CommitmentPhobe Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 wow, so true. then the thief build her confidence on comparison, if she admires another woman, then she trys to steal things that woman cherish, if she fails, her confidence level decrease. a good looking woman may not be a real confident woman. average looking woman do that too, covet. no matter you are average, good looking, chances are same. there are always better looking ones out there. one cannot build confidence on their looks and comparisons Works this way with men too. Lots of men don't like it because you find it easy with women, lots women don't like it because they expect you to be a w*nker. In short, too many egos and you end up having to keep people at an arms length. Link to post Share on other sites
cutegirl Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Good looking women don't date men with no money or no potential to make money. Unless you're an artist I guess, maybe, but likely not. Good looking women will date a poor guy if he is really good looking and charismatic and if there's a lot of sexual chemistry, but most likely he would have to be good looking. There are women out there who would date guys with no money, these women tend to be able to provide for themselves but insecure and afraid of being cheated on. I myself tend to think that poor guys are better than rich guys because they are less likely to cheat. I make good money so it's no problem, I used to take care of my ex financially, pay his bills, buy him food, gave him down payment for a car etc etc. It didn't work out cause he left due to other reasons but I still have a tendency to believe that poor guys are less likely to cheat and less likely to be controlling. I think rich guys tend to have more of a sense of entitlement and they feel like they can buy everything they want including women/hookers etc. Plus they will have A LOT more temptation because a lot of women will be throwing themselves at them. What guy can resist an aggressive woman grabbing his DIC* or jumping on top of him and tearing his clothes off? Most men CANT. Fact. I have a friend who feels the same way, we both told each other we are going to find "poor guys" that we can "take care of" (meaning pay their bills, pay all the rent etc) cause we feel that they are less likely to cheat. To be honest, I feel that a poor guy who is good looking is still likely to cheat ( a lot of women would want him even though he is poor if he is hot enough) so there is a better chance with a guy who is average or below average looking and poor. A lot of people like to say that it all depends on the persons character and that you can't generalize like that but the fact is that wealthier men ARE more likely to cheat. I read a study on msnbc online verifying this, and I believe this. Link to post Share on other sites
CommitmentPhobe Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Cutegirl why don't you date max? He'll think all his christmases have come at once and you'll get a guy that will never cheat on you. Problem solved Link to post Share on other sites
cutegirl Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Cutegirl why don't you date max? He'll think all his christmases have come at once and you'll get a guy that will never cheat on you. Problem solved Max has mentioned he likes to frequent prostitutes. Morally I see nothing wrong with whore mongering, it's just that I do not want to be in a relationship with a monger or ex monger due to the following: -I feel that guys who are used to having sex with prostitutes become addicted, to the variety, to the thrill of researching and reading reviews online about various hookers, to the thrill of getting caught (if in the USA) or to the thrill of vacationing to exotic locales across the world known for whoring etc. I feel that it gets in their blood and they cannot escape from it. -I do not want to be compared to all the whores a guy has been with, in terms of looks (who was better looking) and if the whores were better in bed than me. I would always be wondering what they looked like, how big their boobs were, what position they had sex with. I would feel inferior somehow to the hooker, cause she is a professional after all. How could I compete? Max is not poor enough, he has money in order to monger. I am looking for a guy with little money so he cant buy whores. Link to post Share on other sites
cutegirl Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Maxmanwell, I have a question for you. I remember reading you saying that you frequent prostitutes and that some of them have been model status, like a 9 or 10 and really hot. If you hate good looking women so much then why do you pay for good looking prostitutes? Why don't you pay for a less attractive one, perhaps one that is overweight or has stretch marks or is scarred? Since you feel sympathy for unattractive people perhaps you should feel sympathy for the less attractive whores? I'm sure they don't make as much money as the really good looking whores so picking them would be more sympathetic. Link to post Share on other sites
cutegirl Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 So you're saying you're insecure? Obviously. Link to post Share on other sites
