Sarah12385 Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 hello this is sort of a silly thing to post, but, anyways..... my boyfriend and i have been together for about a month. and recently, i've been getting to know him on a more personal level, and well, he works every day until about 5:30, and he calls me every day just about on his lunch break...and he's always sayin nice things to me and just real sweet, things. lol..... and well, okay this is what i need help with, i wanna call him and leave him nice little messages on his voicemail, but, i really don't know what to say. heh i know this is a very stupid thing to be concerned about, but i just need some input. i don't wanna say anything mushy, just something...cute. i dunno. lol as you can all see i'm not the most creative person. like i said, nothing mushy, just something to remind him i'm thinkin of him..... lol oooookay well, any input will be greatly appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
longlegzs80 Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 This is far from a stupid post. You are asking a good question. If I were you I would call him and leave a message on his voicemail saying "I hope I am not bothering you, but I wanted to call because I have been thinking about you, and miss talking to you." "Hope your day is going well and hope that maybe if you are free that we can get together tonight at my place. Then maybe add a nickname. Something fun like "my hunk of man", my hunk of cheese just something. I know those are stupide responses, but make sure with whatever you say, it is in a sex tone of voice. Make him can't wait to see you when he comes home from work. I don't know if you are into making little nicknames for eachother, I know I probubly would not, but it depends on you. Just if you do, make it fun and make him have to think why did she call me that. It might bring a smile to his face. EVen if you don't use a nickname, it will still bring a smile to his face. So, good luck to you. And I am not no pro at relationships, but if you call and leave a very nice sexy message on his voicemail. I garuntee he will love it. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sarah12385 Posted July 31, 2003 Author Share Posted July 31, 2003 thanks so much for the reply! i'll give it a shot lol i'm a little shy when it comes to stuff like this...so the nickname thing is gonna have to wait hehe. but thanks again. any more replies are more than welcome! Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 Please only do this rarely. Why not say just say sweet things when he calls you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sarah12385 Posted July 31, 2003 Author Share Posted July 31, 2003 you mean leave him the msgs rarely? why? does it get annoying after a while? Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted July 31, 2003 Share Posted July 31, 2003 you mean leave him the msgs rarely? Yes. why? does it get annoying after a while? Men are wired differently than us. We love getting lovey voicemails all the time. They don't. Sure, they like it sometimes. So do it sometimes. But if you start doing it every day, then yes, it could get annoying. If it's too much, it starts to come across as needy, clingy, I have no life of my own and can't make it through the day without hearing your voice on the voicemail, I'm checking up on you to make sure you don't forget about me, etc.... My personal view is that calls for no reason other than to say "I love you" (or some variation thereof) are a bit much. But that's just my opinion. Of course, you know your boyfriend best. But remember that he's still a man, and he's still wired like a guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sarah12385 Posted July 31, 2003 Author Share Posted July 31, 2003 ah alright, gotcha. thanks for the advice heh i left him the msg. i hope he's not like "wow that was the gayest thing i've ever heard in my life..." lol Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts