underpants Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Awesome, I agree with Owl. She is smart, and she has all of your information. What will she do??? If not her what will her friend do??? You are getting there. Keep on, keeping on. Link to post Share on other sites
GPFan Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 I am truly indifferent to the Ws... I have seen a few of them.. one (my young MM) is cute... the other (MM from work) is the ugliest woman i've ever seen in my life.. she has a horse face.. really.. she looks like a man dressed with women's clothes.. unbelievable.. I don't understand why he would even want to have sex with her.. eewwww.... I never said she was 'deficient' about my ex W.. I said she was an idiot for what she said to his kids..I should clarify. In prior posts, you have written that the 'cute' wife had a "big butt," you mention here the "horse face" wife and now the "idiot" wife. That you made the effort to create posts outlining these deficiencies (meaning inadequacies in one way or another) of these women to a group of anonymous people is telling. You hold neither the MM nor marriage itself in high regard. Would this be a safe assumption? I do not believe in marriage, never did, never will.. (unless it's ya financial aspect).. then why not.. I don't believe in being faithful to one person all your life. it's not natural, IMO. I know I am in the minority to think that.. but what can I say.. You are a walkaway wife, yes? In the context of what you say here, I have to surmise that you walked away with a fair bit of money. Never is an absolute term. In fact you agree there is at least one compelling reason to marry and that is to gain a large sum of money, yes? Do you like men in general? Yes I love men... This assumption makes me laugh.. Why would a woman who loves sex, loves men, (married or not) would hate men... You could say the opposite too, that I hate women... but I don't. I love everybody.. and everybody loves me.. except a few LSs... Yes, on the surface, it would appear you love men as long as they have to resources to justify your love. All human love is conditional in my opinion so you are not alone in applying conditions. Once again, I must apologise for not being clear. I should have added "deep down" or "at your core." Biographies and interviews with prominent female members of the sex industry have consistently revealed a deep distrust and dislike of men amongst these women. The only exception I know of is Xaviera Hollander AKA The Happy Hooker. I have observed you reveal this very same distrust of men in several of your posts. I am wondering how deep this goes. Link to post Share on other sites
GPFan Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 May I? Infidelity is a special case because it involves another person.. not a bottle, a pill, or a gold club.. but a real person who you are attracted to .. very much.Of course you may! What about the MM here who have posted that the other woman in their case was nothing more than a living, breathing blow-up sex doll? Surely in those cases a marriage could overcome? Or is it still hopeless? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted July 25, 2008 Author Share Posted July 25, 2008 Lizzie my lamb, in the times I have been on LS off and on I keep seeing you as the Mary Magdalene of modern times. People love to hate you around here for your simplicity in looking at life, for your devotion to men, and for your free nature and candour, for your sincere happiness. Much like Mary Magadalene, who sat at the feet of Jesus and poured upon his head oils and bathed his feet with her tears, she stayed close to him and learned from him ultimately and became enligtened. It is out of jealousy and hate that people show you sings of hatred around here because only those that condemn the most are unhappiest. When I see you I see ease, I see pleasure and I see happiness and this is ultimately the biggest threat to the commoners. Your proximity to men and abilty to keep them coming back to you time and time again due to the level of understanding you have for them is something the average woman is bound to envy with great fervour. Take it a compliment when those lash out at you. OMG.. Polly... wow.. just WOW.. You know me so well.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted July 25, 2008 Author Share Posted July 25, 2008 Of course you may! What about the MM here who have posted that the other woman in their case was nothing more than a living, breathing blow-up sex doll? Surely in those cases a marriage could overcome? Or is it still hopeless? It's never all this or all that.. some men WILL leave their W and kids to be with the OW.. some won't .. but not because they don't want to.. there are zillions of reasons why they don't.. or won't.. Link to post Share on other sites
OWoman Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Can anyone explain why it is some OWs are so absolutely infuriated by spouses who stay after discovery? Is it because the goal is to break up the marriage so they feel they have failed? I have read a fair number of OWs here who have issues with marriage in general. Could it be that the very idea of any marriage surviving is anathema to them? Are they on a mission to show the rest of the world what a horror marriage is? Are there failed marriages in their own past? There probably isn't any one answer, I am sure, but it is an interesting phenomena! AFAIK I am the only OW who has "issues with marriage in general" here - certainly the only one I'm aware of. And my ideas on marriage existed long before any marriage of my own. But I'm sure you'll also see, if you read my posts, that "the very idea of any marriage surviving" is not anathema to me, nor does that shape what I post to those who clearly do believe in M or want their M to survive. So I'm not sure who is being referred to in this rather complex composite picture you've painted. (and, for the record, the singular is "phenomenon"; "Phenomena" is the plural form and would take the pronoun "they" and the verb "are".) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted July 25, 2008 Author Share Posted July 25, 2008 AFAIK I am the only OW who has "issues with marriage in general" here - certainly the only one I'm aware of. And my ideas on marriage existed long before any marriage of my own. But I'm sure you'll also see, if you read my posts, that "the very idea of any marriage surviving" is not anathema to me, nor does that shape what I post to those who clearly do believe in M or want their M to survive. So I'm not sure who is being referred to in this rather complex composite picture you've painted. (and, for the record, the singular is "phenomenon"; "Phenomena" is the plural form and would take the pronoun "they" and the verb "are".) scuse me... what does 'AFAIK' stands for? Link to post Share on other sites
GPFan Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 Of course you may! What about the MM here who have posted that the other woman in their case was nothing more than a living, breathing blow-up sex doll? Surely in those cases a marriage could overcome? Or is it still hopeless? It's never all this or all that.. some men WILL leave their W and kids to be with the OW.. some won't .. but not because they don't want to.. there are zillions of reasons why they don't.. or won't..Oh dear, I am having trouble with the clarity of my communication today. Must be something in the air! Let me rephrase my question... In the case where the MM truly feels that the other woman in his case was, for whatever reason, a marital aid or living, breathing blow-up sex doll is there any hope for recovering the marriage? Or is it hopeless no matter the underlying reason as long as it is infidelity? Link to post Share on other sites
GPFan Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 AFAIK I am the only OW who has "issues with marriage in general" here - certainly the only one I'm aware of. And my ideas on marriage existed long before any marriage of my own. But I'm sure you'll also see, if you read my posts, that "the very idea of any marriage surviving" is not anathema to me, nor does that shape what I post to those who clearly do believe in M or want their M to survive. So I'm not sure who is being referred to in this rather complex composite picture you've painted.No, I do not believe you are the only one. You are the only one who has clearly stated your position. I wasn't thinking of you at all when I wrote that. (and, for the record, the singular is "phenomenon"; "Phenomena" is the plural form and would take the pronoun "they" and the verb "are".)Yes, I caught this typo too late for correction. I do try to craft my posts so they are clear and understandable. I am having trouble with this today. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted July 25, 2008 Author Share Posted July 25, 2008 Oh dear, I am having trouble with the clarity of my communication today. Must be something in the air! Let me rephrase my question... In the case where the MM truly feels that the other woman in his case was, for whatever reason, a marital aid or living, breathing blow-up sex doll is there any hope for recovering the marriage? Or is it hopeless no matter the underlying reason as long as it is infidelity? No..it's not you.. it's probably me.. sometimes I don't get the idea behind the post.. French is my first language.. hope for recovering the marriage.. humm. I would say that in a lot of cases, the MM doesn't see anything wrong with is marriage except that he doesn't get as much sex as he would like to.. so even if he sees the OW for sex only.. in his mind.. his marriage is OK.. no problem.. but IMO.. once they start to cheat.. they will always be tempted no matter how much counselling they get or how much they work on their M.. it's in them.. they had the 'fruit défendu'.. and they will want it again. Link to post Share on other sites
OWoman Posted July 25, 2008 Share Posted July 25, 2008 scuse me... what does 'AFAIK' stands for? As far as I know Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted July 25, 2008 Author Share Posted July 25, 2008 As far as I know Oh OK.. thanks.. Link to post Share on other sites
Lishy Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 Art critic If you read lizzies posts she comes up with mad cap senarios. It appears she has no life apart from cleaning her whole trailer park if you read other posts by her. Sex for gifts and large sums of money!. Maybe you do wear lots of white makeup and have a goofy smile maybe you have lots of clown pics in your younger days but Lizzie changes her pic and its all younger females apart from the time she put up a real pic maybe by accident? Ok, let us see YOUR pic!!!!! Come on dont be shy, let us all pick fault in you! I dare you Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted July 26, 2008 Author Share Posted July 26, 2008 Ok, let us see YOUR pic!!!!! Come on dont be shy, let us all pick fault in you! I dare you yep.. me too I would looove to see her pic... I honestly don't know how I could post a pic 'by accident'... Link to post Share on other sites
Tony Posted July 26, 2008 Senior Moderators Share Posted July 26, 2008 As in every thread, after the first ten or fifteen posts only a small percentage of posts are on topic....then, after a while things get mean spirited, insults fly and nastiness begins. Time to close this one down! Link to post Share on other sites
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