cutegirl Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Bummer. See, I have to have a man who can take care of himself. I can't respect a guy who can't or won't pay his own way. I don't need him to pay mine, but he has to make his own living. Of course you don't want someone who just sleeps all day and does nothing... I think it's probably best if the guy has a job but makes a rather low income and if he needed I could help him out with bills a little or pay the majority of rent. I would be happy if he even paid 1/5th of the rent, it's still better than nothing. My ex never paid any at all and even when he was working he still couldn't pay his credit card bills and cell (my ex was 26-27 at the time too). Link to post Share on other sites
lovestruck818 Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Good looking women will date a poor guy if he is really good looking and charismatic and if there's a lot of sexual chemistry, but most likely he would have to be good looking. There are women out there who would date guys with no money, these women tend to be able to provide for themselves but insecure and afraid of being cheated on. I myself tend to think that poor guys are better than rich guys because they are less likely to cheat. I make good money so it's no problem, I used to take care of my ex financially, pay his bills, buy him food, gave him down payment for a car etc etc. It didn't work out cause he left due to other reasons but I still have a tendency to believe that poor guys are less likely to cheat and less likely to be controlling. I think rich guys tend to have more of a sense of entitlement and they feel like they can buy everything they want including women/hookers etc. Plus they will have A LOT more temptation because a lot of women will be throwing themselves at them. What guy can resist an aggressive woman grabbing his DIC* or jumping on top of him and tearing his clothes off? Most men CANT. Fact. I have a friend who feels the same way, we both told each other we are going to find "poor guys" that we can "take care of" (meaning pay their bills, pay all the rent etc) cause we feel that they are less likely to cheat. To be honest, I feel that a poor guy who is good looking is still likely to cheat ( a lot of women would want him even though he is poor if he is hot enough) so there is a better chance with a guy who is average or below average looking and poor. A lot of people like to say that it all depends on the persons character and that you can't generalize like that but the fact is that wealthier men ARE more likely to cheat. I read a study on msnbc online verifying this, and I believe this. I do think money is used as a symbol of power far more than looks are. I do believe wealthier men are more likely to cheat as well, however, I don't think he'll stand much of a chance if he is ugly though. Personally...what happened to people marrying for love? i feel no one is really dating and marrying for love anymore. That's why the divorce rate is so high. Money does run out, ya know... Link to post Share on other sites
cutegirl Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 I do think money is used as a symbol of power far more than looks are. I do believe wealthier men are more likely to cheat as well, however, I don't think he'll stand much of a chance if he is ugly though. Personally...what happened to people marrying for love? i feel no one is really dating and marrying for love anymore. That's why the divorce rate is so high. Money does run out, ya know... Exactly, money is power. That's why I like to be the one who pays for everything and earns more because it gives me the probably false illusion of "power" and makes me "feel" like the guy is less likely to leave me (because he will depend on me) and less likely to cheat (because he will have less options). Ugly men can cheat, they can easily get hookers and escorts. Also a lot of women are scandalous and don't care if a guy is ugly. An ugly obese multi millionaire can easily land a babe with model looks. EASY. Ugly rich men can DEFINITELY cheat and women will still flock to them. There are a lot of money hungry female vultures out there. Link to post Share on other sites
lovestruck818 Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 The reason I paid for prostitutes was because I couldn't get sex any other way or any decent female sexual contact. Most of the women I have known well have only wanted to be my friend and that is a different sort of attention. The dates I have been on have been bland and I think a lot of women look down on me because of my job. Which is ridiculous, especially when I earn more than most of them do. At one point I was working two jobs one 9-5ish and another on weekend so I couldn't even go out and try to meet women at that point I resolved to visit a prostitute. The visit went well so I kept visiting and eventually worked my way around to finding the better girls. I do feel sorry for the less attractive prostitutes I tend to try and find girls I can be certain are doing it explicitly for financial gain. I wouldn't say that I frequented a great deal I think all up I slept with around 14 different prostitutes. All my life I had been denied sex from women and I can say that it felt very liberating for a while to know that there was sex I could get out there with attractive women. Before it had seemed like an impossible dream. I hate to say it, but for a lot of women...it's not about the money you make, it's about what you do. (There's an entire thread on it & most of us women feel this way). Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Max.. why not just date women that you consider ugly but dateable ? In the dating world unless you have tons of money an 8 dates around an 8 and a 6 dates around a 6 and so on... Why the fascination with your looks ?.. it doesn't stop you from getting women.. it might stop you from getting a 9.5 but we all have to be realistic.. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 b.c I couldn't get a 6 or a 7 I tried but they always said that there wasn't any chemistry Keep trying.. dating is a numbers game.. you have to go thru a good deal of women to find one that clicks and works for both people.. Keep putting yourself out there Link to post Share on other sites
