Author savethedrama Posted July 10, 2008 Author Share Posted July 10, 2008 I was asked a specific question and knew I had already posted the answer on the other forum. I was just trying to save her a few clicks of the mouse.....next time ill send her over to the other forum to read for herself. Sheesh! Marriage guidleines...who cares? What's really important is that prople follow the guidelines for the forums they visit. The shock of it all! Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Sheesh! Marriage guidleines...who cares? What's really important is that prople follow the guidelines for the forums they visit. The shock of it all! Well no, marriage guidelines SHOULD care/matter, which is why you should be maybe having this discussion with the person that is married to you and who broke those guidelines. We are not married to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Aye, so the best bet would be to let the MODERATORS enforce the guidelines on the forums, and to learn ways from these forums and other sources to enforce guidelines in our own marriages. Makes sense to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Aye, so the best bet would be to let the MODERATORS enforce the guidelines on the forums, and to learn ways from these forums and other sources to enforce guidelines in our own marriages. Makes sense to me. Funny you should say that OWL because as you posted this I get a PM saying "amazing thing is that Savethedrama posted her story in the Infidelity forum and then posted a "bashing OW feels good" thread here, what is incredible is that while her story thread barely made it to one page long, this thread is now 11 pages strong. And this part I would like to add: I guess the mods should also take note of what some of these BSs are really here to do on the site since with the only exception of you OWL, NOT ONE other BS that has heavily contributed to this thread has even bothered to contribute to Savethedrama's thread in the Infidelity forum where she is asking for feedback. Interesting how the "usual suspects" just flock to a thread like this like flies to poop!! Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Funny you should say that OWL because as you posted this I get a PM saying "amazing thing is that Savethedrama posted her story in the Infidelity forum and then posted a "bashing OW feels good" thread here, what is incredible is that while her story thread barely made it to one page long, this thread is now 11 pages strong. And this part I would like to add: I guess the mods should also take note of what some of these BSs are really here to do on the site since with the only exception of you OWL, NOT ONE other BS that has heavily contributed to this thread has even bothered to contribute to Savethedrama's thread in the Infidelity forum where she is asking for feedback. Interesting how the "usual suspects" just flock to a thread like this like flies to poop!! Clarify please. Link to post Share on other sites
Mino Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Mino I am sorry. You have been through a lot. I have read back your story a bit because I can't imagine a wife or an ow allowing four ddays. I sincerely hope you can get some support to leave this guy. Don't you want a future with someone? You have been through a birth of his child, 4 ddays and him moving out and back home twice. How can you even deal with that? That has to be extremely painful to watch him go back home twice. Take your life back. Get away from this man. He is bringing you down and I think you know that. This was honestly said with all sincerity. No one deserves to be treated this way. I do not wear 4 d days as a badge... There are issues i cannot put out on this board. I sent them both to mc , so an end will come soon, either way... Link to post Share on other sites
herenow Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 I do not wear 4 d days as a badge... There are issues i cannot put out on this board. I sent them both to mc , so an end will come soon, either way... I'm confused. What do you mean by "I sent them both to MC"? Are they going to MC because you told them to go. Is the wife listening to YOU and doing what YOU want her to do? I don't get it. Link to post Share on other sites
hot123 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 after reading all comments it has become really clear to me at least...there is a sort of rottenness in all the tones of the ow ...might be an indicator as to why youre the ones alone on the holidays... Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Clarify please. Sure: heavily: arduously, difficultly, laboriously, strongly contributed: chiped in, subscribed, conduced, partook, participated, shared, aided, assisted, augmented, factored, furnished, furthered, gave, granted, helped, provided, sheledl out, strengthened, submitted, subscribed, supplied, tended, tendered, complemented is "heavily contributed" it clearer now? Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 after reading all comments it has become really clear to me at least...there is a sort of rottenness in all the tones of the ow ...might be an indicator as to why youre the ones alone on the holidays... "Alone" on the holidays? :lmao: What is a "holiday" of charades at home when the OW gets the best of the man the other 364 days of the year? The spouse gets the angry distant and often completely disinterested WS all the days they are home, so if some marry for one fake Christmas eve with their mate while they are off giving their best to another person, and that is enough to call it a marriage, then to each their own really... Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Sure: heavily: arduously, difficultly, laboriously, strongly contributed: chiped in, subscribed, conduced, partook, participated, shared, aided, assisted, augmented, factored, furnished, furthered, gave, granted, helped, provided, sheledl out, strengthened, submitted, subscribed, supplied, tended, tendered, complemented is "heavily contributed" it clearer now? Thanks for the comedy, which BS where you speaking of? Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Yeah. Just read all the threads. Every OW comes out of every affair so happy! Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Thanks for the comedy, which BS where you speaking of? You bolded the words and asked for an explanation am I supposed to understand that means "tell me who specifically"? Read the entire thread and you will see who they are. Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 You bolded the words and asked for an explanation am I supposed to understand that means "tell me who specifically"? Read the entire thread and you will see who they are. Sorry, I didn't bold any words. Posted just as it was. Thanks for the input, are you PMSing today? Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Yeah. Just read all the threads. Every OW comes out of every affair so happy! Well I never claimed it doesn't end in pain so.... I was just pointing out that what is a mere holliday with your spouse when they are out loving and screwing someone else the entire rest of the year? Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Sorry, I didn't bold any words. Posted just as it was. Thanks for the input, are you PMSing today? Oh :lmao::lmao: hey sorry I thought you were pulling my leg, I just reread that and I now see the words were already bolded by me in the original post and when you quoted me, those words were bolded I thought you had done that and was asking me what those words meant. My apologies. Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Well I never claimed it doesn't end in pain so.... I was just pointing out that what is a mere holliday with your spouse when they are out loving and screwing someone else the entire rest of the year? Loving and screwing are two vastly different things. I do believe that's what the other poster was trying to say, really. Two people screwing does not a relationship make. And when the screwing ends in unhappiness for the OW, how is that "getting the best?" Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Oh :lmao::lmao: hey sorry I thought you were pulling my leg, I just reread that and I now see the words were already bolded by me in the original post and when you quoted me, those words were bolded I thought you had done that and was asking me what those words meant. My apologies. Apology accepted. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Apology accepted. Cool, again really sorry about that. Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Apology accepted.Cool, again really sorry about that. Now isn't that sweet!? Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Loving and screwing are two vastly different things. I do believe that's what the other poster was trying to say, really. Two people screwing does not a relationship make. And when the screwing ends in unhappiness for the OW, how is that "getting the best?" Whatev, if you think it is just as ok that your man is off "screwing" someone else but spends the holidays with you and that is what you settle for and can actually come on here and flaunt "yeah I may be cheated on but who does he spend the hollidays with?" I just don't see how you can brag about that with a serious face. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Now isn't that sweet!? I can fully admit when I am wrong and I can also apolgise when I screw up. Link to post Share on other sites
Lookingforward Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Sorry, I didn't bold any words. Posted just as it was. Thanks for the input, are you PMSing today? the quote is heavily bolded on those words on my screen (fwiw) Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 Now isn't that sweet!? Yeah, I wonder if that is why my area has just been issued a tornado warning. We straight. Link to post Share on other sites
luvmy2ns Posted July 10, 2008 Share Posted July 10, 2008 I can fully admit when I am wrong and I can also apolgise when I screw up. Kewl shades, man! And no, of course it wouldn't be okay for MY man to be off screwing around. But every OW does NOT get "the best" of the MM. And neither does the W. Link to post Share on other sites
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