My boyfriend is not calling do much anymore

[Stephanie]

My boyfriend's friends are here for Spring break. He is not calling me. It sarted this past Saturday. He din't call mee all day and night. I went out that night and at like 2:30am I called his cell phone and he dindn't answer. Then at 3:30am I called his phone again and left a message this time. He dind't call me back the next day so i called his house at 9:15PM and his mom said he would be right back and she'll have him call me. At like 10:45 he still didn't call me so I called his cell phone and he answered and we talked and I asked him if he wanted it to be over and he said no he is happy. So then I figured he is just busy w/ his friends since he really dosen't see or talk to them very much. So thern the next day he still didn't call all day or night so at 10:45 i called him. He didn't answer his phone and I didn't leave a message because he has caller ID. So then the next day Tuesday he still din't call so I called him like 5 times and left two messages and he still didn't call. So today Wenesday I called him 4 times and then finally got a hold of him. I guess i feel like he doesn't want to be w/ me when he doesn't call. I talked to him today and he said it he doesn't want to dump me. I'm i being to stalkerish or just concerned?? Shoud I not call him and make him wonder what happened to me?? Do guys like to be left wondering?? Should i understand because his friends are here or is what he doing not cool??? Help!!!!!! Thanks.

[Leeza]

What a coincidence! My bf called from his country earlier today, and I was warming up my car, so I told him to call back at 7:45pm.......The weather's bad in Denver and I'm all hurrying to get home. He never called and never left an email after I sent him 2! I'm beginning to think that guys are all pigs. When my guy's with his buds, you would think he's dating his friends, not me! Sometimes i even feel invisible! So what did I do? I don't call him and I won't email him anymore. You should do the same....DO NOT CALL HIM!! Leave him hangin' for awhile. He knows where to find you. He can't kiss his friends, so he'll come around. It may also be that he's slinkin around behind your back with his buds and he doesn't want you to know or he just moved on to something new....his loss......just go find some other potential bfs .

My boyfriend's friends are here for Spring break. He is not calling me. It sarted this past Saturday. He din't call mee all day and night. I went out that night and at like 2:30am I called his cell phone and he dindn't answer. Then at 3:30am I called his phone again and left a message this time. He dind't call me back the next day so i called his house at 9:15PM and his mom said he would be right back and she'll have him call me. At like 10:45 he still didn't call me so I called his cell phone and he answered and we talked and I asked him if he wanted it to be over and he said no he is happy. So then I figured he is just busy w/ his friends since he really dosen't see or talk to them very much. So thern the next day he still didn't call all day or night so at 10:45 i called him. He didn't answer his phone and I didn't leave a message because he has caller ID. So then the next day Tuesday he still din't call so I called him like 5 times and left two messages and he still didn't call. So today Wenesday I called him 4 times and then finally got a hold of him. I guess i feel like he doesn't want to be w/ me when he doesn't call. I talked to him today and he said it he doesn't want to dump me. I'm i being to stalkerish or just concerned?? Shoud I not call him and make him wonder what happened to me?? Do guys like to be left wondering?? Should i understand because his friends are here or is what he doing not cool??? Help!!!!!! Thanks.

[Tony T]

By calling him repeatedly and leaving multiple messages, you come off as desparate. The best thing you can do is NOT call him at all and not return a few of his messages when he finally does call you. Men are NEVER attracted to women who appear to be desperate. I don't mean to be cruel here, I just want to give you some excellent advise. There is NOTHING at all sexy about a woman calling a man repeatedly, no matter how long they have been seeing each other. On the other hand, your boyfriend has been unattentive, rude, discourteous, disrespectful of the relationship and if you have any self-esteem at all, you will tell his butt off and move on. But if you MUST have him, STOP CALLING HIM. And don't let him off the hook easy. Let him know that not returning calls or keeping in touch, even when his friends are in town, is unacceptable behavior and you won't tolerate it again.

[Shirley]

My boyfriend's friends are here for Spring break. He is not calling me. It sarted this past Saturday. He din't call mee all day and night. I went out that night and at like 2:30am I called his cell phone and he dindn't answer. Then at 3:30am I called his phone again and left a message this time. He dind't call me back the next day so i called his house at 9:15PM and his mom said he would be right back and she'll have him call me. At like 10:45 he still didn't call me so I called his cell phone and he answered and we talked and I asked him if he wanted it to be over and he said no he is happy. So then I figured he is just busy w/ his friends since he really dosen't see or talk to them very much. So thern the next day he still didn't call all day or night so at 10:45 i called him. He didn't answer his phone and I didn't leave a message because he has caller ID. So then the next day Tuesday he still din't call so I called him like 5 times and left two messages and he still didn't call. So today Wenesday I called him 4 times and then finally got a hold of him. I guess i feel like he doesn't want to be w/ me when he doesn't call. I talked to him today and he said it he doesn't want to dump me. I'm i being to stalkerish or just concerned?? Shoud I not call him and make him wonder what happened to me?? Do guys like to be left wondering?? Should i understand because his friends are here or is what he doing not cool??? Help!!!!!! Thanks.

Hi!

 

He wants you around for his convenience. And he really isn't concerned with how you feel. He wants to just go out and have fun. And if his buddies are here, he doesn't need you. Start going out and having fun. And yes, stop calling him. He doesn't care about you.

[mmmm]

Although I would say that you may have been a little(?) excessive in calling him repeatedly and that this can be a complete turn off to anybody (Man or Woman), there is no doubt that this guy is acting like a complete arse, has little respect for you (it takes no effort to pick up the phone, especially if he has a cellphone) and thinks his "friends" are more important than you. I think there is a message here. He is treating you as a convenience. Don't let him. If he had any feelings for you he wouldn't treat you in this fashion.

My boyfriend's friends are here for Spring break. He is not calling me. It sarted this past Saturday. He din't call mee all day and night. I went out that night and at like 2:30am I called his cell phone and he dindn't answer. Then at 3:30am I called his phone again and left a message this time. He dind't call me back the next day so i called his house at 9:15PM and his mom said he would be right back and she'll have him call me. At like 10:45 he still didn't call me so I called his cell phone and he answered and we talked and I asked him if he wanted it to be over and he said no he is happy. So then I figured he is just busy w/ his friends since he really dosen't see or talk to them very much. So thern the next day he still didn't call all day or night so at 10:45 i called him. He didn't answer his phone and I didn't leave a message because he has caller ID. So then the next day Tuesday he still din't call so I called him like 5 times and left two messages and he still didn't call. So today Wenesday I called him 4 times and then finally got a hold of him. I guess i feel like he doesn't want to be w/ me when he doesn't call. I talked to him today and he said it he doesn't want to dump me. I'm i being to stalkerish or just concerned?? Shoud I not call him and make him wonder what happened to me?? Do guys like to be left wondering?? Should i understand because his friends are here or is what he doing not cool??? Help!!!!!! Thanks.