lovestruck818 Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 b.c I couldn't get a 6 or a 7 I tried but they always said that there wasn't any chemistry But why would you want to even be with someone who doesn't want to be with you anyway? And furthermore, if someone is going to deny you b/c of your looks, they are not someone worth your time. Just my 2 cents. I am sure you are wonderful looking anyway. Just be sweet and genuine and girls will love you for you...the good ones anyway. No one is perfect and you can't try to change 'em, so you might as well love 'em. Awww, I sound like f'n Mother Teresa. Link to post Share on other sites
Virgo1982 Posted August 2, 2008 Share Posted August 2, 2008 Those effects would have a minor impact compared to the benefits of being good looking. I'd rather be good looking, than be ugly that is a bit of a no brainer decision. That's what I meant right there. I don't think that makes you shallow. But lets face it, if you had your way, this thread would not exist. Link to post Share on other sites
Sks Posted August 2, 2008 Share Posted August 2, 2008 You could try ordering one of those brides from the Ukraine, I don't know if it will work but its worth a shot IMO. Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted August 2, 2008 Share Posted August 2, 2008 I need to find ways to punish them, please advise. Become better looking then they are. Hint - it begins from within. Link to post Share on other sites
lino Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 The truth is, no matter how good-looking, smart, nice, successful, rich someone is no one is better than anyone else...and they should not try to get certain things over someone else just b/c they are those things. It is realy quite obnoxious. Seriously, who do those people think they are? I'm not better than anyone else and I don't try to act like it. I'm just a regular girl with the same problems as everyone else. That's a nice attitude you have and if it were a perfect world I'd agree wholeheartedly with you but the world is totally opposite to perfect Many do consider themselves better than others and many use their looks to get things their way, I'm glad you're one of the very very few who doesn't practice that Link to post Share on other sites
Haloandhorns85 Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Hmm. Are you sure about that? How many men's poop shoots have you been peeking at? Wouldn't it be funny if he was a gastrointestinal doc? Lol, cuz then it'd be alot!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky555 Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Why don't you like good looking people? Link to post Share on other sites
Haloandhorns85 Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 Lies if you told a customer f off you'd have been fired on the spot. Heck, maybe in the late 80's and early 90's you got away with it, but not today. Actually not true. I've done it and my manager laughed. The b!tch deserved it. She got in my face with some nonsense and I told her to go f herself. Lol. It was a great day. And I was the celebrity of the day among my co-workers. Link to post Share on other sites
redfathom Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 At a recent job I had, I applied for a cashier position. I took the test and passed and the managers (women) told me I should apply for customer service (which made less money). These woman turned away any good looking woman and sent them customer service where the pretty girls should work, they only hired good looking young men. Do you think that's fair? That I should be forced to make less money for being cute. I ended up leaving upset. I got a call a month later and was hired in HR which was a far better job then the cashier job. Link to post Share on other sites
lovestruck818 Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 At a recent job I had, I applied for a cashier position. I took the test and passed and the managers (women) told me I should apply for customer service (which made less money). These woman turned away any good looking woman and sent them customer service where the pretty girls should work, they only hired good looking young men. Do you think that's fair? That I should be forced to make less money for being cute. I ended up leaving upset. I got a call a month later and was hired in HR which was a far better job then the cashier job. It's not fair...but looks sell, unfortunately. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 FYI, you little terd. To quote the infamous Oliver Rose....."You have sunk below the deepest layer of prehistoric frog shyte at the bottom of a New Jersey scum swamp." :lmao: You go girl! Link to post Share on other sites
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