Redbull Rider Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 i say go for it. i mean youre already "doing it" (you cant say screw or drop the f-bomb on here right?) with her husband am i right? why not go chill in her hot-tub and try on a couple of her dresses while youre at it? i'm sure that cant be worse than what youre already doing. *shrug* Link to post Share on other sites
Mino Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 Are they really? Or are the in fact evil blood sucking blobs ready to jump at you, latch onto your throat and suck and suck and suck until it can suck no more. And then it decapitates you. :bunny: Are you smoking something? just wondering, your scary:bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 Are you smoking something? just wondering, your scary:bunny: You're scared because you think I will set the bunnies on you. It's okay, I don't have that much power. Or do I... Link to post Share on other sites
Agent_99 Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 I haven't seen my MM from work for a few weeks now.. I've been too busy and he was on holidays for 2 weeks... anyway.. this morning, I told him (msn) that I started to see someone else (my east indian guy)... he said he knew something was 'up' ... since I wasn't too 'talkative' recently.. (emails, msn, etc.)... He came to my office this morning.. he was kind of 'desperate' to see me again.. asked me for tomorrow afternoon.. I said that I was busy... He's been 'texting' me all evening.. and he just 'invited' me to his place this weekend.. he got a new hot tub.. and wants to 'try' it with me... I haven't said yes yet.. I said I would think about it.. not sure I want to go there.. what if... Has anyone been to the MM's house? Hi Lizzie, I will try to give you some constructive feedback. First if you are emotionally attached (in love) with this guy I would say NO. From experience it is not easy to see the life that he has with his wife. Second even though I was 'friends' with MW and her partner we never did anything except kiss in thier house and even that I feel guilty about still. Not only that but it was really akward for me cause the whole time I was wondering if they had kissed in the same spot. If he is just some sort of fling, I would also say NO. He is more than a fling to his wife, even if they have a terrible marriage. And for him to want you in their space says something about his rebellion against their marriage. I hope this helps in some way. It's just from my experience, ultimately you have to decide if your okay with it. ~99 Link to post Share on other sites
awkward Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 Go for it! Maybe the wife will catch his cheating ass. Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 I haven't seen my MM from work for a few weeks now.. I've been too busy and he was on holidays for 2 weeks... anyway.. this morning, I told him (msn) that I started to see someone else (my east indian guy)... he said he knew something was 'up' ... since I wasn't too 'talkative' recently.. (emails, msn, etc.)... He came to my office this morning.. he was kind of 'desperate' to see me again.. asked me for tomorrow afternoon.. I said that I was busy... He's been 'texting' me all evening.. and he just 'invited' me to his place this weekend.. he got a new hot tub.. and wants to 'try' it with me... I haven't said yes yet.. I said I would think about it.. not sure I want to go there.. what if... Has anyone been to the MM's house? It is nerve-wracking. Can't believe I did that. You just never know when someone is coming home early... Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 It is nerve-wracking. Can't believe I did that. You just never know when someone is coming home early... Someone? Like who? The maid? The nanny? Or did you mean the wife and/or kids? Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 Are you smoking something? just wondering, your scary:bunny: Oh CE is not scary! She's a sweetheart... but if you mess with her sweethearts then...... Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 Someone? Like who? The maid? The nanny? Or did you mean the wife and/or kids? Ha ha! Yes, exactly. Could have been anyone such as the wife, the adult kids dropping by for a visit, the maid, the neighbor, the OOWs, lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Nevermind Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 So. You don't love the guy, you're seeing and servicing lots of people on the side. You told him you are seeing somebody else, so he knows it's about to end. Are you really that desperate to get into a hot tub? Woman, buy yourself one and spare that schmuck's wife the heartbreak. Seriously. Link to post Share on other sites
OWoman Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 Has anyone been to the MM's house? Yes. It's a nice house, but if we do wind up living there, it's going to need a complete rework. All her old lady decorating and kitsch will have to go. She really has appalling taste - MM aside, but she dedicated her life to breaking down what he was to reconstruct him as something else anyway - and luckily MM and I have similar taste so we'd both be happy to have a huge bonfire before getting stuck in with paintbrushes and screwdrivers. I was struck the first time I went to the house by how invisible he was there. Everything - the furnishings, the decorating, the pictures, everything - was her. His stuff was crammed into his bedroom. Even the kids occupied more space - bedrooms, studies, landings, bathrooms. Friends who'd stayed with them had confirmed that, that he was like a lodger or a servant confined to his quarters, while she oozed out over the whole house. When he left, he bought all new stuff for his rented place, rather than taking anything from the house other than his clothes and personal effects, because there was literally nothing he wanted to take. The kids of brought their stuff across to the new place but they also didn't want to bring anything that would remind them of her. Link to post Share on other sites
