He invited me to his house.

[Lizzie60]

Good point!! What about the neighbours????

 

I didn't see any neighbours.. we could have invite them in for a little 'orgy'..

[pollywag]

I didn't see any neighbours.. we could have invite them in for a little 'orgy'

You mean a threegie or a fourgie?

[Lizzie60]

You mean a threegie or a fourgie?

 

yep..

[herenow]

No.. he had more reasons to be.. so if he was relaxed then why should I have been nervous.. we were outside in the hot tub.. then inside.. he knew there was no chance for anyone to drop by... His kids were gone to the cottage as well.

 

Maybe he was so relaxed because you aren't the first or only OW he has brought home. Seems to me that if it were his first time doing this sort of thing, he would be a bit nervous.

 

Or, maybe his wife doesn't like to have sex with him because she doesn't find him attractive and she is aware of his actions. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what you find attractive may not be the same for someone else. Just because she isn't into her H, dosn't mean that his wife wouldn't be all over a man that she finds attractive. Maybe she is!

 

Many here have said that MM stay for kids or money, etc, maybe this woman is staying because she likes her newly renovated house, her cottage and her new hot tub and Lizzie is taking care of the part that the W wants nothing to do with. Or, she is staying because she is a great mother. If it works for MM then it certainly should work for a BW.

[OpenBook]

Whew! With every post in this thread, I understand more and more why men cheat on their W's. Lizzie, I'm glad nothing bad happened when you were over there. I suspect your MM achieved what he set out to accomplish - great memories to associate with the house. Every time he looks at that hot tub, he can think of you and be happy. It makes his M bearable.

[herenow]

Whew! With every post in this thread, I understand more and more why men cheat on their W's. Lizzie, I'm glad nothing bad happened when you were over there. I suspect your MM achieved what he set out to accomplish - great memories to associate with the house. Every time he looks at that hot tub, he can think of you and be happy. It makes his M bearable.

 

I agree 100%, all is well that ends well. The MM got what he wanted, Lizzie got what she wanted and more than likely the W is getting what she wants. The more posts I read in this thread, the more I understand as well.

[Tony]

When threads start getting inappropriate they get closed. This one's been beat to death and let's let it rest now. Please try to be civil and on topic wherever you go from here in the forums. Thank you!