lalala08 Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 Ok, so my friend went up to the guy i like (he knows i like him and she had my permission to do so) and asked him if he wanted to be my Valentine (this was a long time ago) and he said "Oh, she's still with that?" and then he said "I don't know". Later on my friend (without my permission), asked him "Is that a maybe?" and he said "NO!!!!". I mean, everytime someone asks him something about me he says "I don't know" first and then he always ends up saying "No" later on. He acts nervous around me because everytime he walks by me he looks down and smiles to himself....why are guys like this? Link to post Share on other sites
JohnnyBlaze Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 You're sending other people to do your talking for you, and you're wondering why he's acting weird?? Don't let anyone talk for you. Using friends to get background info on the guy is one thing, but finding out what he thinks of you is something you should be running yourself. It's not as though he isn't certain you've okayed each person who has asked about you. Getting others to ask for you is akin to saying that you like him, but not enough to risk anything yourself. Whether the answer is yes or no, it's up to you to find out for yourself. Why should he put himself on the line when you won't? Link to post Share on other sites
Angel1111 Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 You shouldn't have to go to any great efforts to get a guy's attention. If he's attracted to you, you'll know it. It comes naturally and easily. The greatest compliment you'll ever be paid is when a guy asks you out and then tells you how much he has noticed you, remembering what you were wearing when he first saw you, etc. And you never even knew he knew you were alive. That's a real compliment. Who knows what this guy is thinking? Don't worry about it. If it were me, I'd take his 'no' to mean 'no' and leave it alone. If he wants to go out with you, he'll let you know. In the meantime, don't act weird around him. As a matter of fact, at this point, if he's around you, make it a point to move away from him. If he's uncomfortable around you, he'll be grateful and will probably think more highly of you. If he isn't uncomfortable around you, then he'll miss you when you move away. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 17, 2008 Share Posted July 17, 2008 I think he looks down when he sees you because he knows you like him. He knows you sent your friend over to find out if he likes you and his answer was "no". If I were you I would take him at his word and the next guy you are interested in - do not send your friends to talk for you. Link to post Share on other sites
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