Need change?

[goodguy123]

I'm at a bit of a crossroad in my life, and I'm not sure what to do. Things are finally going well for me except I can't meet a girl for the life of me. It's been months since I've had a date and almost 2 years since I've had a girlfriend. Everytime I am with my friends I feel completely pathetic because I am the only one without a girl and they know I haven't dated anyone in a long time either. Me and my friends always joke around and make fun of each other. But sometimes they tend to make fun of me for not having a girl, and it really gets to me. I don't mind anything else they say, but that hits a sore spot with me. I almost don't ever want to hang out because I feel so pathetic and it's been a couple years since they've seen me with a girl.

 

I've tried putting myself out there and I haven't had much luck. I'm a little bit shy but I don't think I'm the worst looking person. I've had a couple dates since my last girlfriend (2 years ago), but nothing even close to a relationship, or even dating. I don't know what else to do to meet a girl. I'm not really into the bar scene anymore, my friends have no one to hook me up with, and there are not really any activities where I live that I am interested in joining.

 

So a big part of me wants to move away somewhere and start over and try something new. Maybe I just need a change and to get out of here. I feel like if I'm in a new place it will force me meet new people, and maybe I could move somewhere with activities I would be interested in joining. But on the other hand I'm a bit scared to leave where I've been most of my life and where all my friends are to go somewhere that I don't know anyone. I do have some places I can go where other friends live so I would know people, but part of me doesn't even want to do that, and just wants to go off on my own. But I'm hesitant to go somewhere and truly be all alone.

 

I am getting so sad and depressed not having anyone, and being around all of my friends with their girls and wives makes it worse.

 

I do like where I live, but I also feel the need for change. I think the main thing is that I want a new girlfriend very badly, and I'm not sure what else to do to meet one in my current situation.

 

Any advice would be appreciated.

[sid3]

It can get depressing when your always out with your partnered up friends. It sounds like you don't have many single friends left. That is the problem I face. Change is always good, but the one you speak of may be to drastic. See how things go before you decide on such a thing.

[katie1487]

you need to spot looking for a girlf!!!

 

put it this was...your mates would probly give you a hard time if you were all luved up 2 so dont let what they say bother you.

 

enjoy the fact that you dont have to answer to anyone and before you know it...when you not really wanting one....youll meet someone..

 

go out and do the things you like doing...so you can meet a lady who likes doing the same things.

 

confidence is key....

 

good luck toots..