Curmudgeon Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 Stop advertising for a dating site by making nonsense comments just to show your link. Besides, it's racist anyway. If it says "black" or "African-American (whatever the hell that is) it's OK. Let someone dare to post or link a "white" dating site and they'll be sued. Link to post Share on other sites
Author awesomeness43 Posted July 14, 2008 Author Share Posted July 14, 2008 I used to be proud of my number but the fact that ive met someone i really care for i am a bit ashamed. I didnt tell her her because i didnt want to put her in an uncomfortable position or what she would think of me. I understand that it is hypocritical for me to judge but it is only because i think better of her. Is 5 considered slutty or conservative ? She is actually a model as well as a full time student so she definitely has options. Should i be worried or how do i get over that ? can i stop getting bs answers and actually get legit input or thoughts on what the average number for an attractive 19 yr old would be? thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
suzy61 Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 I think.....there is no answer to that. Depends on your standards I guess, and whether or not you want to run the risk of catching infections!! FYI...Britain has a high teenage pregnancy rate. Don't know how it works in the States, but there is a good bit of government help given over here for these situations (I know pregnant/single parents out there will disagree with me, but compared to what you'd get in some places, it IS good).Not saying it's wrong or right, or anything else,just that it's a fact. (seeing as I'm Irish, the British teenage pregnancy rate doesn't bother me a whole lot!).Mind you, 13 and 14 year olds having babies I find a bit disturbing. To me, 5 at 19 seems...well ,not huge, but when did she start is the other thing.If it was at 18, then...hmm.If younger, well..I don't know, between you and your god!But if she has as many options as you say, and yet you really care about her, be careful you don't get hurt. But then, I'm not from Southern Cal, so what would I know anyway!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 At 19, I had had sex with three people (all long-term boyfriends), and that was pretty conservative in my group of friends. Some of my friends had had dozens of partners by then; one of them had just had sex for the first time. I would estimate typical at that age to be 1-5 partners. But even if she has had dozens of partners, that really doesn't mean anything once she decides to commit to one guy. One of my friends had numerous partners by 19, but on the rare occasion she decided to commit to one guy, she was always faithful. Link to post Share on other sites
Chinook Posted July 14, 2008 Share Posted July 14, 2008 I don't think I've ever discussed the NUMBER of encounters. What matters is your attitude to safety and safe sex... and the health of your partner or potential partner. It's no one's business but mine how many men I sleep with. I don't tell, I don't ask either. All I ask is about sexual health history. If someone is clean (and I check that out) that's what matters to me. Link to post Share on other sites
ABrokenWing Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 california. so cal area. I guess i kind of know that her number isnt too bad as mines is higher but the fact that shes perhaps the first girl i really cared about and see potential in i am a bit bothered? Thanks. what would your reaction be if she said she was bothered by your number? Link to post Share on other sites
porter218 Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 I used to be proud of my number but the fact that ive met someone i really care for i am a bit ashamed. I didnt tell her her because i didnt want to put her in an uncomfortable position or what she would think of me. I understand that it is hypocritical for me to judge but it is only because i think better of her. Is 5 considered slutty or conservative ? She is actually a model as well as a full time student so she definitely has options. Should i be worried or how do i get over that ? can i stop getting bs answers and actually get legit input or thoughts on what the average number for an attractive 19 yr old would be? thanks. A little on the higher side, but if she is attractive the ratio of men who wanted to sleep with her compared to how many she actually bedded is probably not bad(given that she is really hot). Link to post Share on other sites
Lookingforward Posted July 15, 2008 Share Posted July 15, 2008 I used to be proud of my number but the fact that ive met someone i really care for i am a bit ashamed. I didnt tell her her because i didnt want to put her in an uncomfortable position or what she would think of me. I understand that it is hypocritical for me to judge but it is only because i think better of her. Is 5 considered slutty or conservative ? She is actually a model as well as a full time student so she definitely has options. Should i be worried or how do i get over that ? can i stop getting bs answers and actually get legit input or thoughts on what the average number for an attractive 19 yr old would be? thanks. I think if you're THAT worried about it, you should just move on....... Link to post Share on other sites
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