shelmo Posted March 17, 2000 Share Posted March 17, 2000 what is the best way to introduce myself to someone who i want to make friend with. i have a crush on this one girl and i am to shy to go up and introduce myself. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted March 17, 2000 Share Posted March 17, 2000 There are lots of easy, sure fire ways of meeting girls. First, go through a friend. Second, watch their schedule and arrange to sort of bump into them at school, at a function, at her work place, or whatever but don't make it look like it was on purpose. Now if you want her to fall in love with you forevermore, buy or borrow a camera. Walk up to her and tell her you are entering a photo contest and you would like her to be the subject of the picture you are entering. Find some nice place in advance to shoot her picture. A park, a zoo, downtown area, etc. is fine. Get some suggestions from a professional photographer or look at magazines and photography books for neat poses. You will flatter the hell out of her when you ask her to pose for you...you will get a chance to talk to her before, during and after the photo session, and she'll never know what hit her. Play it very cool, though. When the pictures are ready, meet her for pizza or soda to give her copies. You will be amazed at how things go from there. Trust me!!! Link to post Share on other sites
chyna Posted March 17, 2000 Share Posted March 17, 2000 i read Tony's response and must totally agree..... the only thing that i would add is to be yourself...make sure that once you've made that initial contact that you don't pretend to be something else and that if you are romantically interested in her let her know once she's had a chance to get to know you.....you don't want her to get too comfortable thinking about you as a friend good luck....let us know how it goes... Link to post Share on other sites
Shirley Posted March 17, 2000 Share Posted March 17, 2000 what is the best way to introduce myself to someone who i want to make friend with. i have a crush on this one girl and i am to shy to go up and introduce myself. Hi! Setting up a plan to accidently bump in to her is too much work. Plus it's dishonest. Why try to trick someone into meeting you? Try walking up and introducing yourself. Tell her that you've been admiring her and would like to get to know her. It's honest and it shows that you are willing to take chances without hiding behind some sort of scheme. Link to post Share on other sites
MaRcouRiuZ Posted March 17, 2000 Share Posted March 17, 2000 Now if you want her to fall in love with you forevermore, buy or borrow a camera... You can't make someone fall in love with you! Or do you really think carying a camera around is what makes a casanova? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted March 18, 2000 Share Posted March 18, 2000 Shirley: He's already said in his initial post that he is too shy to walk up and talk to her. I am a man and I understand this. Working to "accidentally" run into someone is NOT dishonest, it is a strategy. You have got to take the responsibility for being at the right place at the right time. I can tell you first hand...it's how I met the love of my life and she is so grateful and flattered that I took the time to plan the strategy to meet her. You take this stuff too seriously. Loosen up on love and have some fun!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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