Shorty4rmyuma13 Posted July 30, 2003 Share Posted July 30, 2003 I went to Texas with one of my moms friends, it was her moms birthday. so when we got there I met her brother Alex, we got to know each other very well. Later that day he asked to kiss me and I said yes, so we kissed right then later on we ended up having sex and it felt so good. Two weeks later he came down to visit me. We had the house to ourselves and did it again and yea it felt good. But how do I know hes not using me just for that. I do it with him because I like him but does he like me? How can I tell ? Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted July 30, 2003 Share Posted July 30, 2003 if you got to know him very well, how come you can't tell if he liked you for more than just sex? do you guys ever do anything but that, together? -yes Link to post Share on other sites
Jessca Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 If you sleep with a man the first time you ever meet him, and the second time you see him is that not what you wanted? I have done this too, but I realize that by doing so does not put us in a relationship. There are times that the guy really likes you and there are times he doesn't. I have had to tell guys to back off, because it was just a one night stand and I have had guys not call me. You should just ask him how he feels or what this means to him. Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 How can I tell ? The only way to know is to ask him. Link to post Share on other sites
longlegzs80 Posted August 2, 2003 Share Posted August 2, 2003 Okay, you just met this guy and you are going that fast with him already? What's the deal? If you want someone to love you and want to be with you more then just doing a sex thing, you can't have sex with him like you have been having. You just meet him. Sure the sex could be great, but it kinda seems like he is only into it because of the sex thing. That is all your basing your relationship on. You can tell when a guy is just looking for sex when that is all they talk about, or making sexual inuendos, or putting moves on you, or sweet talking your ear off. There are so many things. But if you are going to be easy and give it up on the first day you meet him, then what do you expect. He expects sex. Maybe if you approached it a different way, like started a relationship or whatever, but you just had sex with him. So, if I were you and you see this guy again, or he comes to visit don't have sex with him, see how he takes it. If he gets to pushy and kissy and all this other stuff then he is only looking for ass. Link to post Share on other sites
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