sugar_and_spice Posted August 2, 2008 Share Posted August 2, 2008 or you were unlucky and didn't find someone you wanted to lose it to earlier. Link to post Share on other sites
sugar_and_spice Posted August 3, 2008 Share Posted August 3, 2008 LOL, Sorry, I went off on a tangent. What I meant was I am open minded with regards to sex, hell if I felt i felt like it, I'd sleep with a guy and that would be okay with me. A lot of people are not open minded in the bedroom and with regards to non-issues like this. Being a Virgin is no big deal, the girl I'm seeing guessed and really doesn't care, for her its a non-issue and I am not the type to get attached so quickly, therefore it won't be a problem for me. Oh alright, that way lol The way you'd put it previously had got me confused:p Link to post Share on other sites
christian6 Posted August 3, 2008 Share Posted August 3, 2008 LOL, Sorry, I went off on a tangent. What I meant was I am open minded with regards to sex, hell if I felt i felt like it, I'd sleep with a guy and that would be okay with me. A lot of people are not open minded in the bedroom and with regards to non-issues like this. Being a Virgin is no big deal, the girl I'm seeing guessed and really doesn't care, for her its a non-issue and I am not the type to get attached so quickly, therefore it won't be a problem for me. now that's clearer! Link to post Share on other sites
Curt Posted August 3, 2008 Moderators Share Posted August 3, 2008 Does being a virgin who is 20+, turn off guys? It turns many guys on, actually. Curt Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 Most women will fantasize about other men. I don't see how it matters whether they are virgins or not. I already stated why I think it matters. Link to post Share on other sites
sugar_and_spice Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 I already stated why I think it matters. yes, I read that. Which is why I said that even though an experienced woman knows what it is like to be with other guys, what difference does it make. If a woman is thinking about being with other guys, it's equally bad. And I'm fairly sure that someone who has experience is more likely to want to be with other guys and do so, than the one who does not. Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 And I'm fairly sure that someone who has experience is more likely to want to be with other guys and do so, than the one who does not. I disagree. Link to post Share on other sites
sugar_and_spice Posted August 4, 2008 Share Posted August 4, 2008 I disagree. Well, I'm only saying what I've generally seen among the people I know. Link to post Share on other sites
christian6 Posted August 5, 2008 Share Posted August 5, 2008 what's with the generalizations about how experienced or inexperienced women will act? It all depends on the person; and the likelihood of her wanting to go to other guys or whatever, will depend on her personality in general. It's pointless to judge a particular group of women this way. imo anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
lovelorcet Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 what's with the generalizations about how experienced or inexperienced women will act? It all depends on the person; and the likelihood of her wanting to go to other guys or whatever, will depend on her personality in general. It's pointless to judge a particular group of women this way. imo anyway. While I do agree that every woman is different and her personality does play a major role in this issue experience is still important. The older I get the more I see women struggling with this issue, it is a very real thing. Link to post Share on other sites
christian6 Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 While I do agree that every woman is different and her personality does play a major role in this issue experience is still important. The older I get the more I see women struggling with this issue, it is a very real thing. It may or may not be an issue. I just think that it's pointless making statements like "Experienced women will do... and inexperienced women are likely to ....."; because this is something which clearly depends on the woman's personality. And that would affect whether something of this sort would become an issue later or not. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted August 6, 2008 Share Posted August 6, 2008 Experience is essentially a refinement over time of an existing personality construct. I'm old enough now to know that, if the sexual awareness, engagement and curiosity isn't there in the basic construct, all the experience in the world isn't going to make it "better". OTOH, a virgin can be exceedingly sexually aware, engaged and curious and they simply lack the refinement which comes with iteration. Link to post Share on other sites
christian6 Posted August 7, 2008 Share Posted August 7, 2008 Experience is essentially a refinement over time of an existing personality construct. I'm old enough now to know that, if the sexual awareness, engagement and curiosity isn't there in the basic construct, all the experience in the world isn't going to make it "better". OTOH, a virgin can be exceedingly sexually aware, engaged and curious and they simply lack the refinement which comes with iteration. I don't clearly understand what you are trying to say:o Link to post Share on other sites
sugar_and_spice Posted August 12, 2008 Share Posted August 12, 2008 It may or may not be an issue. I just think that it's pointless making statements like "Experienced women will do... and inexperienced women are likely to ....."; because this is something which clearly depends on the woman's personality. And that would affect whether something of this sort would become an issue later or not. that is true in a way Link to post Share on other sites
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