Author foxh1234 Posted July 27, 2008 Author Share Posted July 27, 2008 That's what I am talking about right there!!!!!!! Good for you. You know something Fox, YOU AND I ARE BOTH GREAT GUYS!! This is a beautiful example of what happens when you take advantage of that guy!! May she be in more pain than she can possibly bear because of the hurt and pain she served you on a cold dish!! Well said IOB. I don't know if she is in pain and to be honest, it's not my problem. I didn't start any of this, but I sure as hell can end it. Link to post Share on other sites
Gala Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 ...is that she could contact you again. It seems that she's trying desperation/escalation to see if you'll change your mind. And that won't necessarily stop unless you tell her please not to contact you. Sure, you can block her e-mail address without responding to her, but there's still the phone, or more surprise visits (ambushes, if you will). Yes, one of the ironic -- but sweet -- rewards of N/C is that of not wanting them anymore by the time they decide they need you. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 Well said IOB. I don't know if she is in pain and to be honest, it's not my problem. I didn't start any of this, but I sure as hell can end it. I'm proud of you, Fox. Remember, she LEFT you to boink another guy. She had NO REGARD for YOU or YOUR FEELINGS when she did this. Then she MOVED IN with the guy. What is she? 19? That's the most asinine, stupid, irrrational kind of behavior I can think of. And now she regrets her decision? OH-FREAKING-WELL!! You make dumb-arse choices, you LIVE with them. It's not YOUR responsibility to fix her mistakes. Boo hoo. So she made a bad decision. Maybe THIS is the lesson she needs in life to learn that she can not take people for granted and expect them to just welcome them back with open arms. Link to post Share on other sites
Author foxh1234 Posted July 27, 2008 Author Share Posted July 27, 2008 I'm proud of you, Fox. Remember, she LEFT you to boink another guy. She had NO REGARD for YOU or YOUR FEELINGS when she did this. Then she MOVED IN with the guy. What is she? 19? That's the most asinine, stupid, irrrational kind of behavior I can think of. And now she regrets her decision? OH-FREAKING-WELL!! You make dumb-arse choices, you LIVE with them. It's not YOUR responsibility to fix her mistakes. Boo hoo. So she made a bad decision. Maybe THIS is the lesson she needs in life to learn that she can not take people for granted and expect them to just welcome them back with open arms. Thanks CG, I feel better now than earlier today. I still have feelings for her as crazy as that sounds, but I will never take back a cheater, never. Link to post Share on other sites
JustinWolf Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Yo Fox, could you do me a favor? Try knocking your balls with your hands and check if they are making a metal sound. I've been reading your story for a while and you're doing everything that's good. Keep it up, balls of steal. Link to post Share on other sites
wareagle Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 You are my hero Fox!!! My ****ing HERO!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 I would suggest adding her name and email address to the spam filters so you don't even see it again. Hope she gets the hint and does not change her email address and tries contact. Honestly just ignore her. If she calls, don't answer. If she shows up, don't answer the door. If you need to go out while she sits outside, just walk past her. Link to post Share on other sites
orangehose Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Your ex sounds unstable and incredibly selfish. She doesn't know what to do with herself, how to be alone and face her mistakes and guilt, and so she's desperately begging for you. But now that you know what she's capable of, it would be a total mistake to take her back. I know I'm just re-stating the obvious, but it never hurts to hear it one more time. Fox, you are doing a FANTASTIC job and keep up the good work! Link to post Share on other sites
Daisyloo Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Wow Fox! When I grow up I want to be just like you lol! Seriously though, you're doing what so many of us daren't/can't/won't and reading your posts just now has certainly given me food for thought AND strength. Well done and thank you Xxx Link to post Share on other sites
justaman99 Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 She's going to write and call again. It's just a matter of time. Link to post Share on other sites
