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If any knows a place i can go on the internet or any tips/faqs on getting over a major porn addicition, you could really help my friends marriage. They are ready to break up over this problem please if you got any helpful remarks on this topic. He has tried quitting by himself and its just not working please help!!:(

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what the hell is a porn addiction? That sounds like a load of crap to me. Watch it or don't watch it. As Yoda said in Star Wars, "do or don't do, there is no try". I suppose you might not need it if you are in a healthy sexual relationship, but if your not getting any it is sure hard to get yourself off without any fantasy. I think there is only so hot a person can get over their own body.

 

I think one can even argue that sex is fantasy based. Without the fantasy what do you have? To human beings climbing on top of each other and inserting a peg into a hole. It kind of ruins the whole thing if there is no fantasy. How often are romance novels based on fantasy, and I don't hear the more tight assed people on here complain about them. Sex is the devil. Porn is the devil. Thats what they want you to believe so that you don't have sex and so you buy porn and so they make money off the porn. I believe there is an international agenda to make porn look like a thing that only bad people or perverts would use and then at the same time make money off of it. Its like a huge double standard. If its so evil then why not outlaw it?

 

To a point, I would say that porn gets boring after a while. How long can you really want to watch two people that you don't even know having sex? Its kind of lame, but it can be used as a tool to get off and I do think there is anything wrong or unhealthy about it if it is used in moderation. Maybe if the dude is addicted to and watches it all the time he will eventually get bored of it and his addiction will fly out the window like yesterdays news. I had a friend that said the only difference between a habit and an addiction is that one is legal and the other one is not. Maybe he went a little far with this but he made his point.

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Originally posted by superd

I think one can even argue that sex is fantasy based. Without the fantasy what do you have? To human beings climbing on top of each other and inserting a peg into a hole. It kind of ruins the whole thing if there is no fantasy.

 

Uh... Are you a virgin? If you honestly think that little of sex.. My, my, my...

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