disposable category by shagging them. If I valued the friendship, I'd want to retain that. Friends are closer to me than family, so the idea of shagging a friend I find incestuous. So there'd be no chemistry, no chance at all of anything happening because I just would not be interested.

 

If he were not a friend in his own right, it would be because I didn't like him much (if at all) and why on earth would I want to shag someone I couldn't stand being around?