shaunca Posted August 1, 2003 Share Posted August 1, 2003 After a 4 year relationship my ex and I broke it off 3 months ago. We spoke during the first 1 1/2 months of the break up and she had said there were no potential new boyfriends in her life, we never ended it bad and did not speak for a month and a half because she was busy working and I was as well. I have moved back to KY to be near her in hopes to try to re-kindle what we once had, I thought quite a bit about us and realized she was who I wanted to be with for the rest of my life, career be damned. I had everything planned out, I wanted to take her out for a weekend and propose as soon as the time was right. I tried calling her mom's to get her new number (she recently got a new apartment) and sent her a few emails. Well I finally got a reply and she said she was getting married. What should I do, I have loved this women since I first laid eyes on her but now it looks like my chances are better winning the lottery than getting her back. Is it wrong for me to try to get her back despite the engagement or should I swallow my pride and stupidity and consider it a life-lesson I will never forget? I would normally accept it and move on but the fact she is getting married after at most 2 months of dating bothers me quite a bit. I care for her and don't want to move on unless I know that there is no chance in hell for me to get her back. Link to post Share on other sites
toowarmhearted Posted August 1, 2003 Share Posted August 1, 2003 Wow I feel for you! But seriously after only two months with someone else...she doesn't know him quite nearly enought to marry him.....posibly she's doing it because she wants to just get married. If I were you,,,, I would swallow my pride and go see her right away. Tell her you love her....and say it with a ring. I am sure if you don't do this...you may not get the chance too...and you'll always wonder. If she says no, then you know you've done all you can...and at least that book will be closed for you to peacfully move on! Wow I wish I had a boyfriend as caring and devoted as you! I don't normally reply to these stories but wow yours is breath taking....oh please mind the spelling I am tired. Link to post Share on other sites
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