OpenBook Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 ...for him to want you in their space says something about his rebellion against their marriage. I agree. He must be really mad at his W to do something like this. Be careful, Lizzie. He may be trying to use you as a weapon against his W. And if/when this all blows up in their face, you have no idea what the W is going to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted July 24, 2008 Author Share Posted July 24, 2008 It is nerve-wracking. Can't believe I did that. You just never know when someone is coming home early... Exactly.. that's what I was concerned with.. what if someone shows up at the door... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted July 24, 2008 Author Share Posted July 24, 2008 Yes. It's a nice house, but if we do wind up living there, it's going to need a complete rework. All her old lady decorating and kitsch will have to go. She really has appalling taste - MM aside, but she dedicated her life to breaking down what he was to reconstruct him as something else anyway - and luckily MM and I have similar taste so we'd both be happy to have a huge bonfire before getting stuck in with paintbrushes and screwdrivers. I was struck the first time I went to the house by how invisible he was there. Everything - the furnishings, the decorating, the pictures, everything - was her. His stuff was crammed into his bedroom. Even the kids occupied more space - bedrooms, studies, landings, bathrooms. Friends who'd stayed with them had confirmed that, that he was like a lodger or a servant confined to his quarters, while she oozed out over the whole house. When he left, he bought all new stuff for his rented place, rather than taking anything from the house other than his clothes and personal effects, because there was literally nothing he wanted to take. The kids of brought their stuff across to the new place but they also didn't want to bring anything that would remind them of her. Yes I'm a bit curious about the 'decoration' ... He has told me so much about his house... he is doing major renovations.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted July 24, 2008 Author Share Posted July 24, 2008 I agree. He must be really mad at his W to do something like this. Be careful, Lizzie. He may be trying to use you as a weapon against his W. And if/when this all blows up in their face, you have no idea what the W is going to do. Not at all.. he's not mad at her.. he's just 'desperate' to see me.. we haven't been together for maybe 3 weeks now.. I keep turning him down.. so I guess he's wants to come up with something 'new'... I didn't say I would go.. In fact, it's not about the 'home'... I'm just not sure if I'll be around.. I'm sooo freaken busy these days.. plus I'm babysitting my little angel this weekend... He wants me to stay overnight.. If I go, I won't stay for the night. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted July 24, 2008 Author Share Posted July 24, 2008 May I ask, Lizzie60, what would you get out of going to his house? a 'hot tub' session... followed of course by sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Nevermind Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 He wants me to stay overnight How is that supposed to work? a 'hot tub' session... followed of course by sex. You get sex from your clients, and the money to buy your own hot tub. What's the real deal? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted July 24, 2008 Author Share Posted July 24, 2008 How is that supposed to work? He will be 'home alone'... You get sex from your clients, and the money to buy your own hot tub. What's the real deal? Money..yes, but no room for it.. (plus I don't want the hassle of a hot tub or a pool)... Who can say they have too much sex!!! Link to post Share on other sites
ShouldveKnownBetter Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 From experience, I would say don't go. If you flip through the other posts, you can see my recent disaster with my MM & his BS. Well, I had gone to his house to teach his children how to swim... and I will tell you that came back to BITE ME a million times... even though I didn't set foot in the house and had a very platonic visit. (She had known I was there but apparently had thought I was "just a friend"... though I didn't know that at the time). When he initially asked me over there, I laughed at him and said "Are you kidding?" Then I rationalized it - thinking, "Well, he's asked me there, so what an extension of himself." Bad idea. If I could take back ONE THING in that "relationship" - that was it... more than the emotional attachment, more than the sex, etc. Think about that one loooooooong and hard! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted July 24, 2008 Author Share Posted July 24, 2008 From experience, I would say don't go. If you flip through the other posts, you can see my recent disaster with my MM & his BS. Well, I had gone to his house to teach his children how to swim... and I will tell you that came back to BITE ME a million times... even though I didn't set foot in the house and had a very platonic visit. (She had known I was there but apparently had thought I was "just a friend"... though I didn't know that at the time). When he initially asked me over there, I laughed at him and said "Are you kidding?" Then I rationalized it - thinking, "Well, he's asked me there, so what an extension of himself." Bad idea. If I could take back ONE THING in that "relationship" - that was it... more than the emotional attachment, more than the sex, etc. Think about that one loooooooong and hard! Sorry I don't know your story... but I would think that if this is NOT important for him... then why would it be for me.. a house is a house, a bed is a bed... I have absolutely no 'emotional strings' to that place.. he should have.. not me... so if it's not a big deal for him.. Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 Are they really? Or are the in fact evil blood sucking blobs ready to jump at you, latch onto your throat and suck and suck and suck until it can suck no more. And then it decapitates you. :bunny: Huh??? Bunnies decapitate people:eek:. I just thought they were tasty. Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 I agree. He must be really mad at his W to do something like this. Be careful, Lizzie. He may be trying to use you as a weapon against his W. And if/when this all blows up in their face, you have no idea what the W is going to do. Definately pissed at the wife. Even dogs don't mess in their own homes. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 I give it a go!!! Yuck Lizzie.... her house,, why would you even want to go there???? That is really a place that is off limits... Give the woman some respect!! You're joking, right? Link to post Share on other sites
Mino Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 You're scared because you think I will set the bunnies on you. It's okay, I don't have that much power. Or do I...:lmao: WOW,, I didn't know bunnies could do all that! Link to post Share on other sites
a4a Posted July 24, 2008 Share Posted July 24, 2008 Lizzie I don't see the issue. You are already playing with the guys wee wee behind the wifes back so what if you lay in her bed and put her pantyhose on too. Obviously you have no feelings for the situation so why even question it. "no strings" right? Now don't go and start being one of those empathetic people on us!! This is like a burglar stealing the jewels out of the safe (pun intended) but worried about stealing the silver place settings. I hope the sheets are clean and you aren't rollin' around in last nights marital splooge. EWWWWW If you get busted think of how much this guy will end up chasing you even more....... you can bolster your ego a bit if you do get caught. His wife will know she isn't enough for him herself and he needs you to make him feel like a man. Be as bold as you already are. Link to post Share on other sites
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