Author Valdar Posted July 11, 2008 Author Share Posted July 11, 2008 I would like to point out that my wife was a great wife to me and she cared and loved for me more than anyone else could and that I'm still in love with her and want things to work. She is also a great mother who takes excellent care of our child. She is going to stay and go to school around me instead of moving back with her parents, so that I can still see my son. I really hope it gets better, but because of this post we are now living separated in the same home and she will be moving out as soon as she finds a place. Link to post Share on other sites
TrustInYourself Posted July 12, 2008 Share Posted July 12, 2008 How does an online forum or a post you made have any impact on what's right in your marriage? This is just text. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Valdar Posted July 12, 2008 Author Share Posted July 12, 2008 I wasn't fair to her side of the story and biased it a lot towards myself to make me feel better. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted July 12, 2008 Share Posted July 12, 2008 I wasn't fair to her side of the story and biased it a lot towards myself to make me feel better. Which probably makes you exactly like 90% of the other posters here... Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
Gunny376 Posted July 12, 2008 Share Posted July 12, 2008 Just be honest with her, and be honest with your feelings, ~ that you're lost, dazed and confused, ~ that anxiety of losing her makes you want to scream, shout and run in circles. I'd tell her, "Lets just put our feelings, our pride, our wants, our needs up on the shelve. Lets just give each other some breathing room, some time for reflection. Let's back off, ~ just chill out and step back from the edge. We've got the rest of our lives to divorce. But for now? Let's just let each other "breath" and let each other "live" ~ no pressure, no demands, no expectations, ~ just step away from the edge. Link to post Share on other sites
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