Author foxh1234 Posted July 28, 2008 Author Share Posted July 28, 2008 Yo Fox, could you do me a favor? Try knocking your balls with your hands and check if they are making a metal sound. I've been reading your story for a while and you're doing everything that's good. Keep it up, balls of steal. LMAO!!!!! They are going to be blue pretty soon if I don't get a little more action!!!;) Thanks for the encouragement. Link to post Share on other sites
Author foxh1234 Posted July 28, 2008 Author Share Posted July 28, 2008 You are my hero Fox!!! My ****ing HERO!!!!!! Thanks War, I'm just doing what I have to do. I can't see any future with someone who cheated on me. There is no point in even trying to work it out. I am done with her. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Yep. She's good. No one can resist her. Improve your silence sandwich. Another path of lesser resistance will open for her and you'll be off her mind. Cherish the day Link to post Share on other sites
Author foxh1234 Posted July 28, 2008 Author Share Posted July 28, 2008 She's going to write and call again. It's just a matter of time. She has called my cell 9 times so far. I can't turn it off as I am on call tonight, I just have to grin and bear it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author foxh1234 Posted July 28, 2008 Author Share Posted July 28, 2008 I just want to thank everyone for their concern and advice through all of this. I was not this strong until YOU ALL HELPED ME. Thank you so much. Now make her stop calling, it is starting to bug me. Link to post Share on other sites
Peter_pan Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 good work matey x block her from your phone !! Link to post Share on other sites
JustinWolf Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 She's going to write and call again. It's just a matter of time. Yes, she will call again. E-mail again. So what? Ignore and that's it. Eventually, she'll get tired of it. Link to post Share on other sites
ioncebelieved Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 She has called my cell 9 times so far. I can't turn it off as I am on call tonight, I just have to grin and bear it. My God this one is ruthless!!! Man, she plain and simple is getting everything she deserves!! 9 times, Yo, Ms. Sorryassdense, get a clue already!! Honestly, all kidding aside Fox, like others and I have stated, You are the man!!! Guess what? She now gets to see what a REAL MAN is!! I hope that I could be like you if I ever get the chance. Mine did some pretty hurtful things, but Yours has mine beat. Link to post Share on other sites
tinke Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Are you able to put a call block on your cell phone? Link to post Share on other sites
Author foxh1234 Posted July 28, 2008 Author Share Posted July 28, 2008 Are you able to put a call block on your cell phone? Hi, I don't know. I am going to call Rogers tomorrow and find out. I am too tired and sad tonight to bother. Link to post Share on other sites
CHANTRESS Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Hey Fox.....as a woman I have to say I do respect your stance.You have endured a LOT...your ex has a lot of nerve to do this to you..but you are dealing with it like a man.. not like a P whipped little boy. Good for you.You deserve SO much more.....Maybe you will be the one person in her life who DOESN'T take her sh*t!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author foxh1234 Posted July 28, 2008 Author Share Posted July 28, 2008 good work matey x block her from your phone !! Thanks PP, I hope I can do it tomorrow. Link to post Share on other sites
Author foxh1234 Posted July 28, 2008 Author Share Posted July 28, 2008 I would suggest adding her name and email address to the spam filters so you don't even see it again. Hope she gets the hint and does not change her email address and tries contact. Honestly just ignore her. If she calls, don't answer. If she shows up, don't answer the door. If you need to go out while she sits outside, just walk past her. Hi Jerbear, I have blocked her on email, I just have to block her on my phones tomorrow. Thanks for the advice and comments. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Fox, stay strong. DO NOT LISTEN TO HER! Link to post Share on other sites
Author foxh1234 Posted July 28, 2008 Author Share Posted July 28, 2008 Your ex sounds unstable and incredibly selfish. She doesn't know what to do with herself, how to be alone and face her mistakes and guilt, and so she's desperately begging for you. But now that you know what she's capable of, it would be a total mistake to take her back. I know I'm just re-stating the obvious, but it never hurts to hear it one more time. Fox, you are doing a FANTASTIC job and keep up the good work! Thanks alot OH, I really appreciate the kind words. Link to post Share on other sites
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